Quote by Stamina
What to do?
That's easy, take a breath and remember . . . . . you will feel better in a short while. At this stage, you run the risk of a fantasy, becoming an obsession!!!!!
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Quote by oceanlovers
try this
go into the chatroom and do nothing ,just sit there and see how many people want to talk to you ,
dont send any messages ,winks or album invites for a couple of days . just view profiles and see who makes contact .
this will tell how popular you are and if anyone realises you have gone quiet .
steve
I think I understand where you are coming from on this Steve, and while I do not spend time in the chat-room, we have had a similar thing once or twice here in the forums, where on the very very rare occasion someone would ask, hey, where is so and so these days?
Sex God
I do not see how your post could have offended anyone in anyway Sofistikitty? Maybe it was something you wrote before you "edited" it.
But Anyway, people take things strangely sometimes.
I myself have done 95% of my own bucketlist, the other 5% I will not speak of publicly. 
There is of course so much of the ticked off items that I would enjoy doing again and in different / better ways.
There is of course so much of the ticked off items that I would enjoy doing again and in different / better ways. Sex God
Quote by lekkerspyker
Never thought of measuring my cock untill you mentioned it on this site. My cock is 120mm long and 55mm thick when limp. 280mm long and 80mm thick when erect.
So, before anybody gets the chance to say below the belt things about your post (did you see what I done there?) I thought I would bring the following to your attention:
280mm is the best part of 11+ inches and
80mm thick could be interpreted in two ways: 1) 80mm thick across (which would make your member too big for any kind of penetrative intercourse) or 2) 80mm circumference (giving you a girth of a little over 3 inches) world average on the "low" side is something like 4.7 inches I think))
I assume it is a simple typo when posting this thread. BUT . . . .
If that is in fact your measurements, then I have to be honest and say that I would like to see pictures of that, because it is not likely that there is ever going to be another opportunity to see such a dick.
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Quote by Ian_McHerbe
Kim K ... a pornstar?
Regardless.....I love Pornhub!
Yes, she would be enough to turn me off porn.
but now I need to know how they got to some of the reported statistics.
Easy enough on the majority I guess, but how on earth do they establish that 32% were women viewers?
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Quote by playcouple
The more 'out there', be it bizarre, perceived kink/degenerate, obscene, gory, bloody, horrific etc the more people will, at the very least, take a quick peek to satisfy their curiosity. A nice example is accidents, the worse it looks the more people cluster together to get a better view, the more bloody the front page photo of a news paper the higher the circulation. We have in essence not moved on much since the days of watching people fight off lions in the Colosseum.
The irony is that most people would deny looking or being curious, they will also criticize those that do (themselves without admission) but would happily and enthusiastically spam you with you tube clips of some hapless drunk falling in front of a truck/train/into a sawmill etc.
Indeed, and in my observations . . .. oh wait, giving your own observations in frowned upon.
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Quote by SDMR
Eastern Cape hands down. I was in Grahamstown recently, November to be more specific. What nice friendly people. Shop staff, students, even just passers by in the street. All ready to great and smile.
And yes Lee, My customer down there knows you, he he he... It's a very small town. Don't worry though, never discussed the site or the lifestyle, I simply mentioned I know a couple in the area from way back when. Mentioned Matt and Lee and he said he knows (or knows of a couple by those names). He owns a driving school in GT, do you know who I am talking about? I was unfortunately too busy and had an almost impossible deadline so work took up 15 hours a day, and I still ran a day over schedule... otherwise I would have made contact and you would have met the Stam in the flesh!!
Stamina, read the instructions again . . . . . this is not about people who "gave you the time of day" young man . . . .
Sorry Stamina, I withdraw my previous post.
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Quote by redbruce
It always fascinates me with topics such as this one and even the likes of "Dogging" how many views the posts get. Hundreds and hundreds . . . . . with only a few replies. That in it itself, speaks volumes.
Hi SDMR, well I would be one of the "viewers" (of the post), irrespective of the subject matter (but particularly of the Dogging posts!
). I read every one of the forum posts routinely, and yet you know how seldom I comment or respond...I agree with most of the posters here, that bukake is not my scene - nearly had an opportunity to be involved in one once, but it seemed to fizzle out and never happened (or else I was left out??!!)
But although I am not that keen on bukake, nor will I tell you what I do for a living, and I am not really into kink other than voyeurism and dogging, and I KNOW that there are lots of single males with really poor manners, I still like to know what's going on, and am one of the avid devourers (rather than a producer) of the written word here in these pages... Until posts get acrimonious, that is!
you misunderstand my comments Mr Redbruce . . . .
What I am highlighting (as per my own observations) is that the heading of the thread seems to determine the "number of views" The more "out there" the heading, the more views, so in my own deduction that would possibly indicate what the majority of people (who peruse the forums) are actually interested in.
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Quote by Stamina
Eastern Cape hands down. I was in Grahamstown recently, November to be more specific. What nice friendly people. Shop staff, students, even just passers by in the street. All ready to great and smile.
