Quote by BrattyKitty
Watching two well hung masculine men I find attractive on a bed, playing with each other and following my instructions. Kissing, sucking and teasing each other while I sit in a chair and enjoy the show. Once I’ve had them fuck each other, they can both please and serve me. Should lead to a few orgasms I will enjoy while I lie back and glow with their attention on me. 😏
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Quote by BrattyKitty
Watching two well hung masculine men I find attractive on a bed, playing with each other and following my instructions. Kissing, sucking and teasing each other while I sit in a chair and enjoy the show. Once I’ve had them fuck each other, they can both please and serve me. Should lead to a few orgasms I will enjoy while I lie back and glow with their attention on me. 😏
my dear, how strange that sounds but so close to heart, for this was once a fantacy , yet never seen nor spoken of again. i truly miss you my sweet sweet love, for hopefully our paths shall once again cross. 😘
we a long time back were mods so weve seen this thing over and over many times in the past. unfortunately people also dont understand that each person chooses thier own path here. match or not everyone can do as they desire. even fake profiles or profiles of a couple where the one is been abused by her partner, fear sets in and she remains silent and just does to keep the peace, others ...well people who are racist, others who have phobias over a woman or man been bi, some like dagga, some like booze, what ever floats the boat in this pool of unhappy people there is and shall always be a person or persons unhappy.
this is where you have to take time, going through each profile , reading sometimes in between the lines and deciding if you will or want to go further. with the person or persons , well we easy, first all, friendship, trust and respect....what ever may grow from there shall only be a bonus not a must.
if you blocked , dont complain, smile and wave...its there loss not yours. you never had them from the begining or were friends or anything, why complain....just go with the flow......let them peep in your pleasure and happiness. there loss ...not yours
we have if we can remember 4 profiles that keep cisiting us even though 3 blocked us and 1 we blocked. it is what it is, if they want to see your profile even though they blocked and unblocked then reblocked you, well smile and wave. you are so important to them that they have to unblock you. you famous. laugh at there stupidity.
we have seen alot have blocked us, aome because they dont want old people, others cause we straight, some because they lend there ears out and dont see a story has 3 sides, your truth , our truth and the real truth.
others are because of race or culture, drugs..... regardless. if they visit you are important. if they never pay attention well then you were worth zilch
Quote by Ryan71
I used to be a site mod. I have dealt with this issue on more than one occasion. But anyways... enjoy your time on the site.
same here been a mod , many times in the past. unfortunately people also dont understand that each person chooses thier own path here. match or not everyone can do as they desire. even fake profiles or profiles of a couple where the one is been abused by her partner, fear sets in and she remains silent and just does to keep the peace, others ...well people who are racist, others who have phobias over a woman or man been bi, some like dagga, some like booze, what ever floats the boat in this pool of unhappy people there is and shall always be a person or persons unhappy.
this is where you have to take time, going through each profile , reading sometimes in between the lines and deciding if you will or want to go further. with us , well we easy, first all, friendship, trust and respect....what ever may grow from there shall only be a bonus not a must.
if you blocked , dont complain, smile and wave...its there loss not yours. you never had them from the begining or were friends or anything, why complain....just go with the flow......
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I wonder how many other members have thoughts / opinions / experiences they would like to share with regards to this topic but choose not too based on the simple fact they are aware just how other members would react.
why would you want to propogate a debate knowing full well that this subject is a very bad subject in the light it creates anamosity.
Can admin or one of the moderators please shut this topic down.
Why cant people leave people who choose who or what they want or not. Freedom of choice. Why must that feedom too be removed because he or she can not accept anothers choice or desirre of who and what they wish to join or not. Always a racial card thrown in when someone denies or refuses another. Really... Come on... A white, a black, a cooured, a indian well it doea not make any diffrence what ethnic or nationality. Leave and let be. Please... If the answer is no... Respect and move on. No issues needed
Quote by hansbel
Very interesting piece of writing, thank you sharing your point of view!
The biggest mistake that a lot of men do, usually single - claiming to be "bulls" are the fools paradise that they live in and assume that when a couple are looking for a 3rd player to join in is that the Husband is incompetent in the bedroom and automatically has a small penis! Ironically the majority of so called "bulls" actually have average size penises, in-spite of them claiming the contrary! ....They will come with toilet rolls, spray cans, and tape measures ,,,, and anyone can see the technique that they apply is incorrect - it is easy to ad a few centimeters. Besides most woman will tell you, it is not the size of the penis but rather the way it is applied! And it is not just up to the penis, but also the hands, tongue, body language, respect etc! ... The biggest fact that puts most couples off is the arrogant attitude that some "bulls" have - that if a lady would like more than one male - then that makes her a cheap slut and easy! ..... Most "bulls" needs to be brought back down to earth - The reality - That is that most couples would like to experience these 3soms with a decent person that respects the couple!
What we found is that the true single males that is real swingers that is in the lifestyle generally understand what it is about! unlike the misinformed that think that they are a "bull"
And this is why most couples won't even entertain single males, unlike single females!
Please feel free to agree or disagree and ad your opinion!
Kind regards
Hansel
well siad, thats why we dont bother with the single men, they have no respect, think they gods and start demanding and ordering how the night must be, been there done it and both of us are gatvol of twats.. rather stick to couples and ladies
hi hi, any swingers out there interested in a meet and greet. planning for mid to end febuary....something like a theme party. have a venue, food available and refreshments.
if so interested let us know.
to add, we have to be kinda equal to male verses female verses couples.
pop us a message if interested
hi all.
Ok, going to try this meet and greet again.
We have a venue just outside nelspruit aprox 4km towards uitkyk, safe secure and there will be no espectations unless you make your own. anyways, to ensure we dont mix with the un-normal people...lol....i suggest that we all wear a upside down pineapple on our clothing so we as the normal people can identify the right people, untill those who are not swingers go,
so i suggest the 25th of this month, from about 18h00 ( 6pm ) for those not knowing.
That gives us 2 weeks. There is drinks and food for sale and the secure parking.
those interested send a pvt message or leave one here.
its just like the dogging story, all want but no body does anything
Quote by PoohC
We have seen & played with a few couples where this has happend. Its Always The Guy that Gets Jealous Never the Girl!
There are MANY men that pressure their wives into the lifestyle because they want to Fcuk other woman... But the minute they see some Guy Fcuking Their wives... they cant handle it! (Because they are selfish lovers)
We have played with a few couples (Because the guy wants to bang my wife) but the minute i start playing with their wives, they literally end up in tears.
Being Jealous is the dumbest emotion ever. Being a Selfish lover is worse...
I so agree with you. Most do not truly understand the concept of the swinging lifestyle. Many people are ignorant or they become possessive and dictate.
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Awww you silly man. 🤗You made me mushy now. 😘 thank you hun for such sweet words. 💋 your imprint in my heart has been quite big to and just so you know, I can’t walk past fucking tinned snails without thinking of you and smiling. I have no idea why 🤣 fucking snails of all thing 😅
if only u knew
Quote by BrattyKitty
You hands are pretty amazing 😏
Lol.... You made it possible. You are what so many desire, kind, sensual, orgasmic, funny, gentle..... There aint enough worda in the worlda dictionaries bound together. If men would. Look past the sexual part of tou and discover the real you, they too would understand that here is an angelic angel who has so so much to give. 💐👫
You leave a huge 👣 in a person's life
