I’ve lived in many countries and played there as well. Countries in Europe and the US and I’ve never seen as many racial hang ups on profiles as it is here. The other point is it’s mostly white couples in SA that have this issue, purely from a statistical pov. Say what you want it stems from our past no matter how you sugarcoat it.

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Definitely girth I like them thick I want to feel you

I’m not sure if mine is thick or not, perhaps you would like to evaluate it?

Any members going to Ultra?

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So we took the leap and to our surprise the wife's best friend was into it and told us she already had fantasies about both of us and it turned into one of our most memorable FMF

That’s awesome glad it worked out well.

Are there still meet and greets? I remember before Covid there were regular meet and greets in both Jhb and CT but I don’t see them that often anymore.

Oh yes naturally. It’s a shame that we have such few spots considering how much potential the Cape has.

That’s a bit of a distance out though

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We have been considering going to Sandy Bay for some time, but have heard of some unpleasant experiences. How did you find the day? We do however have a few spots that we frequent where it is quite secluded and we are 9 times out of 10 alone. Just takes careful placement of our beach tent and an eye out in case we need to cover up for walkers.

There will always be guys but the big beach is very big so it’s easy to find a spot out of the eye. You can’t stop people walking by. Nobody has been a bother though in the sense of being a pervert and those walkers just walk by.

Mind if I send you a PM. Your Mrs is really gorgeous

Thanks for keeping an eye on my stuff. You and I were having a chat before you left. Small world

Were you by any chance the couple with the blue umbrella on the small beach?

Just out of curiosity was there any SH members at Sandy Bay today. I was there and I wondered how many of the people on the beach may be on SH

That an a lot of the previous contributors don’t seem to be on the site anymore

Is it just me or has the forum area of the site really just died a very slow death. I remember the days where there was much interaction between members on the forum discussing a wide array of topics away from the Lifestyle. I even ended with some social meets and some playing meets just from here. It just seems like interactivity has basically dimished…….. or maybe it’s just me

I went to see AVB in Ibiza September last year

That’s AfrikaBurn Ultra is 10 May CT and next day in jhb

End April I’m sure there are just check online

Hi all just curious to know whether any members on here will be attending AfrikaBurn and Ultra this year.

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I have a question. Coming up from Gauteng for the holidays. Is this beach safe to access and walk to as a single older gent? Risk of mugging etc. Please locals, give some honest advice. Also welcome to DM me with advice. Thanks in anticipation

I’ve been alone a few times never had any hassles but I can see why you need to be vigilant. It’s a long walk through bushes and that’s why I only go if I have company

I was there today was great.

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What’s the twitter handle 🙈

So we have a naughty twitter page and we get alot swingers from overseas and local asking would we like to collaborate for dey only fans account

So here is my issue we in the lifestyle coz we enjoy it and it's our discreet fun away from everyday life a way for us to explore our sexual fantasies and we feel doing a only fans collaboration might be going towards porn and almost doing it only for money look we could be wrong

What do you guys on sh think about it would you do it

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I agree , start another group 😘 Am sure there are plenty of us on here

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Believe me when I tell you it's not a few but alot of Muslim couples in the lifestyle which I think is great

I know I just meant as a % of the total demographic of this site

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I want a prearranged guy to flirt with my wife, secretly, without her knowledge, at a place we will agree upon. A eatery with music and a vibe. How do one go around that? Is there any guy with the necessary social skills and charm? She is conservative ,. I want it to be fun for all of us. Maybe later we do mfm. if it goes well

How does this tie in with our current discussion?

There are a few Muslim couples here and there but it’s hard to get into any society unless you invited in. Sometimes they at clubs too.

In the Pinelands Library at Howard Centre.

Having a bill implies sex having a bf implies emotion. People need to define what they are seeking

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Ok so we always hear of couples having a GF but this weekend something very interesting happen a single guy that we regularly play with asked if he could be my bf taking that hubby is not bi and into guys so he would be my bf

Would love to know how the SH community feel about it and has couples had bf taking that the hubby is straight and how did it work out

I mean I could see if a couple was bi how a bf would work for a couple

I’m a total boob guy but I think with boobs it comes down to being proportionate, whilst I tend to favour somewhere between b and c some bigger sizes can be extremely sexy, I just had a look at yours and they perfect everything in proportion to you🔥

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So I was surprised to learn recently that some men and women don't like big boobs and prefer smaller boobs me myself I have 32DD and love them would love to know from women and men what's your preference

Are there any dogging spots in cpt?

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I totally agree with you it is shocking how many men are not circumzied but I guess it's everyone's own preference

Do you not play with guys if they not cut?