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bob969
7 hours ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 62
0 km · Western Cape

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I was on another site were the question was posed, "Why don't men enjoy eating pussy?" I could not answer that question if my life depended on it.

Having a bit of a short fuse myself I love to eat pussy.

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Also did it on a motor bike in the street outside my girl friends house after a movie. We could hear her parents on the other side of the hedge.

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When next you see folk selling feather dusters on the side of the road it's a good chance it will have a cane handle. You get a cane and feathers for the price of one.

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Quote by The_Valentines

In my opinion the only way to stop this is to introduce a registration fee for free accounts , say a once off R 10. 

or don't allow the pics to go live until cleared. As it is now anything can be put out there and stay there until a mod becomes available to clear it. ie. personal details, child porn, bestiality to name but a few. I imagine it would be in the sites best interest to prevent stuff like that being viewed even if only by members. 

Just my thoughts!

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What I cant understand is how the mods allow the pictures to be posted when there sole purpose is to advise another site or do I have it wrong. I can understand a profile going live under their noses but not the pictures. It has been a while since I posted any new pictures but when I last posted, a mod had to clear them before they went live.

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I feel meets, especially with physical contact, should not happen. You, as an individual, might survive covid if exposed. The people who get it from you, however, might not. Is a year off really that bad?

Just my 5 cents worth!

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Quote by PoohC
Quick question. Can we delete vouches on our profile? Our latest vouch is from somebody we don't know and all it says is "I LIKE YOU".
I see it often on people's profiles that some guys get confused between VOUCHES and MESSAGE (F#ck Knows How) and they end up writing a message in the vouches section.

 One of my pet peeves!

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I used to be on a site called EP, Erotic Personals. Not sure if they closed or SH took over but landed up here and have no regrets

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You can also try peeing on yourself in the shower before you turn the water on. It is, after all, just urine! I have done it and I know I will not be shocked or disgusted if a partner peed on me.

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I think cell phones are a big enough distraction! 

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Quote by speedybeexxx
Can someone please bring some sense, especially the folks with the tittle on their profiles. When I see that for me its a clear instruction and a specific preference, now at what point do I get a Private Message from such profiles and how am I supposed to react to it?

I assume you are getting messages from folk who state that they don't cross the colour line or barrier or some such reason. My response would be on the lines of, " Sorry, we are not a match due to conditions stipulated by yourself. Should you have a change of heart please feel free to contact me."

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Just be yourself. If the person you are writing too likes what they see they will look at your profile and if that gets their engine running they will write back. Being yourself also means that if you should meet you do not have to rack your brains to try remember what it is the other person liked.

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Quote by Watyouwant
prefer not to wear them at all,baggie trousers and watching gorgeous female bums makes the dangling bits feel good banging between your knees,hehehe

 ...just banging between your knees.... Dude, now you are just bragging. 😂

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Why white undies you ask. Well when you buy em in packs of five the white ones kind of slip in.

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I will be perfectly honest here, I had never given it a thought. That was until I read this of course.

I consider my self average when it comes to life style. I have a job and I have bills. I have a house and a home loan. I am also healthy and go to the doc when Dr. Google gets it wrong.

I treat others the way I would like to be treated. I wake up ever day, happy with who I am and if there are those out there who don't like what they see, feel free to move on.

I like people for WHO they are and not WHAT they are.

That said I had better get back to work.

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I came across a lady friend I have known for ages. She also took a look at my profile but knowing a little of her situation I decided not to contact her via the site. A few months later she deleted her profile and has subsequently met a guy and as of early Jan they were still as happy as can be.

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I have had a couple of threesomes but have yet to have dp in any form but, I live in hope!

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Quote by Sofistikitty
I met my last long term boyfriend here and that was actually where and how I learnt about what I liked and was into. We got it on like rabbits, all day everyday. One day we were making out but only that because I was on my period. Things got hot and heavy and soon we couldn't resist and stripped down and had sex. It was freaking amazing!! Best sex ever. After that that's what we did. I haven't met anyone that wanted to try it again. Has anyone had this experience? How was it? Would you do it again?

 Yes, Fantastic and yes!

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I do not have any children of my own so have never had the opportunity to be intimate with a pregnant woman that I know of. If they were they were not showing or I was sure as hell not going to ask. I would be honoured and delighted to have the opportunity to spend intimate time with a woman who is pregnant. 

Some of the comments from the other site really surprised me. Short of falling from a rotating ceiling fan in the last months, there is little that can harm the woman I also believe there are even fewer guys, and I include myself in this category, with the equipment needed to black the eye of an unborn infant.

Anyway I like the idea!

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That is why I would like to meet up with folk before the time, just to check each other out!

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@pussinboots1 That is so true. You know what that means, don't you? It means I am brilliant even when I am trying to be goofy!

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Folk call me Bob but that was taken so I slapped a few digits on the end. Not very creative I know!

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As a complete outsider I don't see it as a ridiculous question. I could well imagine one or the other partner expressing a desire to try something new or different that the other may or may not have thought of or thought worth trying but the partnership is open and solid enough to discuss the topic and decide to try it for the sake of the other partner. I agree with gcbfw that both partners must be open to it. Just my thoughts.