It always fascinates me with topics such as this one and even the likes of "Dogging" how many views the posts get. Hundreds and hundreds . . . . . with only a few replies. That in it itself, speaks volumes.
So, I have always wondered about which area (Province) was the friendliest.
Cape Town has always been a "happy hunting ground" for me. People just seem to know what they want down there.
Mpumalanga where I live . . . not so much (with the possible exception of Nelspruit)
Everyone is just too busy in KZN, and good old Gauteng . . . well, let's just say that for the smallest area which has the most members, they do not seem too keen on the actual concept.
I was very recently pleasantly surprised by the nice people in the Eastern Cape, and I am really looking forward to going down there again soon.
What about you? What have you found?
Ian, it's all down to manners or the particular lack thereof, something that is prevalent throughout this entire country in all spheres.
(This is now my opinion) you know, as asked for))
Peoples perceptions of other people are largely formed from what they are told about the other person and maybe even from what other people say about the person . . . . . or simply from what they experience from the other person!
@ECFun, I hope the response does not result in you no longer participating in the forums.
My understanding is as follows:
Group sex is several men and women.
A gang-bang is one woman and several men (or one man and several women for a reverse gangbang)
Perhaps you have highlighted something that a number of people "don't really know" as far as the ticks on their profiles go.
So my 50cents would be . . . . .
This little old place we call earth is full of little old beings called humans, who in turn are full of little old things called . . . .. opinions, . . . (and you should I was going to make reference to feces)
This is all good and well, the only problem being that one individual does not take too kindly to another individual not sharing his or her particular opinions. While I cannot say anything regarding the Chatroom as I have not spent more than 3 minutes at any given time in there, the Forum (as Irish mentioned) has a similarly identical reaction from members, and while it can be a little long in the tooth sometimes, it often serves as a good way to see some of the contributors "true colours"
My old argument was always, "Show me I am Wrong, don't Tell me I am Wrong" as I have no doubt that I cannot possibly have it all figured out, but that more often than not just lands up with another person saying they are "offended" and the topic at hand gets passed over . . . . (reference to your "debate" part of posting)
As for your comments about the couple profiles in the Chatroom. . . . . on the forum it's 90% about the "single male"
Much like the many different "published articles" on penis size which all seem to have a little more than slight variances, this is more than likely another "topic" that may just go round and round without ever having the words "might be or may actually be or scientists think" replaced by the words " the fact is" . . . .
And anyway, does the article mention how many "volunteers" they had for the research? How they were selected? How the "squirt" was brought on . . . . . yes, yes, yes, I will go and read the article to find out.
Also have to wonder where the funds come from for such research . . . .
To the ladies that do indeed squirt and to the ladies who are still trying to learn how to, please don't let this be a deterrent to you, as C of @KC says, it's a wonderful pleasurable part of sex for her and indeed for us all.
