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Straight White/Caucasian Male, 55
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Quote by LeeEC
Completely depends on the individual - there is no guarantee either way. Some have natural matching carpets and curtains - but just as many don't...

That pretty much sums it all up LeeEC.
@1NCSwinger, I also like a bit of Pu&&y hair, it's something one seldom sees these days . . .
One CANNOT be described as bi-curious after you have had a same gender sexual experience! So now I felt compelled to "update" my sexuality on my profile . . . . .
Thats a good question Newby, I figure it's a 'attitude" thing . . . like the profiles that say "educated' . . . what the Beep?? I have two degree's, does that make me more f@$kable????
we all ask for each of the mentioned descriptions of the the meaning of Bi, to be made available as options on our profiles? All humour aside, what Nawtycat has said has loads of merit. More choices for people to "describe" themselves could only make things easier for all (even more successful perhaps?)
I fully agree . . . anyway, with all the hype about "size does matter" it clearly does . . . . .if it really did not matter, there would not be anywhere near as much talk about it . . .
Quote by georgeous
Yes and if it is closer to the cam it looks huge

True
That is why so many people ask when chatting to send you a pic of your manhood next to a 500 ml coke bottle so they know exactly how big it is.
How many men are looking for a 500ml coke bottle . . . . lol lol lol lol lol
Quote by joyrider
True
That is why so many people ask when chatting to send you a pic of your manhood next to a 500 ml coke bottle so they know exactly how big it is.
lol lol lol lol
Now the next question is why do people want to compare the size of a persons penis to a 500ml coke bottle. If the ladies ALWAYS says size DOES not matter? And when asking this question is it the ladies that want to know or the men?
Joyrider

My guess it's more the men!
Quote by Thumper
As a father of 2 adult married kids , it scares me when I read of the 20 - 40 year olds in the lifestyle. No ways they can have the maturity to handle it. I have seen quite a few disasterous ends to marriages in my time.
Ok send the flack!

What you have said here Sir Thumper, is exactly the kind of thing that I fully believe to be the spot on accurate truth. I thought I grew up "quickly", but you know what, this is a different level of maturity. So Sir Thumper, no flack from me, only agreement.
Quote by Stamina
That is discriminating against the "annually challenged".. lol!

Classic, I'm still laughing . . . .
KC, to clarify my lock her up till she is 40 statement. I only have a Daughter, if I had a son as well, he would be taught from early on all about manners and respect of the female body / emotions / etc.
Whatever anyone could say on this intriguing topic Gerrie has brought up, will in it's own way have merit. Everybody is different, everyone enjoys different things. What PIB said is so very true. (keep hubby happy) To answer your question Gerrie (what would be best) I would say (this is MY opinion) that any man worth his salt, should let the woman guide the decision. I for one, believe that when the woman is at an ultimate high, I benefit just as much.
While I agree with everything that's been said here, we must not allow ourselves to fall into the trap of blaming men only. (yes, I like you Stamina, am guilty) however, we could only do what we did with willing participants. it takes all kinds to make up the world, and saying that it is the men who are the "issue" only would be wrong. Yes, more men than woman are that way, but if woman were not also that way, men would not "get any" I would also like to keep my little girl in the house until she turned 40. but like prezzie said, teach them right and they will be able to handle any situation.
the effort will be made, but I am almost certain that by day two or three I would have forgotten . . . lol
Mischa, your husband is a lucky man (according to me) I absolutely love big / long lips . . .
in some cases, there are non so blind as those who will not see . . . What might be slim to one, may not to another
Quote by Voyer1105
Never seen that in a profile, arn't you beeing a bit sensitive maybe
Look to yourself and sit back a little and you will find things are a lot better

I have seen this in profiles, but if one looks at the quick messages on the bottom of that same profile, usually there is a bombardment of not so mature comments that SEEMINGLY are being placed by Indian males. However, having said that, look at all profiles, they all generally have something or the other . . . . move along and see what happens
Quote by Stamina
Hi
I must admit i love looking at the pics on the site be it female or male. However i seem to see huge cocks all the time so come guys whats the size of your cocks. I have a 17cm uncut cock. think thats average.

I read somewhere that the average penis size is 15cm, apparently a reputable university did the study worldwide. I then read recently that the worldwide average is actually 13cm, also a reputable body did the study...
So I did some research... (this is fairly widespread over a few sites, blogs, forums, etc.)
Africa = 16cm (Black guys being bigger in general is apparently a myth according to some sites)??
Europe = 14cm (Apparently the cold)
America's (North and South) = 15cm
Asia = 10cm!!!!!!!! Really! (Have seen plenty Asian porn and yes, always 3 - 4inch piellies!
Rest of world = 13cm...
Now heres the thing! I have been told by my ex and my current GF that mine is quite big (I guess they mean in comparrison to what the had before me). I measured, it is 169mm from tip of head to where my pubes grow out the skin... Measured with a vernier calipre to be 100% sure (weird - I know, but I had to be accurate).
Funny thing though - It measure slightly less in the evening than in the morning. Seems morning erections are bigger than other times...
the answer to the myth of african guys being bigger lies in your measurement tecnique, black guys have way less pubes, so it immediately looks bigger, measure yours to your pubic bone
Quote by Fastforward
Maybe it's just the guys with huge dicks that post their pics... wink

if that was the case, then I would say that the worldwide average would be around 8" . . . . .
It's not just Cape Town, and it's not just Singles . . .
Perhaps the issue is more that they do want Bi-males, but don't want it to be known as such and that's maybe why they say Straight male???
While it all sounds very interesting (this coming once a week thing) I shall rather opt to continue as I am now. BUT please please please, keep us all updated here as to progress . . . (humour)
I'm scared she shouts at me . . . lol Desmond, my suggestion to you at this point of this forum would be to rather just leave it where it is. You have your reasons for being on this site, and your reasons for your post, the rest of the people who have commented either in a looking for clarity way or in a let's try help him way or whatever, are people who have considerable knowledge about this life style. rather learn from them than fighting with them.
Didn't this forum post start out about male multiple orgasms????? love the way it changed
Quote by LeeEC
I have noticed that very sexual woman, like my wife, don't fantesize, they want the real thing

Hey PIB, see how he sneaks that in AFTER we have both basically admitted to being non-fantasists? (Yeah, I made up a word - so sue me)
Do you think he wants us to tie him up and whip his bum?
:twisted:
So, who has what fantasy now? lol
Somehow I think your approach is not going to work, but good luck nonetheless.
I really can't wait to hear the responses to this post . . . . . .
First I would "edited" then I would look for "edited" after which I would like to "edited" . . . . . . . . ok, but seriously, they change all the time, either by getting adjusted for the better or ticked off as complete . . . .