I just got a message from a couple. We have never chatted or anything, I have no idea what they look like and they only know what I look like because of my pics on profile.
Anyway, the message in basic terms was the "wife" requesting that I organise with her to meet her hubby and do stuff on him, so he can go home and tell her about it. Cool I get that they into role play or she is or that she finds the idea of him with someone else a turn on, but really??? She requested that I message her for the details, didn't introduce herself or anything, just hit me with the whole fantasy thing and expects me to bite?
I am a single chick yes, but I'm not an appliance or a prop that you just pull out to use when you need. I still believe in a good intro, some good conversation. A date or two for you to see if there physical attraction and then from there establish if things were go further. That goes for couples and single dudes. I also want to say that some couples also use single men in this aspect. Yes swinging is originally couple swapping. Singles have been included for 3somes or gang bangs etc. We are not meat, show us respect( men and women) don't expect us to jump at an opportunity. Flattery, flirting, politeness and mannerisms go a long way. So, message me and if I find you intriguing we can meet and make plans from there. I'm not *this is my opinion, there might be other singles that don't feel the same.
Just my 2c, you guys are aware that once the nerves in breasts are disconnected(cut) they do not repair right? That means no feeling. I'd rather keep the feeling and sensation than have bigger boobs.
Okay ladies, you having a good time with a dude and when it's done he asks if you came? My first thought is... did he not feel it? or am I crazy? There are tell tale signs right? I'm not talking about arching her back and speaking in tongues. I mean her body gives off signs that you are orgasming. Let's see if guys know what I'm talking about. Remember *some* fake it, but you can't fake somethings. Honestly I believe you sell yourself short if you fake it. Anyway, look forward to guys answers and ladies do you have any interesting or weird experiences with regards to this? Share please.
Okay, okay back to the subject. What does orgasm feel like to me? Well for me I have had 3 types:
Something I call a climax: when I'm with someone, it's not as hard or intense as a whole orgasm. It's enjoyable feels like a small rush in my nether regions. It doesn't last long and usually I get even more randy and want the more intense orgasm.
Second is a clitoral orgasm: to me it's a very irritating tickle, unless pressure is put on it then it feels good. This one makes me shake lol like a shiver. Feel it in my pelvic area move over my body. It's a nice feeling but like I said irritating.
Third is the ultimate orgasm, the big wave! This is my favourite and most sort after orgasm-vaginal. This to me is and internal build up. It can start as a climax that builds and builds and then I feel it release all over my body, makes me want to moan out and growl. Starts in my private parts and then releases through my entire body, making mu legs stiff, my toes curl and makes me pull my pure extasy face lol. It comes on from being penetrated and is more intense if there's clitoral pressure. I clench up and it lasts for like 1-10mins. It's Divine!! I feel weak after and all I wanna do is sleep afterward. Infact I sleep like a baby and I feel shaky lol but a good shaky and very relaxed and happy. Mmmm need some sleep actually.
Yes, I don't remember...( don't use toys)** looks for a volunteer** tee hee :twisted: :twisted:
Preference I guess, I am not really attracted to older men, my dad is a goodlooking 54 year old but I would never go for men his age, it feels creepy. I must confess I like younger men but my cut off is no younger than 25 though. But they have to be manly, not fragile and childlike in physical appearance and be mature. I don't want to feel like I'm gonna hurt or taint him. Oh hell, am I a ???
I don't know if I like receiving, it is enjoyable but I worry about how I taste and smell. Sometimes guys focus on the clit, I hate that I don't see the point( well, for me) they flick it and I hate that feeling. I have recently received oral from behind...now that was something! But I usually decline, its not a biggy for me I guess. Have to really like u or be in another zone to allow it. Sigh
Erm what was this thread about again?
