I had a tongue,chin and belly button ring-was a bit rebellious and refused to conform i suppose. The tongue ring irritated me so was in for less than a week. The chin(inbetween bottom lip and chin) i took out when i worked as chef in 5star hotel and just left it out. The belly ring lasted couple years but took it out when i wore a certain jeans cos it kept hooking. Sadly i was not sexually active at the time so never really got to test the whole sexual part of it -Sucks. Never put it back in after i got preg.
I am getting a tattoo this year because i have finally decided on my original idea-tribal cat, which has alot of meaning and symbolism (please google to check). To me its sexy and appeals to me on a deeper level, plus i think it would look good and i like showing my ankles lol
I prefer tasteful sexy pics, mystery is sexy. I try doing that lol hope it comes across as such though. I just love love love torso shots of well built men. They beat penis shots hand down in my opinion. Then again maybe thats just me,the guy im seeing said its refreshing that i never asked for a pic of his penis.
Thanks guys, found a lovely and inexpensive place in randburg. Will definately be going there again! If someone needs details inbox me.
Something similar happend to me during a one on one long ago. He bragged and said things. He sent pics of his member and when we hooked up, it wasnt the same penis that i saw in pics. The party was over before it even begun. Very disappointing, i confronted him he told me im full of shit and sex is sex. Anyway i told him thanks but no thanks and havent seen or heard from him since - not that i mind
another was with a guy that joined me at a pvt party. I had never been with him before-when it came down to play time nobody wanted to go near him: he didnt groom AT ALL. He didnt even freshen up. I spoke to him about it but what does one do in the heat of the moment? I believe in being honest, but without being nasty and bruising someone permanently i suppose. Or else just dont go for seconds. Once bitten i guess...
Either or... Must be ensuite, and decent not dodgey like Formular1 lol
Thanks so much -The norm sti tests
So met someone on the site and we been chatting for a bit. We get on like a house on fire. We went out and we match pretty well, and without having sex. I think this is so cool... He did all the tests without me asking, let me know and suggested we show our results to each other on our date. Its so refreshing, think my profiles changing from single to with someone soon lol .
Erm what's going on? Left for a week, come back and people are leaving?
I'm here for what I ask for in my profile. I prefer being straight forward, so there's no confusion. I have a high libido as well as an insatiable desire to please and be pleased. Want a friend I can chat to, swing with and be intimate with all on a regular basis(FWB) And well after some good and bad... I finally have had an amazing time with a couple and think I'm going to stick with them for now. Still looking for a male partner though.
At the moment I'm reading our local paper, also a book (real one) The Art of War. I don't really do mags nothing is appealing, reading an artical on the internet though-latin every "man" should know.
I'm not gonna waste perfume and lingerie and energy lol. Maybe I must become celebate or finally get a dildo? Sad sad day lol
That would be cool C, wanna play with a unicorn?
Well I'm a good girl , but always get approached apparently I ooze sexuality(dunno how or what that means) but like people say I have bedroom eyes. My friends know me to be daring and confident but have no idea that I'm into the lifestyle. Family always seem to come to me for advice (even though I was a late bloomer and lost my virginity after all of my cousins)
Been told I look naughty by strangers so I'm not sure if I blend in well lol. But I'm a good kitty I swear. Ay sometimes being "sultry" is a bad thing.
I had my first swingers experience when I was single years ago. But the couple I was with we were very close and it lasted quite long. Anyway I met a guy friend that told me about the site(I'm always curious) so I joined and was hoping to have more experiences with great "chemistry" with other couples and men. Also to have new and other experiences(inter racial, bi sexual)
So far I met some really cool people on the site, but also I've had disappointing meets lol. All in all I guess I got what I came for . Hoping to meet a regular friend with benefits or couple friends with benefits. Better quality then quantity
I'm not sure about other ladies , but I have a signature move-everyone should have atleast one.
So I do something different when I go down on my guy BUT not just anyone. I know a friend of mine pops a cherry flavoured halls in her mouth and gives guy head-thats her signature move. So I won't tell lol will keep yal wondering...:twisted:
Maybe I shouldn't be saying this but I love that lol. But there are ways and spots to make you "release" faster.