It's very hard to find 2 single guys and 2 that can share and play well with each other

Mr here so recently we had a 4sum mmmf I enjoyed watching the wife with the other 2 guys been spit roasted and the enjoyment on her face and the moaning so I just sat back and watched an loved every moment of just watching her soo much that we doing it again soon but this time she wants me to wank while just watching

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Partner loves it....in a swing but with blinfold on......Not knowing or seeing the 3rd....or sometimes 4th gents.....blows her mind. .!!

Love the idea of been blind folded thanks for the idea for our next 3sum

Definitely a turn on both 3 sums mfm ffm

Wifey loves to be spit roasted and hubby enjoys wife sitting on his face while the other lady rides him how can you not be turned on by a 3 sum

It's still very seldom you will find swingers in public but if you on the swinger blogs and forum the is a few bars and spots swingers go to

Then Der is the black ring the necklace and the ankle bracelet and about a week ago in out local supermarket we saw a lady with a upside down pineapple and she was a swinger lady so the is signs just have to pay attention

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Mmm, we have had that request a few times, gents wanting to buy Mrs C's used underwear 🤷🏻‍♂️.

No judgment here of course, whatever pops your bubble.

That is our reason for asking we have soo many requests and not only from single guys but also couples so we wer curious to see how many are into this fetish

We do enjoy smaller parties private parties

But when it comes to a swinger club we prefer big crowds more choice some of the best nights we had at the club was with big crowds I guess more choice

We would come and prefer the all inclusive a suggestion to make it successful have a lady that will introduce couples to each other that have similar interests

We did this with a couple very risky you must book the seats right in the back so no one behind can see but its something we would do again

Hi so we explored it once at a swingers club with a very awsome couple and it was alot fun and turned us both on and we both wer excited to tell each other what happen in our rooms which lead to even more kinky sex

So we are open to it but both agree it has to be the right couple and that is hard to find

An as a swinging couple you have to be both very secure in your relationship to do it we have heard horrible stories of couples that did but wer not ready

So I am interested to know how many guys and couples would buy a ladies used lingerie

If so what would you want sex used lingerie or just lingerie worn all day

I am curious to know

So the good old question ladies what do you prefer circumzied or uncut. For me my preference is circumzied I enjoy it more and the sex and bj feels better

Would love to hear other ladies views

Wow love this topic

Well me and hubby the has been alot of strange places so let me give my 2 favorite we did in the royal baths in sun city that was recently before covid we did it at a nude beach while a couple watched us that was overseas

Really do like the idea and the different colors will stop the wrong approach it's something that sh should look into

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I am but I won't play alone with a couple again. Too much drama and issues. I prefer one on one with guy or joining couple if I have a partner.

@ Kitty we can mediate for you and fadnad 😂😂😂. We will make sure there is no drama 🤣🤣

LOL we can make it a big party 😈💦

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I am but I won't play alone with a couple again. Too much drama and issues. I prefer one on one with guy or joining couple if I have a partner.

So a few ladies we spoken to that's what dey say too much drama could you please give examples of the drama

I also think it's bad to think every couple is the same and also think that's wer chatting and meeting before playing is important to see if the will be drama

I totally agree older women are sexy me and wifey once played with a sexy 48 year young lady and till today I think it's the best 3sum we had she was sensual and sexy and was not afraid to take control and was so confident which made it sexier and damn did she have stamina we played the whole night and I am not ashamed to say it we learnt alot from her

So ya age is just a number for us

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Just to add to the above we got some advice a while back to look on dating websites such as tinder for single ladies and the funny part Is the last 3 FFM we had have been off those websites

Out experience is......................... after a few years here, we have met up with and played with 2 single ladies here. On various dating websites and apps, we have met and played with 10X that number.

Yip could not agree more and it's seems like it's getting harder to get a single female on Sh

May ask what are the websites you use if you can DM us

Just to add to the above we got some advice a while back to look on dating websites such as tinder for single ladies and the funny part Is the last 3 FFM we had have been off those websites

Something that me and hubby have notice of late and would love to know if it's just us or is other couples and single guys picking up on it

We have seen lately that 90% of single ladies profiles on Sh are actually couples and we have no problem with that but then why not make a couple profile why have a single profile if you never going to play alone we know of a couple who has a couple profile and have single profiles on sh but thats coz dey also play alone and if you contact them on dey single profile dey know it's to play alone

Would love some feedback on this would love to hear from the ladies who have single profiles but are couples

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Have you reported this profile to the mods? If you have a case reference number we are sure they will take action and ban him.

We have reported him and the couple profile was banned but he has a single profile which is verified

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"Why worry? We are all on here for the same thing".

