yes it is about respect, manners, hygiene and personality among many other things. But right at the top of that list is a little old thing called honesty. Always best to clear up minor appearance issues right at the beginning (perhaps)
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4 hours ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 54
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Sex God
Its not about complexion. Its about choice.
Just like the government can choose to . . . . . oh its just not worth it.
There are more than enough people who choose to play with people of different complexion, so why certain people continue to target those who do not choose to is beyond me!
Sex God
Yes, I think someone could be curious forever, the only thing with that is that they are actually only trying to fool themselves.
I think you said it perfectly, after a few times, you are either one or the other, and if you have another go, then I guess it's pretty clear which one.
LeeEC could have something as well, but Bi-Friendly is (to me) still Bi . . . or maybe just downright greedy, hang on, that kindof sounds like me . . . . greedy!!!!
Sex God
Quote by Voyer1105
Just browsing and I notice again that most of the females are Bi and the men straight, evan though I saw one lurking in the Bi chatroom
I think it is time we are honest, men it is so obvious when you try all kinds of tricks, you give yourself away in small ways and I wonder how many of the bi females exhist
:rotflmao:I am sure they exist . . . . in the heads of the profile owners
:rotflmao::rotflmao:
Sex God
Quote by Mike_Pta
Personally i don't trust those video courses. I think the best way to learn is to talk to a lady as see what she likes. I also prefer reading over watching, I find I loose interest in videos but a book stimulates me more.
Still it's an interesting link, but one I feel has been repeated a lotion the Internet.
I have to echo Mike_Pta's comments on this.
It's much like Penis enlargement, if that shit worked, 90% of all men would have dicks too large to have sex with.
Sex God
Quote by VoyeurMan
Also I've been with couples that show everything on their pages and others who don't. Guess who I have better conversations with.
The ones who do more what YOU prefer!!!! I really hope you were not thinking the conversation was better because of their choices???? Its simply because you take a different approach to those profiles
I take every conversation with a pinch of salt.....like this one for instance ;)
Everything should be taken with salt, everything except for an open wound that is.
Dont forget tequila....
Nope, tequila is for girls!
Sex God
Quote by VoyeurMan
Also I've been with couples that show everything on their pages and others who don't. Guess who I have better conversations with.
The ones who do more what YOU prefer!!!! I really hope you were not thinking the conversation was better because of their choices???? Its simply because you take a different approach to those profiles
I take every conversation with a pinch of salt.....like this one for instance ;)
Everything should be taken with salt, everything except for an open wound that is.
Sex God
Quote by Mike_Pta
Also I've been with couples that show everything on their pages and others who don't. Guess who I have better conversations with.
The ones who do more what YOU prefer!!!! I really hope you were not thinking the conversation was better because of their choices???? Its simply because you take a different approach to those profiles
Sex God
And yet when certain other contributors took others "head on" they were told their fortunes ???????
I maybe need to go get the dictionary out and have another look at the meaning of the word "opinion" I might even check the word "undertone" as well!!!
Voyuer man, some things are just not worth it, and yes, the next time you walk through a pub, make sure you have a "Drink" in your hand, or is that also not acceptable?
Sex God
Quote by embrasser
We have been isolated so long it is strange for some people to mix sexually and people will naturally navigate to their comfort situations. I have yet to see pda couples listing the proviso of race. about 70 % of profiles are caucasian and of that a significant percentage play within their own race groups. this narrows the search ultimately.
personally, i look for culture, class, manners, all the attributes which will make us compatible. When i was overseas, it is similar although not as blatent.
The difference between SA and "overseas" is that overseas people are "expected" to tolerate each others differences, yet in SA it is only the people of Non Colour who are expected to tolerate people of Colour's differences.
Your statement above (pasting in) "personally, i look for culture, class, manners, all the attributes which will make us compatible" . . . is what the majority of people in this country need to get right (in my opinion)
You have made a choice for yourself, and that is entirely acceptable. But if you had made a choice where you had specifically said that "this or that" was not acceptable to you . . . . . . well now, lets just say you could possibly have been called some very interesting names.
I have said it before and I will say it again, the reason the younger generation, such as High school students (yes, I used the word student) have very little issues with each other is because their use of a common language (English) is on the same level.
Only a blind idiot would think that SA does not have race issues, but I still maintain that the majority of our issues in this country revolve around a language barrier rather than a skin colour. Non Coloured English and Afrikaans (isn't white a frigging colour?) speaking people even have issues with each other, but because their skin colour is the same, it is not looked at as a racist issue, but rather as some form of disagreement.
