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jmatthews1972
1 hour ago
Straight Mixed Race Male, 51
0 km · Western Cape

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Lee, you ain't seen nuthin' yet. A couple of years ago, we used to be called Diggers because we frequented a news aggregator site called Digg. Then Digg changed some stuff that a lot of people were not happy about and then everyone turned and then reddit. Reddit can be a dangerous place too. With the Boston bombings a few months ago, the resident couch detectives/sleuths began to agree on a name of the youngest bomber. It started blossoming outwards and eventually this guy was clued into the fact that a lot of people believed he was the youngest brother. Comments started showing up on his FB page and this guy eventually killed himself. It turned out it wasn't him. Another major thing that is happening right now, began it's life in one of the creative writing sections. This guy started writing a short story about a division of the US Army going back 2000 years to just outside Rome, and the implications and military strategy, etc that the US and Rome would employ. Some Hollywood guy is a redditor as well, and he read the story. It is being turned into a Hollywood blockbuster. One of the biggest places on there is called I AMA. In my case, it would be : I am a IT network engineer, Ask Me Anything. One of the best ones was :I am Barrack Obama, Ask Me Anything. He posted a pic of himself at his laptop browsing reddit. There are subsections (sub-reddits) for anything you can think of. The default (safe) subreddits are on top of the page but the others you should be able to find. These are there too: r/swingers, r/cuckold, r/hotwife, r/wifesharing Just be warned that it is highly addictive.
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Hi Joyrider, your cum is determined by what you eat, and no, you didn't miss reading a word. The texture, consistency, volume and taste is determined by what you eat. That icky, thick, snot-like consistency comes from not drinking enough water. Also, eating lots of celery makes it thinner. As for taste, for a day or two before you play, don't eat red meat and cut back on the ciggies. Both those things make it taste horrible. to make the taste better, eat lots and lots of pineapple and other types of sweet fruit. As an example, if you have fruit and lots of pineapple now at 08:20 on a Monday morning, your partner will notice it tastes sweeter by tonight. And like I said, red meat and ciggies and lots of salt in your food is going to make it taste ugly. Also, lots of zinc and lots of celery is going to increase the volume. Peter North (the north pole) has consistently admitted that his large loads are a result of lots of zinc. Someone from apparently discovered the holy grail of making you shoot a LOT more. I'm talking about glazing your woman. I'll try to find it. As always, to anyone reading this, I am not a doctor. So before you take any advice, please do your research. I can only speak for myself but the fruit and pineapple thing works for me. I also drink tons of water.
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A woman needs to pee after she has sex ----- If you are pounding away at her and you look down, the mound at the base of your shaft is knocking straight into her urethra (pee hole, for want of a better word) and any "passengers" you're carrying on your pubic hair that belongs outside your body, is being forced into her. This is how she gets infections. Men, shave regularly. Women, pee after sex as you'll expel any bacteria he's pushed inside you. Source - Sinus issues - put a half teaspoon of salt and a half teaspoon of bicarb soda into a cup/mug. Pour in cooled down boiled water until full and mix. Pour contents into syringe (without the needle), angle your head over a basin and pour into one nostril. Continue doing this until the nostril is "full" and leaking out of the other nostril. Switch over to the other nostril when this happens. Afterwards, you're going to blow your nose for a long time but all the gunk stuck in your sinuses will come out. The salt loosens it and the bicarb restores the PH in your nose. **** gross warning ahead **** This works well for hay fever but if it is a cold or flu, your body's natural defense is to cover everything with snot. If it's green, it's an infection and requires anit-biotics. Source - me and ongoing sinus issues Snoring - there's an operation called a UPPP which is the most painful fucking thing ever and costs about 17 grand. The benefits last for a year until the tissue at the back of your throat grows back. For about R150, there's a device called a Snore-Kit that works even better. It's a mouth guard that stays in while you sleep and starts working immediately. It lasts for a year and a half and you can breathe even if your nose is blocked. Source - I've had a UPP and now I have a Snore-Kit. Carbs - this is the bad one. Your body requires 30 grams of carbs a day to function. That's about 3 Lays chips. Anything after that is stored as fat. However, the shit happens before it is stored as fat. Think of it this way: take a half glass of water and throw a half glass of honey into it. That thick sludge ? It's the viscosity (thickness) of your blood. When that shit gets to the venal - arterial boundary (when the blood is at the furthest point before it returns to the heart), if that sludge is too thick, it clogs circulation. This is why diabetics lose toes, feet and legs and eyesight first. Carbs - again. Anything that contains wheat is bad for you (or for me, I should say). Low GI bread causes my glucose level (sugar) to rise above 26 an hour after I have it, and test it. The rule is: anything that is white after it's cooked or processed (potato, bread, pasta, lasagne) is bad for you Will load more later.