Bull dust. Mrs works in an industry, where WITHOUT men knowing that she is in the lifestyle - she is bombarded on a weekly basis by married vanilla men flirting and propositioning.

If they were to find out what she enjoys in her sexy time, she would NEVER be able to get her vocation concluded without some sort of "this for that" propositions by men.
And people talk. Its irrelevant that they might be swingers themselves, but you can bet your bottom dollar that the conversation they have with arbitrary people go something along the lines of "...I heard from my friend that's a Swinger that Suzie is a swinger! Can you believe that shit? Never knew she was so wild". People like to talk and make themselves feel better about having a perceived upper hand over somebody. Its a human condition. We just prefer not to give anybody any ammo.

We have also been the target of harassment by nefarious individual who used our very intimate and private images in an attempt to gain some level of control over us. After getting that matter sorted legally, we opt to not have anything that ties us to the profile on public display.

There is also a couple on SH that use our face pics to pass off as their own. Imagine our surprise when good friends sent us a screenshot of a convo they were having with this couple, who had sent them our image as they proudly remarked "Hierdie is Ons". I hope they read this. Because they know very well who we are and we suspect they know that we know. Karma is a bitch you twats. Can't understand their logic in doing so. What are they hoping will happen when they lure an unsuspecting person/s to a meeting? Can't buy brains or class we guess.

It's soo crazy to hear how many couples have be blackmailed or pics stolen or been taking advantage of

From a law side just so you guys know if someone used your photos with out permission with the new law it's jail time of 5 years if found guilty ask how do we know we had our photos stolen and been decent people we sent the profile a msg to ask him to remove them and he sent us back a big FU so hubby been in the tracking industry we tracked down the guy and sent him a lawyers letter and he very quickly took them down the crazy thing is he is still on sh and his profile has a tick next to it

You have to develope very thick skin on sh or the crazy people on here will put you off the lifestyle and swinging but it's the same on every website of swinging

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We won't display or share face photos as at some stage it leads to problems.

But we saw photos of people we know in serious play, as we recognised their pool area.

Could not see the faces as they were faded over but if you knew them you would recognise them.

We never mentioned it or spoke out nor contacted them to play.

But soon rumours about them circulated in our friends circle and we saw they deleted their profile.

Totally agree we had a work mate of my wife who visited us a few times notice our pool area also so ever since then all our photos are taken at hotels and B&B and if we do take at home we filter out the backround

It's sad that people in the lifestyle are the ones starting the rumors when in this lifestyle been discreet is so important and is the one thing every single and couple asks for

Hi so we have never showing our face photos on here but my wife does have very telling physical attributes so she has been asked by a few people if it's her on sh which denies if she doesn't feel the person wil be discreet but if she feels we can trust the person she lets them know it's her so far we have been lucky not to be outed

As for friends and family we have not found any family in here Yet but we have found friends and we have actually taking some friendships to anther level of course not close friends but more people you know and we lucky not to be outed also but we also learnt very early on you have to keep you circle small and if you get a gut feel you can't trust a couple or single walk away

To be honest the swinger community has gotten so big in South Africa over the past 5 years that you would be crazy to think that you will not meet someone you know it's bound to happen its just how you deal with it when it happens not to scare you off

Wow what a topic!! 

My opinion we prefer married men dey more discreet more respectful and alot of the times perform to satisfy the women 

Look not talking bad about single guys Der is a few good ones we have met but then you have those few bad apples 

That would not be a bad thing to encourage more people to make dey profiles more attractive a rating on profile maybe suggest this to admin 

I don't have a problem with the single ladies profiles that have it in dey bio that hubby watches and plays sometimes that's OK I am talking about the profiles that have nothing 

Hi I know this is going to get me into trouble with a few people on sh but I honestly feel if you playing as a couple have a couples profile and yes I know some couples the ladies also have a single profile and thats OK 

I am talking about the single ladies profile that says single and wanting to explore alone then you chat to them and dey say oh do you mind my bf or hubby also wants to play if that's the case make a couples profile sometimes I think some of those profiles are fake also 

What ticks me off before it was very few profiles now it's seems like 90% of the single ladies profiles are couples 

Would love to know how the rest of sh feels about it 

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We were involved in a throuple relationship with a lady until recently. 
We didn't actively search for one, just kinda happened. 
We actually met her through a popular dating app. We actually use this app quite often for mff. For us........ much better odds than on lifestyle sites. 

 If you don't mind me asking how was it been in a throuple any advice please feel free to pvt message 

Could you please if you want to share your secrets tell us which dating app 

Definitely cut and cleaned shaved

Just love how a cut cock looks rock hard