@sxyfun I know that's why bugs me 

I respect couples that want to stick to not crossing the color barrier it's they choice what gets me angry is when that same couple checks our profile and ask do you mind if we play with your wife only that's when I lose all respect 

A recent msg from a couple like this told me that they cross the barrier for women but not men for me that is unfair 

Well thats my 2cents worth 

It does happen we had a single guy who we played with a few times go behind my back and try to get with my wife saying he wanted more 

I have to say you playing with the wrong people but also some of the unicorns can be a problem I won't complain but I think it's more of the people you play with everyone is different one bad experience should not stop you from trying 

Ya the swinging lifestyle has made our sex and marriage a whole more exciting as for porn yes we love porn but can it really be an addiction? I guess sex I can safe say me and Wifey are addicted lol?

Role playing can be fun me and Wifey role play me picking her at a bar and taking her back to the hotel room to fuck

My wife enjoys watching a guys stroke his cock it turns her on but it has to be the right circumstances 

I think it's a difficult one ya the club can get much at times and the single guys can get creepy but at least you know the people are real and you meet face to face 

The site yes its good but too any fakes and can be risky business but I cannot lie all our unicorns have come off the site so it is a difficult one I think you have to do both 

It is a turn on and me and hubby also fuck while we chatting to couples or. Singles but now we see that alot. Of profiles on Sh want only that swap photos and chat dirty but never want to meet so my question is. Would you not prefer the real thing after all that build up

Same with us been to a naturist resort in sa but it wasn't for swingers and nothing like desire in cancun 

Had one before but she has recently moved back overseas 

If you ever find a place like that in South Africa please let us know 

Hi so me and hubby have decided it's time to add a 3rd to our lifestyle so we looking for a gf has any couple had that before please share your experiences with us and did it work or not and rules 

hi why not visit posion it's fun and everybody is very respectful it will also be the holloween party which is nice