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Hi Respect, I don't know if I'll agree to that. The thing is, sex is a very personal thing for some people and with most things in life (and here in SA) we don't really have a choice. Who we hookup with however, is a choice because we can say no without any repercussions. That 41 year old white guy I was talking about ? He's been hearing his parents and grandparents talk about race since he was little. And children are sponges in that they suck everything including their parents' prejudices, up. You can't really blame him though. And when he started discovering girls ? Well, his mind was made before he even knew it. What I'm saying is that we here cannot blame people for adding that line in their profile. That's almost like you telling me that you are obligated to play with a same sex partner because a gay man or woman can give you exactly the same arguments I did. Maybe gay is the new coloured, I don't know. I have no problem with telling a gay man I am not interested. Or more accurately, I don't cross the gender line and I'd expect him to understand. Can we be upset with someone wanting to stay on their side of the colour line ? Of course not. Can we be upset with someone stating it in a public forum such as this ? Of course not. I'd much rather prefer that a person lay their cards out and not waste my time and theirs. I can look however and I can say hello. Can we be upset with someone because they want steak instead of pasta ? Of course not. People can play and state who they want to play. If we cannot be honest when talking about the most personal (I'm talking about fucking), then I don't know.
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@Adonis, niemand nie. Ek het maar net gewonder want daar's baie wat van 'n "colour line" praat, en ek weet dat ek in geen manier vir hulle beinvloed het nie. Ek het niks vir hulle gedoen nie maar ek word oor die kole getrek oor iemand wat 'n Khoisan vrou 300 jaar gelede gesteek het. What the hell does that have to do with me ? Ek kan mos nie vir dit help nie. And like I said, I'm not upset; only curios. Also Adonis, if you are blindfolded, could you really tell the difference between coloured and white pussy ? If you lick it while blindfolded, would you really be able to tell the difference ? No coloured woman has anything in her pussy that a white woman does not have. If they don't pee after sex, they get an infection, same like white women. I've fucked many white women already and they are just as sexy, hot and horny as coloured women. Waar die tire die pad slaan Adonis, is pussy = pussy, maak nie saak watter kleur nie. Sien ? Daar's niks in een vrou se doos wat anders as 'n ander vrou s'n is nie. I'm not angry or upset because this is the way the world works. Lee, I matriculated in 1990 and I suspect most of us here did between 1987 and 1994. That means we were in the dying stages of separation and obviously old enough to know what it was about. So yeah, maybe what you say has merit, I'm sure it does. I was just wondering what the story was. I can find no difference between a white 41 year old guy with 2 kids and me in 2013. But yet, many white women on this site talk about the colour line. And also, how can any (white) person say that they don't want a coloured man or woman without trying the goods first ? How do you know you're not going to like it if you don't try it ????? * sigh * Ghandi said "Be the change you want to see in other people. Maybe I must blame myself for yesterday (on braai day) hanging out with about 10 coloured and only 4 white people who I consider friends who don't have any skin colour in my eyes. The one guy's kid jumped into the fucking pool while nobody was watching and I pissed myself. My children on the other hand will never know a world or a country that has black, brown and white people. Kleur is in ons koppe en hulle sal dit nooit ken nie. My oudste het reeds meer wit as ander vriende (dankie Bastion primary) but I'll fucking banish colour out of their lives as much as possible. South Africa's blood is pumping in my veins and in yours. To everyone reading this, I understand and respect who you want to play with. I'm not upset or angry and believe me, I'll not be upset with any person (white or other) that wants to stick to their own colour. It's okay and I know that we're dealing with years of kak, even more so when we are talking about what we are here for on this site.. I don't know if this is sad or not but in South Africa, in 2013, I'm actually am not upset with a white person saying they want to stick to their own colour. I understand but my hope is that you reconsider even if it is maybe only a once off thing. Ek is ook important, al is ek bruiner as jy. I hope you have learned something from this evolution. I know I have. Thank you to everyone that has taken the time to read this and respond. Like many white men, I'm currently listening to 'Ons vir jou Suid Afrika"; white people aren't the only ones that are proud of, and will die for, South Africa. PS, I love the honesty of the people on this site. You guys are the real deal.
