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Sofistikitty
Over 90 days ago
Straight Mixed Race Female, 44
0 km · Johannesburg

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I had a tongue,chin and belly button ring-was a bit rebellious and refused to conform i suppose. The tongue ring irritated me so was in for less than a week. The chin(inbetween bottom lip and chin) i took out when i worked as chef in 5star hotel and just left it out. The belly ring lasted couple years but took it out when i wore a certain jeans cos it kept hooking. Sadly i was not sexually active at the time so never really got to test the whole sexual part of it -Sucks. Never put it back in after i got preg. I am getting a tattoo this year because i have finally decided on my original idea-tribal cat, which has alot of meaning and symbolism (please google to check). To me its sexy and appeals to me on a deeper level, plus i think it would look good and i like showing my ankles lol
I prefer tasteful sexy pics, mystery is sexy. I try doing that lol hope it comes across as such though. I just love love love torso shots of well built men. They beat penis shots hand down in my opinion. Then again maybe thats just me,the guy im seeing said its refreshing that i never asked for a pic of his penis.
Thanks guys, found a lovely and inexpensive place in randburg. Will definately be going there again! If someone needs details inbox me.
Something similar happend to me during a one on one long ago. He bragged and said things. He sent pics of his member and when we hooked up, it wasnt the same penis that i saw in pics. The party was over before it even begun. Very disappointing, i confronted him he told me im full of shit and sex is sex. Anyway i told him thanks but no thanks and havent seen or heard from him since - not that i mind another was with a guy that joined me at a pvt party. I had never been with him before-when it came down to play time nobody wanted to go near him: he didnt groom AT ALL. He didnt even freshen up. I spoke to him about it but what does one do in the heat of the moment? I believe in being honest, but without being nasty and bruising someone permanently i suppose. Or else just dont go for seconds. Once bitten i guess...
wink Hey folks does anyone know of decent places in west rand, not too pricey though to have "quality time" for a Day or 2? Inbox me please.
So met someone on the site and we been chatting for a bit. We get on like a house on fire. We went out and we match pretty well, and without having sex. I think this is so cool... He did all the tests without me asking, let me know and suggested we show our results to each other on our date. Its so refreshing, think my profiles changing from single to with someone soon lol .
I'm here for what I ask for in my profile. I prefer being straight forward, so there's no confusion. I have a high libido as well as an insatiable desire to please and be pleased. Want a friend I can chat to, swing with and be intimate with all on a regular basis(FWB) And well after some good and bad... I finally have had an amazing time with a couple and think I'm going to stick with them for now. Still looking for a male partner though.
At the moment I'm reading our local paper, also a book (real one) The Art of War. I don't really do mags nothing is appealing, reading an artical on the internet though-latin every "man" should know.
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Have a I paid for sex. Yes I have. Now before anyone jumps to conclusions let me explain. When Meet a girl I find interesting, the is dinners, gifts etc. That all costs. There is one girl I was seeing recently. I spent R65k in 4 months with her before I had enough. Total number of sexual occasions with her, 9. Do the math.
But back to PIB and her original question.
I was approached by a woman that has an escort agency in jhb. She wanted me to to be a companion for the night for women who needed a date. For a function, a work event or what ever the occasion may be. These dates do entail sex.
So to answer PIB. Yes, a woman can find a man for hire, that is not for hire by gay guys. You just need to know who to ask and where.
I did consider doing this, but........ Did not go ahead with it. I could just see the shock on a woman's face who would have booked me, and on my face, if I knew her.

Pleeeeeeease lol we can go to mcdonalds lol I'll pay for my own meal!
Or screw the meal I'll just eat you. And there will be lots of sexual orcassions lol.
Supper - who cares
Drinks- who cares
Night with kitty... PRICELESS
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Ermmm Stamina you going to PAY for a rub and tuck then???
Now I have read a few very controversial comments from you on that issue,over the last 2 changed your view??
By the way when are we going to see the elusive little sex bomb of a GF you are hiding??