When I was in my 20s I was a dancer and to avoid persperation overload, I would use speed stick on my back, under my breast and just under my tummy(wasn't as big as is is now) cos I also use to wear latex pants and leather tights. One night my bf at the time and I got home and went at it. Lol he lifted his head and asked me why his tongue felt dry after he was down on me. Hahahahaha
This is an ongoing argument, I also hate the line "do not cross colour line" but then they message me and send me album invites. Like the country we live in and even the world the race thing will always be an issue.
As a woman on this site its really difficult, we get bombarded with messages. Stalked, get rude, crude and even some shocking messages. And the pics, I'm so tired of seeing penis! *ok except the one that I'm interested in. Sometimes the messages pile up so badly we just scan through them and if nothing interests us or gets our attention we pass it. I clearly state on my profile that if I'm not interested I won't be replying. That to me is about preference, profiles with only pics of private parts I ignore, friend request and no messages I ignore, incomplete profiles get ignored too.I hope I don't offend anyone.
I have met a lot of good guys on this site though who I am still friends with.
*this is my opinion and views no offence intended
What if u taste like "nothing" lol
That's what I'm thinking, cos nothing is "safe" enough to use in that area Bruce. Maybe I should try that lol, get spare rib flavour hahaha
The other day a guy friend of mine and I were having a discussion about cunnilingus. It turned around and he started tellibng me about the most memorable experience he had while going down on a woman. He says it was like a couple of years ago but could still remember how good she tasted. When I asked, he said she tasted like a ripe strawberry. He reckons she must have put lotion or something down there but that's what it tasted like. Sweet and fruity. Now I'm like wtf? How did she get that right? I also want a guy that's been down on me to react like that. I am over self conscious, so I hardly let anyone down there( so sad). I know there's something about eating pineapple or drinking a lot of juice to get it to taste better. I , unfortunately am allegergic to pineapple so no luck there. I've never had complaints, but lol I want to a guy to remember me like that and not leave a "bad" taste in his mouth lol pun intended.
Anyone know any tricks? Or tips that a woman can use? Any bad or good experiences you want to share.
Well, besides meeting liars, fakers and weird people. I have met awesome folks, Ash you are one got nothing but love for you. Its changed things like I met my current partner and he and I are now business partners aswell. I'm incredibly happy. Also its changed my opinion of certain things eventhough I might not agree on some. I've become more open minded and learnt a lot (thanks PIB). So guess with the good and bad I stick around, meet new and interesting people and learn a few more things along the way
Is it weird that I don't like toys??
My opinion or perspective from a single female...most "single" males on the site are indeed married men playing without the knowledge or permission of their wives. Usually they looking for easy and quick sex. Also I've been to parties where men were not limited, it was a disaster! I'm not saying all men , please don't get me wrong. Some men don't understand the concept of swinging, they mistreat women like me because we are on a sex site. At the parties where guys were charged less and unlimited, I was fondled and nearly forced to touch private parts etc. The situation was difficult to control, after that the club allowed verified males only. Some men tend to get into this zone where they feel that manners are not necessary and that if you are a female and you there then you want it.
My input as a hostess of parties and an adult venue, we cater for guys but we do charge guys the equivalent as couples-reason being that we usually have an over flow of single men wanting to attend. Also single females prefer to play with couples as opposed to guys and couples prefer females. So we invite more females so everyone has fun that night, guys included. Else there would be an insane amount of single guys chilling by themselves. The men are screened and as far as we can see they are ok behavior wise are made members and there are some really cool guys around, loved socialising with them. The guys have also been invited by couples and females for play dates outside our parties.
It is unfair yes, but reality a minimal amount of single females act inappropriately at parties/clubs compared to majority of men. In fact the last party we had female was banned and all the guys there made members so I suppose it depends on the individual. How do we sniff out the rif rafs though?
As far as women rule goes I think it's a good rule, but also we have a no means no for everyone rule. For our parties, we want everyone to be sorted, comfy and enjoy. In most cases women are skeptical and anxious and men are open to doing things. If the women rule is taken away some men would take advantage and act up. Again it depends on the individual but rather have rule as guideline.
**again this is from my experience and this does not apply to all single males.
and not just looks but has brains as well .