Quote by Ryan71

A qualified yes. Not about to proposition our close friends but if the conversation with a friend goes in that direction and it becomes a mutual agreement as per the arrangement with my lady, then yes. Many lifestylers would probably agree with my next point. We are already playing with close friends, even if we first met them in the lifestyle and they then became close friends. Some really beaut souls in the lifestyle that I keep close to me even if we no longer play.

Definitely agree lifestyle friends to be come real friends but dey knew all along who you guys are swingers. with a vanilla friend I guess it's the thrill of them finding out the nervous tension of the first time maybe converting a vanilla friend or couple into the lifestyle maybe even a fantasy you had of your partner's spouse coming to reality that thrill makes it's a huge turn on

It's crazy how many couples have stories about wanting to play with vanilla friends I love your story @justpurefun

So for us it's definitely a huge turn on the thinking and talking about it

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We have in the past played with a few of our ( not so vanilla afterwards) friends.

It's a different dynamic, it's a bit of a challenge that also adds to the excitement. Definitely something we will continue doing .

We do however feel them out properly and make sure their relationship could handle it . The board game helps .... haven't had or created issues yet

I think that's our problem at the moment we don't know how to bring it up or start it like the boardgame idea

We wer also thinking truth and dare

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ooof top true 😭🤣. and I think it's one of the worst things to happen when the kiss is so off putting when you were excited for it and what comes next

But also on the other side of that first kiss is good then I am yours do to what you want with I become a waterfall wer it matters

What makes this more of a turn on is we both have close vanilla friends that we would love to play with and the thought turns us both on

We even fantasize about how we would do it

Hi so would you let your wife or husband play with a friend of yours and I am not talking about a casual work friend I am talking about a friend that knows your secrets and stuff

Me and hubby recently had this conversation and it turned us on

Would love to know if the is couples that have done it and how did you guys start it and how was it and how is it after playing with your friend

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Kissing is most definitely the first step to an erotic adventure . If you get tje right kiss in , all tje rest will just flow naturally

See I agree if you get that first kiss right it could be a mind blowing experience but if you don't it could kill the mood even if you wer turned on before the kiss

Sign us up sounds like a really fun time

So our experience and a question we ask most men playing with out permission is have you asked your wife if she would be interested in this lifestyle and most of time we get no or I don't want her playing with other men which is selfish from the man

Well we don't play with married men or women we don't want a angry spouse spoiling our fun

Hi So I would love to know how many of my fellow swinger ladies are cuckquean and how is it going

I am a dominant cuckquean and enjoy telling the lady what do to hubby and the sex afterwards is amazing

I do agree it needs to be a luxury and sexy experience that makes people want to come back but it also needs to be a place that if you not in the lifestyle but want a naughty adventure you can also enjoy

Perfect example of such place is temptation in Cancun

As someone who does enjoy it and cums very quick from anal sex I would not do it with anyone but hubby you have to trust the person and be comfortable that's why I only do it with hubby

A hint of you want to try it use a vibrator over your clit and vargina while he enters you it will help and you will cum quick

So I have a question does sh think a swinger resort in SA would make money and what would be the perfect location in SA and would you visit the resort I know alot of SA swingers are still very discreet

I do think we would have a lot of international visitors if one opens up

What are your thoughts fellow swingers

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I own a house at Elements Golf Resort in the bush. Very secluded. Great pool and sleeps 4 couples. Arrange some couples and we all go there. Accommodation is free. Whole weekend of being nude and swinging. Can only be fun

Would definitely come to that party

Hi unfortunately no swinger resorts in SA

But Der are lodges that will look the other way if you want to book it out but still not the same as a swinger resort

I pray someone can open one soon

We are going the Saturday and you guys

Hi went to the recent one at the sun arena in pta it was fun alot of naughty stuff to buy and the shows wer nice to watch

Alot of vanilla couples but if you pay attention you can pick up who are swingers believe me

Yes the vip tickets are worth it then you don't have to pay extra for all the different lounges and also to buy drinks the vip bar is much quicker and also you get preferred seating right in front of the stage

If you are looking for swingers we found most of them in the swinger club event at the expo

Never judge a book by its cover

That's why we always like to get to know the people we play with becoz chemistry comes in many different forms not only how you look

Sexy is a mindset and in this lifestyle you need to allow yourself to explore all shapes and sizes

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This is still one of the best things to do ....

