Quote by Mike_Pta
Personally i don't trust those video courses. I think the best way to learn is to talk to a lady as see what she likes. I also prefer reading over watching, I find I loose interest in videos but a book stimulates me more.
Still it's an interesting link, but one I feel has been repeated a lotion the Internet.
Quote by VoyeurMan
Also I've been with couples that show everything on their pages and others who don't. Guess who I have better conversations with.
Quote by VoyeurMan
Also I've been with couples that show everything on their pages and others who don't. Guess who I have better conversations with.
Quote by Mike_Pta
Also I've been with couples that show everything on their pages and others who don't. Guess who I have better conversations with.
Quote by embrasser
We have been isolated so long it is strange for some people to mix sexually and people will naturally navigate to their comfort situations. I have yet to see pda couples listing the proviso of race. about 70 % of profiles are caucasian and of that a significant percentage play within their own race groups. this narrows the search ultimately.
personally, i look for culture, class, manners, all the attributes which will make us compatible. When i was overseas, it is similar although not as blatent.
Quote by LeeEC
My best suggestion is to mail them and ask them.
Chances are they themselves will have to think about it.
I'd venture that vast majority of swingers in S.A. have never really come in contact with people who are Chinese, let alone been offered the opportunity to meet or play with Chinese folk.
It's good to calculate into your perspective on rascism (or race avoidance which may be more accurate in a lot of cases), that most people are indoctrinated in terms of their viewpoints, and if not, their perspective will be inextricably entwined with experience.
Usually meaningful contact must happen between groups to birth prejudice.
S.A. people largely have very little meaningful interactions- as yet, with Chinese folk (although Zuma's latest antics may change that significantly in the near future), and as such I expect that in most cases folk will be open to you.
Quote by kinkychinese
hi guys,
As we browse through the profile,
We cam across lots of profile tht says
"Apologies, but we dint cross racial line"
My ques is, where do my partner n i come in?
As there r so few other chinese cpls around....
If we try to reach out to the above cpl,
Does it consider to b rude?
Or who can help us to classifiy which "race" do we fall under....
Tks!
Quote by Adonis
Sit and wonder, looking at this add of a 25 year old male, what can his success rate be to get laid for what he asked for. My own opinion would be that nobody would respond to a add like that, we can be total wrong. Only a question.
"i jus want to fuck someone. wouldn't mind a CD. possibly a couple"
Quote by Mike_Pta
Men in contrast, tend to be more set in their ways.
The researcher said: “Men are less often attracted to both sexes. Men’s sexuality is, in a sense, less flexible. If a man is only attracted to one sex, romantic opportunity would little alter his sexual identity.”
Quote by Voyer1105
Looking at the members profiles it has struck me that nearly all males are Straight and the ladies Bi
Now I wonder, I know this is not true for the men
Quote by Voyer1105
Seems the subject is unkown ?
Quote by JHB_Couple
are there any ways to show that you're interested in dogging?
some kind of symbol or something?
maybe a cloth or ribbon tied somewhere to the car?
Quote by LeeEC
I have often looked at the names in the same way.
Myself, I went for the simple using my initials (which are actually SDM) however, for some dumb reason, when I was filling the info out, I hit the additional R . . . . . . and from what I understand, if I want to change it, I have to make some or other payment in the currency of Pounds Sterling . . . so, needless to say, the R stays!
Quote by jimjam
Now if my memory serves correctly prostitution is illegal.
And carries a jail sentance if convicted.. Even though the S.A. Justice system is pathetic!
