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1 hour ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 53
Straight White/Caucasian Female, 50
0 km · Nelspruit

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Quote by BrattyKitty

You men that enjoy it need to teach those that don’t the ropes. The balance is way off on this one. One of the most amazing forms of pleasure and most men spend their time lapping at a clit thinking that’s all there is to it. 🙄 or worse sucking on a lip thinking it’s a clit.

I went on a girls night out with my besties to Amsterdam last year and a woman lay across the back of my couch while we were chatting. She spread her legs and a man got between them and started eating her. I looked and moved back to the conversation with my friends. I looked back every now again out of curiosity and once she was cleaning her nails, another time she rolled her eyes and smiled at me and 30min later I heard a soft snore in my ear and looked back to find her sleeping while he ate.

Wtf!!!! MEN she she is not squirming all over the bed/floor/couch or moaning like a banshee or trying to blind you by squirting in your eyes …..YOU are not doing it right. Go watch some lesbian porn and learn about other areas far more interesting then a clit and how to use mouth, fingers, hand and fucking toys if you have too. But learn for fuck sakes.

Dutchess I rather like your idea of giving what you get. I think I’ll start doing that too. Cause fuck it suck’s going all in and sucking the life force from a man only to have him flap a tongue like a puppy and ask “did you cum yet?” 🙄🙄

Don’t be that guy!!! Please.

so true what you say, one must be spontaneous, one must elude the other in seduction and create that what cant easily be replaced by another. I know as i had a experience last year June / July with a lady. the experience and lust desired from our encounters was enormously huge for me. to find another as such will be near impossible or even close to gain. love lost , hearts , well life is hard without such of which one desires, nothing or no one will ever be able to replace her in any way possible.

but.....within the same breath it too goes both ways, I've seen and experienced ladies who, well lick and flick and try there utmost best to get him to blow his load. look if you not willing to put the time and effort in for the lady or guy and arouse them to the fullest, then rather leave this lifestyle, no one wants a thog who just wants to make another notch on there lists

Hey all

so many speak of dogging in nelspruit but well nothing really comes of it due to crime and where its situated.

Well ive got a awesome venue where one can go and do some dogging and then return to a warm fire , game of pool, awesome food and drinks.

ps....and its safe from lurking eyes of the unwanted......except me....i may just peak or ummm who knows.

so cum on, , test the waters and lets see where it may lead to

waiting for the next cuddle has taken so long....was kinda hoping to reunite ...but now i accept all cuddles around. lol as they say a half a cuddle is better than no cuddle at all

Quote by BrattyKitty

Wait what!!! I had no idea this black ring thing was a thing…..and the toe ring 🫣 live and learn 😅

maybe a nipple ring

meet and greet just outside nelspruit. time for a party

Quote by BrattyKitty

Move on, let go, it was not meant to be. Heal ❤️‍🩹

LOL....Heal........that sounds so nice , truly does, if only it were true. Love has no bounds, no end nor start, its cycle never ends regardless of how its treated.

things one finds weird, is when one finds love, but the wires are crossed or not understood, or when one writes stories of the other, or when they getn unblocked but cant write that they do truly miss the other and all they needed to write was , hey ...lets try again, but take it slow.....instead every now they peak into the others profile, hoping, begging for that chance. SKH

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Let go please 😔

difficult........the heart desires so much

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Sounds way too familiar. 😤 sorry you’re having a bad day.

I just had a man message me and offer to pay me to take a dump on his chest. 🙄😬 I’ll trade you the ‘No’s’ for the day for that one. 😂

Respect seems like a foreign concept to some.

sometimes the heart can not let go ............ does one truly understand love

This topic will raise many opinions but it would be nice to see what and how others think or feel.

Can one care too much about the person they love or care about,

for eg...... your partner taking a long trip, check ins or geo tag or shared locations.

does one need to show or leave as be ?

your partner going alone to a meet with a stranger ?

your partner not been forth right or truly open and honest ?

Many subjects can be opened up in many reasons...…regardless of the circumstance's, can a person truly care too much for the other that he, or she go into a frenzy or worry and sometimes loose their minds for a moment ?

lets hear your views, remember no attacking or been rude, just how it affects you as person

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Lets arrange and put it together

Unfortunately the host has to cover all before any come out from the cracks, done it, got the t-shirt, ain't doing that again.

anyways it 95% a sausage fest at most

tried to organise.....but yep so clicky in nelspruit......same o same o

love what you wrote, unfortunately most ladies want the great looking six pack plus guys, forgetting big guys like us have heart, have humor, and know how to make a person smile, not just from sexual pleasure but from a great friendship

i wonder if anyone is looking for a single guy for nsa fun

Nelspruit......pity there is not any oe active to olay wth

wonder if theres any couples or ladys looking for fun with a single guy

we love fairy tales, and happy ever afters, look for anything to happen in nelspruit for a get together you must have 1 sucker who is rich, who books a venue and ensures its private, then this sucker must have a open bar, with snacks free to the guests ........... mmmmm sounds so familiar, did it a couple of times, got the tatty t shirt and well the only badge was the account. sorry but nelspruits people are very clicky, self absorbed and require status above all else. regardless how nice or charismatic anyone is , it all comes down to .....who the &^%$$ is alice.

In many cases the camera also does not do justice to the person. Cameras make people look big or other things. But when you see in reality they not really

Why do sonmany judge a book by its cover without taking the chance to get to see for yourself

like the sands falling the hour glass......so has this idea,,,,,,,

or are thing been played like harry potter, all secrecy and hidden

Well so far nice feedback. The proof is in the pie , excuse the pun

The pub, maybe a saterday afternoon, Jock to busy, too many known faces and can get a bit crazy. or some place as such

As per Morne says, unfortunately not all the couples are into single dudes and many prefer a couple or a lady.

The concept is good, hopefully boundaries are kept including privacy and respect. Yet Nelspruit is known for knocking another's peg down for personal gain.

In our game of play we normally dont kiss, but it has happened that regardless through the exstacy of climax and sometimes foreplay the lust or shear lust drives the animal within and so we do not condem nor push the idea away. We are a quiet and maybe a fussy couple in many aspects but we became swingers to have nsa fun, not to debate about things of no value. our profile speaks for itself, many will carry a story, others will speak highly but in the end as the others say, each to thier own.