Could not agree more we still do it often

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Only Fans has Killed the amateur "porn" scene. If we have to see another message about subscribing to someone's account I'm going to scream.

We really enjoy having a good time and kinky fun that (by some miracle) I actually manage to record(occasionally)

We don't Act in our videos

We don't Fake anything in our videos

Nothing is Planned / Staged / Rehearsed

We don't make "Content" we just record our fun

We have a Twitter Profile (account), XHamster, Pornhub, XVideos etc etc

Are we Pornstars? I WISH! Unfortunately not.

We are just a married couple having fun. Our videos are of us living our best life.

There is no problem with having a OnlyFans account just don't ruin the fun you guys are having in the lifestyle getting caught up in the "social media" Likes and Followers Bullshit or to try make money...

See that's wer we agree nothing we do for the camera is staged it's just us having fun and enjoying each other

An I feel onlyfans takes that fun out of It because most of it is staged and fake

My wife loves watching she will even tell you to speed up or slow down she enjoys watching a guy slap his dick and she enjoy the site if pre cum

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Wow sure those are 3 of many hot encounters you guys had.

Mine would be:

1. 3sum with 2 amazing bi females (both Indian muslim innocent looking beauties)

2. Part of a 5 guy gangbang with a Hot wife, that the hubby arranged

3. Fun on a couples boat on the dam in broad daylight. Hubby was skipper, wifey and I on the deck.

Oh the 4th (is still to come) but will be the day I meet up with Fadnad

Your number 1 was Hubby's fantasy also and we been luck enough to explore it and it was sexy and fun and the lady played along so well she wore an abaya an scarf with just lingerie underneath

I would love to know from SH members what have you done from your bucket list maybe your top 3 things you have done and would you do it again

So let me start we have done soo much but my top 3

1. been driving around by hubby while I had sex with a guy in the back of the car and vise versa hubby had sex with a lady while I drove them around

2. 4sum 3 girls and hubby that was crazy and a lot of fun

orgy in a swingers club that is my favourite and have done it a few times since the first time

Those are few things

I would love to know from SH members what have you done from your bucket list maybe your top 3 things you have done and would you do it again

So let me start we have done soo much but my top 3

1. been driving around by hubby while I had sex with a guy in the back of the car and vise versa hubby had sex with a lady while I drove them around

2. 4sum 3 girls and hubby that was crazy and a lot of fun

orgy in a swingers club that is my favourite and have done it a few times since the first time

Those are few things

We have done alot from our bucket list but here is a few we are yet to achieve

1. Swinger resort for a week (been told it's a experience every swinging couple should experience )

2. A swingers cruise fun while at sea just sound sexy and fun

Mrs wants to sit in a corner and instruct me and a lady what she wants us to do

4. Will not do this in SA but would love to order food and answer the door in sexy lingerie or naked and see wer it leads you can call this one my porn fantasy

So let me give ABIT more context we agreed to explore it with one couple we met at dey place got to the bedroom and dey had 2 cameras set up and it felt like we walked into a porn shoot

Look maybe dey approached it wrong but we did not feel comfortable but would love to hear sh thoughts

So we have a naughty twitter page and we get alot swingers from overseas and local asking would we like to collaborate for dey only fans account

So here is my issue we in the lifestyle coz we enjoy it and it's our discreet fun away from everyday life a way for us to explore our sexual fantasies and we feel doing a only fans collaboration might be going towards porn and almost doing it only for money look we could be wrong

What do you guys on sh think about it would you do it

So this is my thoughts on this topic me and hubby are fine with male and female who are playing with out consent never judge a book by its cover you don't know what made that person choose to cheat or play alone the only thingfor us as a consenting couple you keep us out your drama

Like we have this single guy we got close with and he is playing with out consent but not because he wants but because his wife refuses to explore sexually with him his opened up to her and she does not give a damn so again you don't know why that person is choosing to play alone

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There are a few Muslim couples here and there but it’s hard to get into any society unless you invited in. Sometimes they at clubs too.

Believe me when I tell you it's not a few but alot of Muslim couples in the lifestyle which I think is great

Quote by Mo3Adam

The Houghton group aint whites only, Indian Muslim like 99% - but it is insanely elite. @FadNad is right about the NDA that needs to be signed on application.

Wow I thought the NDA was a lie

Yes it's a muslim only group and the parties are held at different locations in Sandton and Houghton