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Hi guys and ladies, I've recently become a member of this club and browsing through a lot of profiles of singles and couples, it would seem as if there are lots of people who do not cross the colour line. Everyone has their own preference and so on, but I was wondering if there are particular reasons for refusal to do this. I don't know if this has been posted yet. I don't know if this a taboo topic. I also don't mean to judge or open a can of worms. I'm a coloured guy. I'm not black even if your government says so. I'm 41 years old and permanently employed and have been for the last 25 or so years. I defy the stereotype in terms of still having my front teeth, not talking like a skollie, not having a car on blocks in the yard and not having a collection of Namaqua boxed wine and Rothman's mild ciggies. Also, when I mess around with my grinder and I slip up, I bleed just like a white man. When the kiddies need help with homework, I help them just like a white man. I swear at Julius just like a white man. I've had a geyser burst at 02:30 in the morning already, just like a lot of white men. Is my life any different to that of a white man ? No, it's not. I bleed like you, I eat like you, I shower like you, I mow the lawn like you, I get the flu like you. I react to pussy just like you do. If any white ladies are blindfolded and someone gives you a muff dive, you won't know if it is a white or coloured tongue in and on you. A white johnson is the same shape as my johnson and maybe bigger or smaller. The point is that you wouldn't know if you're blindfolded. For you ladies who are into watersports, if you're lying there blindfolded, you wouldn't know if it's a coloured or white dick pissing on you. Because just a like a white man, my pee colour is determined by how much water I've had to drink. There isn't some magical hormone in a white man's pee that isn't in mine. Can someone give me any specific reason why colour lines are not crossed ? And don't hide behind "it's my preference". Give me specific reasons. And also don't tell me you saw that shit in the bible. If you did, you saw it in the old testament and those books only apply to Jews, not modern day christians. Besides, I somehow doubt that swingers abide by what the bible says (although David had a harem and fucked anything that moved). If some coloured car salesman fucked you over, that's got nothing to do with me. Don't judge me because of that. If some coloured builder fucked up your lounge or garage, again, it's got nothing to do with me. Don't judge me because of that. I'm not ranting. I'm just genuinely curios. And yes I know. People prefer what they prefer. I was just wondering why. I also hope you realise that you're also restricting yourself to a small percentage of the population. Trust me, you haven't seen a coloured on viagra. That's why our front teeth fall out. Our dicks are so big it smacks us in the face and knocks our teeth out.
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@Voyer, you should try being a DJ at an R&B and hip hop club. DJ's get all the pussy. On one occasion, after eye-banging this girl and her female friend for the whole night, we celebrated with some of Bob Marley's herb at my place afterwards. The highlight of the night was when female friend asked me to cum in her friend, pull out slowly and feed her my cock. I believe her exact words were "I want to taste the two of you at the same time". Lots of whiskey + weed = absolutely irresponsible by banging two strange chicks bareback the same night I met them.