while I almost agree with what has been said about ownership etc etc etc, the bigger picture is still the impact it has on other people . . . . children, husband . . . .
There is something in the concept of "responsibility"

So, I was chatting to a friend of mine the other day about experiences we would still like to have. She "accused" me of being the biggest reason I have not "ticked" some of the Items off the to do list.
On reflection, I would have to say that she was right, I do sometimes (often) not allow a situation to play out and subsequently opportunities go by unused. Now I'm not talking about dodgy situations. Just those times when even with a familiar playmate, that one specific boundary is left intact . . . . .
Anybody else have something similar?
One just has to look at the amount of "views" the posts get and one can see that people are still interested. In what way is debatable, but nonetheless the interest seems to be there.
I think a fair number of the so called "old regulars" are just a little tired of some of the reactions! But hey, that's just my opinion . . . . . based on various conversations with some if the said individuals of course.
Yes, I think someone could be curious forever, the only thing with that is that they are actually only trying to fool themselves.
I think you said it perfectly, after a few times, you are either one or the other, and if you have another go, then I guess it's pretty clear which one.
LeeEC could have something as well, but Bi-Friendly is (to me) still Bi . . . or maybe just downright greedy, hang on, that kindof sounds like me . . . . greedy!!!!