Quote by Farai13

You never know what's the response on the other side once you say Hi.

Its like a friendly request that's never accepted.

so true

Quote by CheekyMod

Some people have expectations that if you make any type of contact, that it means you want them to come join you in bed "right now". I often see an interesting or very well written introduction, and sometimes I'll message them, but for the most part, I just smile and move on. As the saying goes - 'n toe bek is 'n heel bek 🤐😄

true... but at most people say hi, get to know the other or see compatibility

Quote by chocco

I would love to say hi but very aware you are looking for couples and dont want to waste your time....your posts are thought provoking and i enjoy those...but Hi..👌

thank you chocco. we do see you like our statuses and posts all the time. we appreciate that alot.

hi all.

How many times do you see people visiting your profile, daily over and over yet they can not once just send a simple hi, or hey cool profile to that effect. Are they just interested in looking for naked pics , and mastribating to your pics like childish porn starved sex maniacs.

where are the days a simple hi would surfice, even if the persons are not compatible or diffrence in skin, culture or distance apart. basic human respect, a simple hello or thank you.

Next, asking for nos but only lately mr speaks and mrs is so busy or somewhere where she cant anything.

Racial slander and tension,.topic opened so many times. if someone says no or ignores, dont make a fuss about it. accept they are not interested . Move or block.

lastly....couples over 50...hey guys and girls....age is but a number. no point judging or making derogertory remarks at someone that age....remember you too shall be there one day. Remember we are also young at heart, body has a few scars and stories to tell, something we can all do around a fire place to brag who or what marked who.

Quote by SDM

I wonder how many other members have thoughts / opinions / experiences they would like to share with regards to this topic but choose not too based on the simple fact they are aware just how other members would react.

why would you want to propogate a debate knowing full well that this subject is a very bad subject in the light it creates anamosity.

Can admin or one of the moderators please shut this topic down.

Why cant people leave people who choose who or what they want or not. Freedom of choice. Why must that feedom too be removed because he or she can not accept anothers choice or desirre of who and what they wish to join or not. Always a racial card thrown in when someone denies or refuses another. Really... Come on... A white, a black, a cooured, a indian well it doea not make any diffrence what ethnic or nationality. Leave and let be. Please... If the answer is no... Respect and move on. No issues needed

Quote by PixieSwings

Greetings, new here and a little nervous but very excited.

welcome and let the fun begins

this is so comon. well it happens to most 99% of the time. we dont bother anymore. block and move on

We love daring each other in public. We love touching each other and seeing who taps out first..... Well i do.... She has more guts in her than i ever will.

Quote by BrattyKitty

Probably not in that case 😉 men who have girth tend to know it from the sounds their partners make 😏

Miss u my friend

Quote by hansbel

Very interesting piece of writing, thank you sharing your point of view!

The biggest mistake that a lot of men do, usually single - claiming to be "bulls" are the fools paradise that they live in and assume that when a couple are looking for a 3rd player to join in is that the Husband is incompetent in the bedroom and automatically has a small penis! Ironically the majority of so called "bulls" actually have average size penises, in-spite of them claiming the contrary! ....They will come with toilet rolls, spray cans, and tape measures ,,,, and anyone can see the technique that they apply is incorrect - it is easy to ad a few centimeters. Besides most woman will tell you, it is not the size of the penis but rather the way it is applied! And it is not just up to the penis, but also the hands, tongue, body language, respect etc! ... The biggest fact that puts most couples off is the arrogant attitude that some "bulls" have - that if a lady would like more than one male - then that makes her a cheap slut and easy! ..... Most "bulls" needs to be brought back down to earth - The reality - That is that most couples would like to experience these 3soms with a decent person that respects the couple!

What we found is that the true single males that is real swingers that is in the lifestyle generally understand what it is about! unlike the misinformed that think that they are a "bull"

And this is why most couples won't even entertain single males, unlike single females!

Please feel free to agree or disagree and ad your opinion!