What changed my mind? The fact that there are ZERO females in Gauteng willing to have a threesome with good looking couple. I was always against paying for it but have come to realise - you want a threesome, you pay for it - otherwise it wont happen EVER!! There is not a single female on this site (close by) that goes further than an answer to the first message. All keen and ready to plan something but mail again? No answer! Much less effort to fork out some cash than to go through the frustration of little girls that don't know what they want on a swingers site! I am tired of playing games now.
Ignored messages. Abrupt ending to chats. Planned meets never materialising. "single females" actually being part of a couple looking for a female to join them. Fake pics. Etc, etc, etc... Seriously people, I have better things to do with my time. I promised my girl her first "touch of a female", I will deliver on that promise - even if it means paying for it! I would love to experience a threesome - but soon! Not when I am 50!! When I want something, I want it now!!
In my mind: Send a greeting message. Chat a bit. Meet for s drink. If the "click" is there, play time... Simple. Unfortunately that does not and will not happen. 99% of the girls on this site that say they are looking for a couple to play with are bullshitting! They here to satisfy a curiosity in their mind only. As "single male" on here for over a year, no action. Now as a couple looking for someone for my girl - NO ACTION!! I have money thanks, time to use it! I phone, I book, we play - simple!
Just thought I'd give my story, similar situation. Last week friday a chubby friend of mine called me. And said she was in a naughty mood. She asked if I could organise a guy that would want to join us. Of the guys I have met on site about 5(only been with one)2 were away on business, 1 at wedding weekend. Other 2 were available. At first she was going to host and just needed the guy to pick me up(no car at moment). He messaged me told me he couldn't make it due to work. Then I asked the other dude and he was up for it. Unfortunately she couldn't get a sitter so we opted to ask him to host. He was fine but says we have to make our own way to his place. He knows the situation and when him and I go out he usually picks me up, so not sure what's up. But anyway, he kept messaging to find out how far we had got with transport to his place. And after I told him we didn't have a plan, he just let it go. WHO DOES THAT!?
So I've decided won't offer a sharing experience with anyone again.
Quote by Stamina
Sofistikitty meet Stamina.
Stamina meet Sofistikitty wink

Thanks Cupid.. He he he... lol
So tell me? What time should I be there Kitty? :wink:
Lol stamina yesterday already, call in sick at work for monday and bring food and drink. Cos nigga you aint going NO WHERE lol I have built up tensiopn that needs sorting!
So I should bring food, drink and a neck brace? I need to check with my medical aid if sex induced injuries are covered. He he he...
Yes preferably hand food,like pizza so the rest of u is free :wink: and a squeeze bottle lol the type the cyclists use. Hmmmm neck brace huh? Sure we could put that to use haha. You won't need to go to gym for week after we done .
I'm not gonna waste perfume and lingerie and energy lol. Maybe I must become celebate or finally get a dildo? Sad sad day lol
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If I get to play with a girl. ...... I also have lots of stamina( no pun intended Mr Stamina) lol
Let's just say you definitely won't be left wanting kitty.......rather purring with pleasure passionkiss

Now I'm very interested lol take me!
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If I get to play with a girl. ...... I also have lots of stamina( no pun intended Mr Stamina) lol
Let's just say you definitely won't be left wanting kitty.......rather purring with pleasure passionkiss

Ladies please?! There are horny men on this site that have a hard time getting some... Then you go and post things this??? Salt in the wounds girls!! :lol: :lol:
Lol maybe if vamp cool we could include you stamina wink
Quote by Stamina
Sofistikitty meet Stamina.
Stamina meet Sofistikitty wink

Thanks Cupid.. He he he... lol
So tell me? What time should I be there Kitty? :wink:
Lol stamina yesterday already, call in sick at work for monday and bring food and drink. Cos nigga you aint going NO WHERE lol I have built up tensiopn that needs sorting!
Quote by VampEC1
You not alone on this one sofistikitty, I've had the same problems.
You just need to find someone that can keep up!
If you can find a girl that can keep up, you're in for a treat!
(Pity you're straight)

Hey I'm straight but a curious kitty lol. What did you have in mind vamp?
Quote by Nimfie_Pieman
Sofistikitty meet Stamina.
Stamina meet Sofistikitty wink

