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joyrider
Over 90 days ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 54
Bi-curious White/Caucasian Female, 54
0 km · KwaZulu Natal
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that what people write in their profile can sometime just put a person off. what i mean is a person can read in the profile especially when they have a long story to tell that person or cpl has had a bad experience or that they think they are gods gift and everyone must bow down to them.
In the end everyone's expectation is the same to have sex, the only thing a person is really looking for is to see if you all can get along
I feel for you and fully understand where from you are coming. Where there are kids involved it seems to be the norm for arranged sex.
We met a lovely cpl over Dec. the first meet was in public and 3 days later it was arranged sex. Like in (I mean guys) We only have 1 hour and 30min to do it in. So yes it does feel like wam bam thank you mam, but if you become friends with the cpl with kids and all, you kind of understand the scenario and work around the issues.
I feel the same as you, but hey as time goes on it becomes better, I think so and hope so. 
As far as the bedroom problem I think you must try the hat on the door handle and tell the kids when they see the hat on the door handle they must know you and mommy is going to sleep late and don't want to be disturbed. It worked for us.
As far as the bedroom problem I think you must try the hat on the door handle and tell the kids when they see the hat on the door handle they must know you and mommy is going to sleep late and don't want to be disturbed. It worked for us. Now I have a few positions that runs through my mind!!!! Try the position of cowgirl where both of your faces is facing to the front. (Don't know if this position is called cowgirl too) but I get on top of hubby my face facing towards his feet, and my back facing him, he lies on his back with his legs closed, my legs in a kneeling position on the sides of him, but I can moved my lower body like I want to. You can play with yourself or even play with his balls, while you decide how fast or slow your lower body goes. If he opens his legs and you put your legs in the middle and you rest your arms behind on his chest or next to him on the sides, your lower body can go up and down with your legs straight making it tighter for him and he can moved with or keep his bottom tight which will make it just as nice but he will not be able to hold back for long, as you will basicly milk him dry!!!!!!!!!
Another good position which is nice, is the following. Lady lying on her back legs open he is on his knees this way he can hold his rod and slide it over the clit and then every now and then take a dip in side, and then move over the clit again, he teases the clit with his rod. That is amazing. The secret is the lady must be clean shaven other wise the man will hurt him self on the hair. A little lubricant can be used also, just to get the sliding effect right.
Another nice position is (which someone refer to as the froggie style), with that position he then can go in ever deeper than normal.
The last position is where a lady lay on her back legs closed he climbs over the lady, he then slides his rod over the clit and then just before the lady cum's he slides in between her legs into the virgina while the ladies legs is still closed.
Hope this will give some of the people ideas to try out. :twisted: :twisted: :lol: :lol:
joy from joyrider
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joy from joyrider aaaaaaaa how do i answer this.
i give her a good muff then put it in and while we are doing it i watch her reactions while we are doing it and then move according to her reaction. diep and shallow.
you know this is a difficult question to answer when according to me all i do is what i always do.
okay the question the was asked and it was answered. now the next question is......
do women like the thin man that looks like a "earth worm with a hand break" or the men that always answers "a big nail needs a big hammer"
okay there is 2 question.
the 2 question is is the one where the men always talk about the big nail true?
now came on ladies dont say size dose not matter. we have had an in counter were the husband was smaller than me. and after the get together the man got hold of us complaining his wife does not want him to touch her. i told him they must sort out their problem before we ever meet again.
the 2 question is is the one where the men always talk about the big nail true?
now came on ladies dont say size dose not matter. we have had an in counter were the husband was smaller than me. and after the get together the man got hold of us complaining his wife does not want him to touch her. i told him they must sort out their problem before we ever meet again. 
:dunno::dunno::dunno::dunno:hi there
on your first question i think where the swing kills the relationship the answer is maybe the communication between the cpl involved is not right or they are doing it for the wrong reason. if a person does swing there must be GOOD communication and it must be done to spice up ones sex life and not to see if the other person does it better than your husband or wife. it must be fun and not a competition.
well just an idea
hi gerrie,
with the last posting it seemed as if i offended many people that is why i removed it . i am not here to make enemies but to try and find some friends. and the fact that some people confuse me with someone else. well did not go down right. so once again i am sorry if i offended some people but when the people read the threads i think you call it they should stick to the content of the thread and not take a personal attack on the person that placed the thread. especially when they confuse a person with another.
thank you
rider
hi gerrie,
with the last posting it seemed as if i offended many people that is why i removed it . i am not here to make enemies but to try and find some friends. and the fact that some people confuse me with someone else. well did not go down right. so once again i am sorry if i offended some people but when the people read the threads i think you call it they should stick to the content of the thread and not take a personal attack on the person that placed the thread. especially when they confuse a person with another.
thank you
rider
i agree with what you say. but you said something which made me think. in general are ladies cleaner than men? and yes before MRS P has something to say here. and MRS P before you read wrong again my wife and i are VERY CLEAN. just sit and think compare mens public toilets to womens.
it is nice if all parties clean themself's just before the fun starts it is unfair to say men that has been cut is in general cleaner than men that is not cut. it is the same then when a person says the following (which by the way i heared from a lady who made a comment about another lady) bo blink onder stink.
i just think it goes from person to person. how clean they want to be!!!!!
now again for the women that can not handle the truth. my mommy always said if the shoe fits wear it!!!!!!!!!!
rider
when answering you MUST make sure you quote and wash the right peoples washing. and not get mix one persons problem with another MRS P. 
all i did is see what happens if a person lets a cat lose in between the pigeons. and sorry if i offened you and mac. but to think you can confuse me with some other man that has erection problems.
all i did is see what happens if a person lets a cat lose in between the pigeons. and sorry if i offened you and mac. but to think you can confuse me with some other man that has erection problems. Hi all
Pussinboots I do not talk dirty in the bed room my mouth is too busy to talk. :lol: I do not even have a nick name for what my lovely wife's .......... Maybe I am just trying too hard to be a gentleman. the only time I do use those words is when I get road rage. :lol: :lol:
Maybe I am not like all men or maybe I am defective. Who knows :lol: :lol:
Rider
:lol: I do not even have a nick name for what my lovely wife's .......... Maybe I am just trying too hard to be a gentleman. the only time I do use those words is when I get road rage. :lol: :lol:
Maybe I am not like all men or maybe I am defective. Who knows :lol: :lol:
Rider 