We love daring each other in public. We love touching each other and seeing who taps out first..... Well i do.... She has more guts in her than i ever will.
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Quote by hansbel
Very interesting piece of writing, thank you sharing your point of view!
The biggest mistake that a lot of men do, usually single - claiming to be "bulls" are the fools paradise that they live in and assume that when a couple are looking for a 3rd player to join in is that the Husband is incompetent in the bedroom and automatically has a small penis! Ironically the majority of so called "bulls" actually have average size penises, in-spite of them claiming the contrary! ....They will come with toilet rolls, spray cans, and tape measures ,,,, and anyone can see the technique that they apply is incorrect - it is easy to ad a few centimeters. Besides most woman will tell you, it is not the size of the penis but rather the way it is applied! And it is not just up to the penis, but also the hands, tongue, body language, respect etc! ... The biggest fact that puts most couples off is the arrogant attitude that some "bulls" have - that if a lady would like more than one male - then that makes her a cheap slut and easy! ..... Most "bulls" needs to be brought back down to earth - The reality - That is that most couples would like to experience these 3soms with a decent person that respects the couple!
What we found is that the true single males that is real swingers that is in the lifestyle generally understand what it is about! unlike the misinformed that think that they are a "bull"
And this is why most couples won't even entertain single males, unlike single females!
Please feel free to agree or disagree and ad your opinion!
Kind regards
Hansel
well siad, thats why we dont bother with the single men, they have no respect, think they gods and start demanding and ordering how the night must be, been there done it and both of us are gatvol of twats.. rather stick to couples and ladies
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hi hi, any swingers out there interested in a meet and greet. planning for mid to end febuary....something like a theme party. have a venue, food available and refreshments.
if so interested let us know.
to add, we have to be kinda equal to male verses female verses couples.
pop us a message if interested
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hi all.
Ok, going to try this meet and greet again.
We have a venue just outside nelspruit aprox 4km towards uitkyk, safe secure and there will be no espectations unless you make your own. anyways, to ensure we dont mix with the un-normal people...lol....i suggest that we all wear a upside down pineapple on our clothing so we as the normal people can identify the right people, untill those who are not swingers go,
so i suggest the 25th of this month, from about 18h00 ( 6pm ) for those not knowing.
That gives us 2 weeks. There is drinks and food for sale and the secure parking.
those interested send a pvt message or leave one here.
its just like the dogging story, all want but no body does anything
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Quote by PoohC
We have seen & played with a few couples where this has happend. Its Always The Guy that Gets Jealous Never the Girl!
There are MANY men that pressure their wives into the lifestyle because they want to Fcuk other woman... But the minute they see some Guy Fcuking Their wives... they cant handle it! (Because they are selfish lovers)
We have played with a few couples (Because the guy wants to bang my wife) but the minute i start playing with their wives, they literally end up in tears.
Being Jealous is the dumbest emotion ever. Being a Selfish lover is worse...
I so agree with you. Most do not truly understand the concept of the swinging lifestyle. Many people are ignorant or they become possessive and dictate.
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Quote by BrattyKitty
Awww you silly man. 🤗You made me mushy now. 😘 thank you hun for such sweet words. 💋 your imprint in my heart has been quite big to and just so you know, I can’t walk past fucking tinned snails without thinking of you and smiling. I have no idea why 🤣 fucking snails of all thing 😅
if only u knew
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Quote by BrattyKitty
You hands are pretty amazing 😏
Lol.... You made it possible. You are what so many desire, kind, sensual, orgasmic, funny, gentle..... There aint enough worda in the worlda dictionaries bound together. If men would. Look past the sexual part of tou and discover the real you, they too would understand that here is an angelic angel who has so so much to give. 💐👫
You leave a huge 👣 in a person's life
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Hippo enclosure at the pta zoo at night during a sleepover camping ⛺️ event for the introduction of White Tigers to SA.
Lion/ elephant/ gorilla/ polar bear enclosures at the JHB zoo. Yea I worked there at the time.
At the Cradlestone Mall cinema and then in the disabled bathroom by McDonalds. Parking lot too.
Bathroom in a busy Spur.
On the balloon ride at Gold Reef City.
At a lion kill in Kruger Park.
I love the idea, maybe who knows more exciting places to explore, if course with someone you trust and heart desires
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its just sad seeing that some give up rather than trying, sometimes things can workout, if the other just gave the option, but yes we sometimes rather give up, cause its so much easier than fighting for that which could be so special. its easy ..... you just had to believe.
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Quote by BrattyKitty
Hmm I’m Bi (although my profile says straight to slow down the number of men that message me for threesomes which I detest) and as a Bi woman, if I meet or get approached by a woman who says she is Bi curious, I run the other direction. I’m not sure if what my bestie told me is correct but when she switched from Straight to Bi after doing a Podcast on all this stuff, she came out to me as Bi curious. The description she gave me was this. “She likes women, but not enough to want to do anything more the possibly kiss them. They however could play with her and eat her and fuck her and satisfy her and she would be fine with all of that. But there is no way she would ever reciprocate because the idea revolted her.”
As a Bi woman that loves to give and get, so that’s a hard no for me and while I love her to bits I find this opinion sexually selfish and lazy and there is no way I’ll go near a Bi curious women. It’s having your cake and not eating it. 🍰 a waste.
Her loss.... If only she knew how sweet you are
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I'm sure this topic may have been done before, yet somehow I must have missed it.
How do you move on when your heart says no. I'm sure there's lots of people here who have fallen in love with another , for some reason or at most times a dumb reason there's a breakup over a stupid fight, either been over protective, fight or flight , hurt, misunderstanding and so many more.
Yet...trying to move on is both difficult for both, knowingly that somehow there is a soul connection or bond attracting them to each other. I've noticed in many of these forums so many ridicule the other or leave nasty snotty remarks, lets try our utmost best here to leave it at home.
Insights , views, opinions are all welcome.
Have you ever lost someone and know that that person still holds strong feelings and thoughts about you