And yes Lee, My customer down there knows you, he he he... It's a very small town. Don't worry though, never discussed the site or the lifestyle, I simply mentioned I know a couple in the area from way back when. Mentioned Matt and Lee and he said he knows (or knows of a couple by those names). He owns a driving school in GT, do you know who I am talking about? I was unfortunately too busy and had an almost impossible deadline so work took up 15 hours a day, and I still ran a day over schedule... otherwise I would have made contact and you would have met the Stam in the flesh!!
Stamina, read the instructions again . . . . . this is not about people who "gave you the time of day" young man . . . .
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So, I have always wondered about which area (Province) was the friendliest.
Cape Town has always been a "happy hunting ground" for me. People just seem to know what they want down there.
Mpumalanga where I live . . . not so much (with the possible exception of Nelspruit)
Everyone is just too busy in KZN, and good old Gauteng . . . well, let's just say that for the smallest area which has the most members, they do not seem too keen on the actual concept.
I was very recently pleasantly surprised by the nice people in the Eastern Cape, and I am really looking forward to going down there again soon.
What about you? What have you found?
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Quote by Dean981
Hi is there any places in sabie or close by where they have dogging or clubs or places to meet up?
@Dean981, it is highly unlikely you will find a club anywhere in the Mpumalanga Province, especially in the smaller towns like Sabie. As far as Dogging goes, chances are probably even slimmer.
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Quote by georgeous
No wait... You brought it up this time.. "Just a thought young man......."
Hey, I'll show you badgering if you call me Shaun again . . . it's Shawn, ok Seeeeen?
Bwaaaa haaaaaa haa... Makes no difference! Shawn, Shaun, Shorn, Shon... It is spelled "SEAN", all other spelling is incorrect.
Besides, I did spell it Shawn. You just can't read my handwriting, that's all..
Hey play nice now you Shawn and you Shaun. If there is a Sean out there you too just for good measure. You forgot that Judge Lee likes to take out whips and use it on guilty parties......
just to be included I plead guilty your honor. lol
I always play nice . . . . . .
Hey, did you sea what happens when you add an M to Stamina's way of spelling his name . . . .
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Quote by Stamina
It's Friday. And Friday is Swinging Heaven day!! I browse and chat and post on Fridays.
In my Friday browse session, I came across a profile, a female profile. It reads "No guys please. Not into couples. I am straight and not into girls at all"... The ad reads: "Looking to explore."
I am confused. What could she be looking for because according common sense, that rules out everything. Unless she is looking for a hermaphrodite? No wait, cos that would be a man, a lady, and a couple all in one...
Makes you think hey??
I have no doubt you contacted her anyway . . . .
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Quote by Stamina
Why is my success rate (or lack thereof) always a topic? Rubbing salt in the wounds man!
Allow me to Copy and Paste from an earlier entry you made . ..
""No, actually just trying to use "nice" words. Could have said "cock sucking" and "pussy"... that would diminish my already dismal success rate even more, not?""
Dumbass, you brought it up . . . (and always do)
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Quote by Stamina
I am playing nice... Just giving them a "heads up".
the idea is to highlight all the positive areas first, once they are "hooked" and only then, is it "safe" to start with the not so positive areas . . . .
BUT, that being said, @Teddy_Evie, that was Staminas way of telling you he is about to send you a Private message
Am I that predictable?
would you like me to send you the script for the next few days?
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Quote by Stamina
Porn does have a hand in the "male perception" of things. The female strips down, performs a mouthwatering bj, offers up her vjj in a variety of positions and finally let's the male star shove the man meat into her tiny little bum... .
just a thought young man . . . .
You use terms like mouthwatering BJ & VJJ and still wonder why your "success rate" is poor?
That is because I am yet to experience the "mouthwatering bj" and a "vjj" through this site! My words seep through due to severe frustration!
No, actually just trying to use "nice" words. Could have said "cock sucking" and "pussy"... that would diminish my already dismal success rate even more, not?
Sorry for saying cock sucking and pussy. Ooops, sorry for saying it again... Waiting for the PM, Lee...
Makes no sense to me that with all the "positive reinforcement" the ladies give you on the forum that you still have a zero "success rate" . . . . oh wait, now I get it.
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Quote by Stamina
I am playing nice... Just giving them a "heads up".
the idea is to highlight all the positive areas first, once they are "hooked" and only then, is it "safe" to start with the not so positive areas . . . .
BUT, that being said, @Teddy_Evie, that was Staminas way of telling you he is about to send you a Private message
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Quote by Stamina
Porn does have a hand in the "male perception" of things. The female strips down, performs a mouthwatering bj, offers up her vjj in a variety of positions and finally let's the male star shove the man meat into her tiny little bum... .
just a thought young man . . . .
You use terms like mouthwatering BJ & VJJ and still wonder why your "success rate" is poor?
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Quote by Stamina
A warm welcome...
I see you guys not ready for single guys? Well, ready or not, here they come! You will see what I mean soon...
Hey. They're barely new here and now you want to scare them off already. lol
But what you said is true........ I wonder what they do for a living
Lets see ............
gentlemen, gentlemen, gentlemen . . . . play nicely until the nice new people have settled down . . . .