Lol lol I was just thinking bout his post haha
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Lol, it's hard to say with experiencing the kegals etc

Lol what do you mean experiencing them? Explain
So I've been thinking about something. Very often, well most times I get with a guy he doesn't last very long. Now I've always just thought that they didn't have staying power or maybe its the first round etc. But it always happens and then I told its my fault. In my earlier days when I lost my virginity, it seemed the norm with my first and that's what I thought sex was about. I then met my first love and boy, he showed me a thing or two. I've only had 3 men that could "keep" up with me and some disappointments- where I'm still left wanting, then some that did a good job just wished it lasted longersad. I was speaking to a guy friend about this and he reckons that maybe I overwhelm the guys. Like by moaning and doing something that let's them get "trigger happy". So then what must I do? keep quiet? Moan less or keep still, lay like broccoli? Lol stop the kegels? Lol look less sexy haha?? Any tips?
Quote by KC_
I have no idea how I give head....
I LOVE eating cock, but since I had an STI scare last year, I now only suck K without a dome on, which is my favourite!
I nibble, suck, lick and pull on everything from the head to his balls....
With out other playmates, I am getting better at sucking with a dome on, now I just need to learn how to put a dome on with my mouth!
The guys we have played with have complimented me on my head skills, even with a dome on... so either
1. My enthusiasm makes up for the dome, or
2. They give unsolicited compliments to boost my ego
I always ask the guys for direction, like, tell me if you want it harder, faster, less teeth, more teeth....
I sadly have not eaten enough pussy to comment on my skillset there... just enthusiastic and always willing to be directed.
If any ladies are willing to help me to improve my skills.... PM me ;) :twisted:
;)
C

Erm I volunteer to teach you the dome with your mouth thing. Hehe
I will take you up on that offer Sofistikitty!
Can we practice on K? :twisted:
;)
C
Well I'm a good girl , but always get approached apparently I ooze sexuality(dunno how or what that means) but like people say I have bedroom eyes. My friends know me to be daring and confident but have no idea that I'm into the lifestyle. Family always seem to come to me for advice (even though I was a late bloomer and lost my virginity after all of my cousins) Been told I look naughty by strangers so I'm not sure if I blend in well lol. But I'm a good kitty I swear. Ay sometimes being "sultry" is a bad thing.
Quote by KC_
I have no idea how I give head....
I LOVE eating cock, but since I had an STI scare last year, I now only suck K without a dome on, which is my favourite!
I nibble, suck, lick and pull on everything from the head to his balls....
With out other playmates, I am getting better at sucking with a dome on, now I just need to learn how to put a dome on with my mouth!
The guys we have played with have complimented me on my head skills, even with a dome on... so either
1. My enthusiasm makes up for the dome, or
2. They give unsolicited compliments to boost my ego
I always ask the guys for direction, like, tell me if you want it harder, faster, less teeth, more teeth....
I sadly have not eaten enough pussy to comment on my skillset there... just enthusiastic and always willing to be directed.
If any ladies are willing to help me to improve my skills.... PM me ;) :twisted:
;)
C

Erm I volunteer to teach you the dome with your mouth thing. Hehe
I had my first swingers experience when I was single years ago. But the couple I was with we were very close and it lasted quite long. Anyway I met a guy friend that told me about the site(I'm always curious) so I joined and was hoping to have more experiences with great "chemistry" with other couples and men. Also to have new and other experiences(inter racial, bi sexual) So far I met some really cool people on the site, but also I've had disappointing meets lol. All in all I guess I got what I came for . Hoping to meet a regular friend with benefits or couple friends with benefits. Better quality then quantity
I'm not sure about other ladies , but I have a signature move-everyone should have atleast one. So I do something different when I go down on my guy BUT not just anyone. I know a friend of mine pops a cherry flavoured halls in her mouth and gives guy head-thats her signature move. So I won't tell lol will keep yal wondering...:twisted:
Maybe I shouldn't be saying this but I love that lol. But there are ways and spots to make you "release" faster.