Kind regards

Hansel

well siad, thats why we dont bother with the single men, they have no respect, think they gods and start demanding and ordering how the night must be, been there done it and both of us are gatvol of twats.. rather stick to couples and ladies

naaah nelspruit at its glory,someone must sponser food and drinks and even fuel money then all will climb from the closets. no point in trying to organise anything. all wana be free loaders. enjoy peeps.

unfortunately, some don't know what no means, tiered of ego manistic guys

hi hi, any swingers out there interested in a meet and greet. planning for mid to end febuary....something like a theme party. have a venue, food available and refreshments.

if so interested let us know.

to add, we have to be kinda equal to male verses female verses couples.

pop us a message if interested

Quote by BrattyKitty

Instant ick and block 🥴

iced and blocked........kinda sounds realistic

HI........hi anybody home .....santa has a prezzi for you

no...no..no... you all got it wrong....soft swinging means lots and lots and lots of soft pillows. so you can swing softly without hurting yourself.......oh hell ....watse stront skryf ons hier

Quote by BrattyKitty

Instant ick and block 🥴

So true

Quote by BrattyKitty

Ohhhh your venue is perfect for dogging🤩 what a great idea. Hmm would not have minded a peek 👀 to when I was there 😏Nice idea this hope you find some keen friends.

You may forever have a peek

U know that

hi all.

Ok, going to try this meet and greet again.

We have a venue just outside nelspruit aprox 4km towards uitkyk, safe secure and there will be no espectations unless you make your own. anyways, to ensure we dont mix with the un-normal people...lol....i suggest that we all wear a upside down pineapple on our clothing so we as the normal people can identify the right people, untill those who are not swingers go,

so i suggest the 25th of this month, from about 18h00 ( 6pm ) for those not knowing.

That gives us 2 weeks. There is drinks and food for sale and the secure parking.

those interested send a pvt message or leave one here.

its just like the dogging story, all want but no body does anything

Quote by PoohC

We have seen & played with a few couples where this has happend. Its Always The Guy that Gets Jealous Never the Girl!

There are MANY men that pressure their wives into the lifestyle because they want to Fcuk other woman... But the minute they see some Guy Fcuking Their wives... they cant handle it! (Because they are selfish lovers)

We have played with a few couples (Because the guy wants to bang my wife) but the minute i start playing with their wives, they literally end up in tears.

Being Jealous is the dumbest emotion ever. Being a Selfish lover is worse...

I so agree with you. Most do not truly understand the concept of the swinging lifestyle. Many people are ignorant or they become possessive and dictate.

Quote by BrattyKitty

Awww you silly man. 🤗You made me mushy now. 😘 thank you hun for such sweet words. 💋 your imprint in my heart has been quite big to and just so you know, I can’t walk past fucking tinned snails without thinking of you and smiling. I have no idea why 🤣 fucking snails of all thing 😅

if only u knew

Quote by BrattyKitty

You hands are pretty amazing 😏

Lol.... You made it possible. You are what so many desire, kind, sensual, orgasmic, funny, gentle..... There aint enough worda in the worlda dictionaries bound together. If men would. Look past the sexual part of tou and discover the real you, they too would understand that here is an angelic angel who has so so much to give. 💐👫

You leave a huge 👣 in a person's life

Quote by We4Fun

Me

I know every part of my hands knew what they were doing. Even when i fell asleep they knew where to be and warm and moist

Quote by BrattyKitty

Pity you’re not in Jozi, I know someone here whose hands are magical 😏

Me

Quote by nerowp

Love it but he must be bi also want to suck his cock with her,or muff her with him inside her.

we have been trying to find a couple where both are bi, and not bi curious.....but we thinkith that its a fairy tail

Quote by BrattyKitty

Hippo enclosure at the pta zoo at night during a sleepover camping ⛺️ event for the introduction of White Tigers to SA.

Lion/ elephant/ gorilla/ polar bear enclosures at the JHB zoo. Yea I worked there at the time.

At the Cradlestone Mall cinema and then in the disabled bathroom by McDonalds. Parking lot too.

Bathroom in a busy Spur.

On the balloon ride at Gold Reef City.

At a lion kill in Kruger Park.

I love the idea, maybe who knows more exciting places to explore, if course with someone you trust and heart desires

life is hard, then it becomes even harder......then one day......all will be okay......just need to build the courage

Quote by BrattyKitty

Probably not in that case 😉 men who have girth tend to know it from the sounds their partners make 😏

I wonder how mine was or is 🤔

its just sad seeing that some give up rather than trying, sometimes things can workout, if the other just gave the option, but yes we sometimes rather give up, cause its so much easier than fighting for that which could be so special. its easy ..... you just had to believe.