My first time was at poison in midrand. Its really intimidating not knowing who you can or cant approach. Hardly any play happened between couples or anybody. I ended up chillung with another single dude in a corner lol.
Dude why are you being so emo?
U being prissy.
For a very long time I've refrained from saying this but what the hell why not? I did some analysis and I could be wrong as I may not have collated a very big sample size.
I have never noticed a single male profile have an issue with race, now I could be wrong but in my experience, I have never seen it. Whether this is down to men being more carnal or horny or whatever I'm not sure.
I have only seen it on single female and couples, I have even received a reply from a couple where the male has stated that he plays with all but his wife doesn't.
In my experience this leads me to conclude that this is more a white female thing than a male thing. I would also go as far to say it's only prevalent in those aged 25-27 upwards, those that a younger have lived in the new SA they don't seem to have an issue.
I compare this with say london, because Ive lived there and travel often. London is a first world multicultural city, yet English and European so mostly whites, however people aren't judged and boxed based on skin colour. Everybody has equal chance at everything.
I'd really like to ask one of these don't cross the barrier people that in every race you get good and bad, clean and dirty, rich and poor et etc etc. you would practically shoot down a young, well groomed, educated, good body for an old white guy looking for a quick fuck with an end result of being a bad experience just because his white?
And then you paint all of us with that same brush when all you have had are negative experiences with white single males?
I know that this is going to cause a stir and I've thought long and hard about hitting the send button, but I thought some people needed to read this. Preferences is a shit answer to this preference can be explained. I prefer armani jeans to Levi's because of the feel, the fit the cut etc, you prefer white skin? I know some Indians and coloureds that are whiter than you whites.
Funny thing is the coloured nation is one that was derived by whites and their black slaves am unit correct?
I mostly have the last laugh with these couples. I'm not a racist in any way trust me but you some of this people are just too narrow minded and I think that some of them need to catch a wake up call.
Any brain shaggers on this site?
It's even harder if you not white. Personally I've probably given up given the 0 success rate. On the odd day that I feel motivated I could send a few messages but in essence the old fashioned way has worked for me.
I only log on now for banter.
What is annoying is couples who don't untick the single male in search criteria and then get upset if we contact them and equally couples seem to lack manners. A simple no thank you has never hurt anybody.
But hey maybe the problem is me.
Seriously I'd take you all up on this - challenge accepted
Something I saw in London that I haven't in SA is the use of colour coded weistbands so people know what you looking for in terms of play partners.
Because I'm sure a rumpled foreskin does not make a beautiful penis. Sofistikitty that actually makes a lot of sense in relation to my question.
Thank you
So of all the profiles on this site name two you would most like to meet in person. Why you want to meet them could be a sub plot.
As the name suggests.......ladies please.
From where I stand and what I read is a couple on here that is swinging but they have serious trust and communication issues which is a recipe for disaster. My reference to vocabulary and spelling is important as those two components make what I read in my mind and how I perceive her questions.
To be honest and really not rude and/or offensive but apart from your poor spelling and vocabulary your presence on this site confuses me.........
Now now people the Amazon person wishes to find out about cuckolding let's not get sidetracked.
@amazon so you asking this for a reason. Clearly because something in it interests you.
You clearly read that long post ......so I'm assuming you want to cuck your man, you need to decide where your kink lies. Some like the humiliation others like interracial etc etc etc.
Y not just ask?
Those posts are too long. I got involved in this lifestyle through cuckolding so yeah it varies from one extreme to the next it depends on the couple and I've seen both sides..
As a newbie to the forums i must admit that it is very boring. I was led to believe that the lack of the rest of the site could be made up in the forums.
I thought wrong. I too am contemplating still being on this site. Many people have mentioned an alternative.
I am still here but lets see for how long. I thought if not even for playing. Meaningful exchange of thought via messaging would do but unfotunately that too is lacking.
Strange thing is that there are so many profiles yet to meet is so few and far between.
Hey all
So maybe we need to plan something to kick into life this City.
I was thinking of a daytime meet for starters.
This makes the time limited so that is a plus for a first meet and we can plan bigger events from there.
Any think in town or somewhere central like canal walk?
Lee i hear your points as well as the others. My point is that this is a lifestyle. Meaning socialising, friends and sex.
I personally am not attracted to blacks but as you said that your brain is your biggest sex organ. Ill give them the chance and i will see what happens. If i dont want to play i wont but it does not mean i have to play if i go out. And i may just have a great time without playing.... who knows?
Ultimately its about friendship and friendship evolves into intimacy......see?
Anyways this will prove fruitless. Atleast i get to rant.
For the others that probably got to see who i was .....who knows?
This is my final post on this topic.
It seems like alot of you are actually missing the point apart from pib.
How are people different? A vag feels the same, barring exceptions, no matter the skin colour.
Your point saying wanting something different, wanting to try. That would mean a male trying another male or maybe even trying a TV.
We are talking about people here. Skin colour makes no differences to the species. The scientific name is the same.
). Im not a spammer and ill pitch for drinks on time.
If we have a good evening and chemistry is mutual we proceed. If not we wouldve shared a few hours, some drinks and be friends. No harm.
Respect is mutual so is chemistry.