so our story started as a confession from me to hubby one night while watching porn I told him I was very turned on by a lady going down on me  and I suggested that are wanted to have a 3sum FFM lol he first thought I was trying to trap him after some convincing that it was not a trap we decided to give it a try long story short after our first enjoyable 3sum hubby said why not give the whole lifestyle a try and we have not looked back since and love every moment of it 

so me and hubby having been playing with idea of same room sex with your own partner as a way of having fun with anther couple is this to risky now or could it work what you guys think 

well we very open to getting cum tribute and it’s not only guys we have gotten from single ladies also and it’s a major turn on I mean the last single guy we played with he sent a cum tribute and wifey liked it so much we ended playing with him 

Hi so me and hubby would like to know how ladies feel about guys wanking to pics of you also as a hubby how do you feel anther man wanking to a photo of your wife 

For us we love it massive turn on even bigger turn on is to see cum tributes 

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ok what I meant was how are you having fun with social distances like are you and hubby taking sexy pics and exchanging them maybe video call with other couples with no contact 

 Other than our T w i t t e r account (where we post once or twice a fortnight)...we arent. Well not with others anyway. Sexting isn't our thing. Camming is too risky (also not what we're into). So we focusing our kinky activities on setting things up for when it is socially responsible to go out. And any other time is spent doing what we love best...  

 can ask what is risky about camming would like to know so we not got with our paints down 

 We know of two incidents where a couple and a single were recorded during their S k y p e cam session. The software to enable you to record on Z o o m / S k y p e etc is freely available. Being recorded doesn't sound very nefarious  - except in both instances the other party doing the recording threated to post the video onto adult sites unless payment was received. Yeah No. We'll pass...

 thanks for the heads up 

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on a overseas trip I answered the door in my g string only  on the waiter could not stop blushing it did turn me on a lot but only did it once but won’t do it South Africa it’s abit risky 

 Nice going. I love the boldness

 Do you think you will do it on SA 

 I think its worth a try here as long as I am with The Mrs every step of the way. Leaving her alone obviously increases the risk. Also you have the advantage of looking out of the window beforehand to see what the delivery guy looks like and amend the plan accordingly

 if you going to try it the night shift waiters at Sandton sun are not bad looking

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ok what I meant was how are you having fun with social distances like are you and hubby taking sexy pics and exchanging them maybe video call with other couples with no contact 

 Other than our T w i t t e r account (where we post once or twice a fortnight)...we arent. Well not with others anyway. Sexting isn't our thing. Camming is too risky (also not what we're into). So we focusing our kinky activities on setting things up for when it is socially responsible to go out. And any other time is spent doing what we love best...  

 can ask what is risky about camming would like to know so we not got with our paints down 

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on a overseas trip I answered the door in my g string only  on the waiter could not stop blushing it did turn me on a lot but only did it once but won’t do it South Africa it’s abit risky 

 Nice going. I love the boldness

 Do you think you will do it on SA 

on a overseas trip I answered the door in my g string only  on the waiter could not stop blushing it did turn me on a lot but only did it once but won’t do it South Africa it’s abit risky 

we agree it’s way too risky now to meet anyone it would be crazy 

ok what I meant was how are you having fun with social distances like are you and hubby taking sexy pics and exchanging them maybe video call with other couples with no contact 

So lockdown got us horny and wanting a lot more so we have been exchanging sex vids with couples and also had a vid call with a couple which was fun any other ideas fellow swingers 

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Just wondering, why do some guys not wash or shower etc after they've been with you? Like they go on with their day smelling like sex or punani? Lol just curious

 Maybe they like to smell like you the whole day a but I also know that it's a fantasy of some women that they men come home smelling of anther ladies punani sort of like woman coming home with cum in they pussy 

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For hubby I know he likes full lips and a thick woman and also a woman who wants to be In charge turns him on
Wifey I like athletic men but for me it's somone that can chat turn me on with his talk 

 I have the lips and thickness but not sure if I'm an I  charge sort if chick. I'm full of shit though, dunno if that counts lol

LOL he loves women that are full of shit he married me as proof lol?? I just showed him your profile pictures he says you beautiful and have a sexy thick body

For hubby I know he likes full lips and a thick woman and also a woman who wants to be In charge turns him on

Wifey I like athletic men but for me it's somone that can chat turn me on with his talk 

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We've had pretty much all that everyone described. Question is, what can you do about them? 
Can we name them, report them? Warn others about them?

 We have named and reported a few times all they do is create anther account we caught the same guy twice that how stupid some of them can be 

Just read on the news the is people scamming and extortion people out of money because of they naked pictures 

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so assuming the sign is a black ring? What would be an ideal approach to someone wearing one?

I would say say approach with caution coz black rings are the in thing at the moment 

I wonder do swingers in sa wear the jewelry yet to see anyone 

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@fadnad    I know the *secret ring* kind of thing was tried here in Cpt, but it did not really spanned out to become a reality! Although it was not a ring......I myself believe that many and a LOT of false situations might present itself with something like this, many people might unsuspecting wear the same thing.  The same thing was tried in dogging...with a feather on dashboards and shells and such like.... only worked with people who read this advertising thing here on SH, knew what it meant. BUT then once again it could happen to innocent unsuspecting people to be subjected to lewd suggestions and offerings.
It is great if it works/ed for others though.

 That same couple gave us this website that sells swingers jewelry for people in the lifestyle so they can spot one anther maybe something like this in south Africa could work 

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Anyone know the truth about a black ring on the right hand being a way to recognize a swinger?

 I know that it is true in America and they even have swingers chains so you can recognize other swinger couples a couple from America we recently played told us would love to know if it's the same in south Africa 

OK I would love to know if this is true please can someone comment 

It really is getting bad I know of a couple in cpt that a single guy try to black mail them into sleeping with him but this was on Twitter not Sh you have to be so careful some idiots just spoil it for everyone 

Lol our first time with a couple was suppose to be same room sex let's just our horny side got the best of us and it turned into a full swap it was awesome and got started exploring the lifestyle so I would not take it back

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Another is a dude I met. He's very good looking and we've video chatted as well and he looks the same in again pics. One problem... He lies about who he's met and where he is. Example he once sent mW pics o

 LOL but like the wife says just laugh it off and don't let spoil our fun but ya we know a single lady like that 

Oh my new favorite one is single lady profiles that are single but when you get to watsaap they have a play partner and when it comes time to meet they cannot make it but you welcome to play with him alone don't know if that has happen to anyone else

This site has many profiles like this recently had a couple send us photos when we met for coffee both of them looked nothing like they profile and don't get me started with the fake cock pics 

@sxyfun I know that's why bugs me 

I respect couples that want to stick to not crossing the color barrier it's they choice what gets me angry is when that same couple checks our profile and ask do you mind if we play with your wife only that's when I lose all respect 

A recent msg from a couple like this told me that they cross the barrier for women but not men for me that is unfair 

Well thats my 2cents worth 

It does happen we had a single guy who we played with a few times go behind my back and try to get with my wife saying he wanted more