I have to be honest hubby doesn't mind age but for me I prefer men over 30 when we first started in the lifestyle I played with a few younger men and dey just put me off completely

So I think the age thing comes with experience in the lifestyle but glad you had a good experience with a younger guy

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Share some of those group info's. The ones on SH I think are dormant

Unfortunately cannot share the one group we on it's couples only

Lol I think dis is one we all done especially in our younger days a sneaky finger and BJ or wank for the guy

But would love to fuck in the cinema have not try that yet will be doing it soon

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@Fadnad, it is when the traditional leadership roles are switched, where the Lady assumes full financial, social, and sexual leadership of the relationship.

Ok thanks

I love a dad bod don't get me wrong a six pack is sexy but a dad bod any day

Please explain more what is a FLR relationship

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Is there any other non paying platforms that we could possibly check for recruits,or maybe let's all have coffee sometime.

No other free websites but again Der is alot of groups that you can get invited to

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What else do we know about this group? I’m curious

Not much but just that it's hard to get in and from what I understand it's couples only

Well the rumours we have heard is that Der is a Muslim group already and dey have private parties very hard to get into the group and you have to sign a NDA That's what we wer told don't know how true it is

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It’s been awhile 😅 I may have forgotten the difference.

We would love to remind you 😜

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Making love is overrated. Sorry but it is, yes it grand and lovely to connect blah blah fishpaste but it can’t compare to a good hard fucking session. Had a ex lover tell me recently I made him feel like a piece of meat. Was unintentional but when the sex is that good who fucking cares what cut of meat it is.

I’ll take a good hard fuck over making love any day. 🥵

I have to disagree if you have that emotional and physical connection with your partner a love making session can be very intense and can also involve fucking

A love making session does not always have to be slow it can be a hard fuck but still love making with all the passion

So we have this burning question for all swinger couples would you let your partner sleep with a ex lover or ex sex partner that you so happen to meet in the lifestyle

This is a person that your partner hard sex or one night stand or regular booty call with before you 2 met and before the lifestyle now you and your partner meet them in the lifestyle would you let them play together

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And on the other side of the coin the amount of single women profiles.... Which start the bio off by saying "we are a couple"...

Oh don't get us started on that you talk and just before meeting or I forgot to tell you we are a couple

So we don't have it but we do know a few people that are on it and are making buckets of money from it but as for us we won't do it we feel it's like one step away from actually doing porn but that's our 2cents worth

It's become too common on sh now wer couples profile and the wife is taking a break but I think the wife doesn't even know the couple profile is a trap to get you to talk

So we have a new way of dealing with it we say let's all meet and if she is ok with us playing we can go ahead and let's just say we waiting for one of those profiles to say ok

Basic instinct and fatal attraction

Ya I agree it's leaving swinging and becoming poly and when emotions become involved it can complicate stuff

I feel that the hubby is not bi it will not work

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Obviously there would be much more opportunity for fun with a bi couple having a bi boyfriend, you know, simple math, but that doesn't mean that the wife having a boyfriend is any less acceptable - in effect, he's her regular bull then, no?

No I feel been a bf is different then a regular bull don't you agree we have regular bulls and single ladies but don't consider them our bf and gf

Ok so we always hear of couples having a GF but this weekend something very interesting happen a single guy that we regularly play with asked if he could be my bf taking that hubby is not bi and into guys so he would be my bf

Would love to know how the SH community feel about it and has couples had bf taking that the hubby is straight and how did it work out

I mean I could see if a couple was bi how a bf would work for a couple

We are going Saturday also

Who ever is at the sexpo and you see us come say hi

Would love to know which swinger clubs have booth at the sexpo and very intrigued to know what dey have planned

Mine was hubby saying to me "put my cock in her pussy" I took his cock and guided it into the unicorns pussy it drove me and the unicorn crazy him saying that we both got very wet

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Sexpo Throwback:

https://www.swingingheaven.za.com/stories/fact/gloryhole-marathon

Thanks for posting the link let's hope this year sexpo is this naughty and brings more vanilla couples to the lifestyle

So I was surprised to learn recently that some men and women don't like big boobs and prefer smaller boobs me myself I have 32DD and love them would love to know from women and men what's your preference

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Can u plz give bit more details? Been planning to go but missed it. When and where? How much r tickets?

It's at times Square casino in menlyin Pretoria the tickets start at 220

Hi so any one from SH going to the sexpo in October

Is it worth going because this will be our first if we go and is it worth buying VIP tickets some advice would be nice SH world

OK this is the new one that happen very recently on a self game drive hubby drove while I rode him while we looked and the beautiful animals was the best game drive

Hi so we have a question how often do other couples and singles play in the lifestyle

We use to play in the lifestyle 5 to 6 times a month and be at swingers parties nearly every weekend in the start but as time as gone on now we play once a month and very picky about which swinger parties we attend is this the same for other swingers

Do you think the longer you in the lifestyle the less you play or is it now more quality over quantity then when you started

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Try Tinder

It's Soo scary but his not wrong tinder is easier the is alot women on tinder that are open to it