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Straight White/Caucasian Male, 55
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Quote by cuddlycouple
That's another thing that always makes me smile here. You always get the ones who look so you make contact, they tell you ' oh sorry we don't cross the colour line' and then they check your profile out EVERY day. It's because deep deep down they want to taste the chocolate but don't have the balls to say so.

One must also remember that the "nicer" any pictures in the gallery you have are, the more you are going to get looked at.
Welcome to the site, hope to see you in the forums
Firstly, welcome to SH. Secondly, while I think I understand the lingo you have used in your posting, you should maybe read a few of the posts in this Forum and you will see that the general language used is slightly different. Yes, I do understand that you are 21 and that is how you choose to speak, however all we are trying to do is help you out for the site.
try shaving your sack using hair conditioner . . . . . I don't have to put moisturiser on after using it. (and I guess I'm just very fortunate, but I have never (that I can recall) had an ingrown hair.
Quote by Stamina
Those profiles that say "do not cross racial line"... I bet that would fly out the window if Beyonce showed up and suggested a threesome!! lol

hahaha, I would be willing to add ""that would fly out the window if anybody showed up and suggested a threesome""
Quote by Pussinboots1
Morning SDMR...
You sure did, but as we are a *rainbow nation* who says I can not be purple???

Purple Boots . . . . . Pink Boots . . . . mmmmm, Pink will always win . . .
Purple with jealousy this side of the pc....(not really)
Didn't I read something somewhere that you were PINK??????
any man who allows hot melted wax anywhere near his "sack" is way braver than me . . . . . . . I dislike (with great intensity) any form of hair on my "sack" so i shave regularly, tried Veet ONCE and only ONCE (burn marks took a week to heal) . . BUT hot melted wax? I think not . . . . . . .
Quote by Voyer1105
With all being said:
Swinging is a hobby or sport as any other that likeminded people enjoy sharing with each other

Spoken like a true team player . . . lol
They are call "boyleg" or "boy shorts" cut panties - my favorite.... make my arse look AWESOME
If I was not scared of you (& Matt) I would say "prove it" but seeing as I am I will refrain from saying it. lol
Stamina, you opening yourself for a lot of flack again from the inferior sex. Hehe

Georgeous, it would seem that you have a serious case of boredom or is it self mutilation on the go here? or perhaps still hungover from the weekend????? lol
nevertheless, us as your fellow males on the forum can do absolutely nothing to help you with this particular "momentary lapse of reason"
@stamina . . . . . it is only within your power to find it within yourself to forgive him for dragging you into this . . . . . lol
Male 101 : never ever (ever) let them know what we think . . . . ever lol
Ok, I'm going to stop talking moo poo now and carry on laughing . . . . . . . . .
Quote by LeeEC
To those in charge of the site : Sorry, please don't delete my profile wink

I don't think there's any danger of that - besides - I agree and I'll defend your right to have your opinion smile
Though try to keep the language more acceptable please smile
Why thank kind lady (for being willing to defend me) lol
My apology was for the language that I used, While I don't normally use that kind of language in forums, it (in my opinion) was a necessary evil in this post.
I would like to start a petition that calls for the banning of the use of the word APARTHEID . . . . . . for too long now, we (south africans) have used the word Apartheid instead of racism. (Hear me out first) racism is present in everyday life ALL OVER THE WORLD. Look at European football, every other day someone is getting into trouble for a racist remark etc . . . . . . South Africans simply prefer to hide behind the word Apartheid, yes, Apartheid was mostly racism driven, and yes it is purely reversed these days, but call a oh wait, I can't use that word a oh wait I cant use that word . . . .racism is racism and should be dealt with as such, stop hiding behind a principal from decades ago Fuck who you want to fuck, don't fuck those who you don't want to fuck, but stop using the fucking word APARTHEID as a reason To those in charge of the site : Sorry, please don't delete my profile wink
Quote by Voyer1105
Those tight high cut panties that exposes and accentuate rather than cover

yes, yes and yes . . . but also those "square" fit type, the type that fit so tightly they fold into every curve . . . ok, I'll stop now ! lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol
Quote by Voyer1105
It just goes to show, we should not put labels on things and go with the flow
We have a friend that tried bi and did not like it. He is comfortable with us touching while we play and has evan sucked my wife after I unloaded in her, no trouble
Now this makes me think that all the males making such an issue of having more females dogging or at gloeryholes have a little problem that they should adress

This is me standing up and clapping . . . . . . . .
Quote by hotrusty
Are there any glory holes in rustenburg or can we start some.

Must say, I am surprised there have not been 100's of responses to this post. HotRusty is suggesting starting a glory hole, and no-one is saying the usual "tell us where" or "just say when" or "I'm in" . . . . . . .
@HotRusty, maybe repost this in the Dogging forum and see if you get any response . . . .
Quote by Ebnivry
Strange how many all white couples have approached us to meet or chat yet their profile states whites only, we find that a little confussing.....wouldn't you?

People often don't really read what the profile says, especially if there are photo's attached to the profile. And there are people who want to "experiment" with people of a different race, make contact and then simply freak out when they get a positive response. This is one of those things that I would suggest you don't let bother you too much, yes, I know it can be frustrating sometimes, but is it really worth the effort of getting upset / annoyed / etc about it?
@clinty, I agree that there are "stuck up" people here. What I cannot understand is what they are doing here???? If they have that particular outlook, then i would think this is not the right place for them . . .
Quote by Voyer1105
Luckily the hair is not inside where I want to be

rotflmaorotflmao
It's a pity that there are people out there (be it male or female) that use sites like this for an "abuse" opportunity, because like you have both said, it's a compliment from people like us (those who appreciate what they see) and the person on the other never gets to "take it in" because they immediately get defensive . . . . Nice Photo means nice photo . . . .
@ Stamina, I live nearby and I agree 100% with you that Silver Falls is a very nice place and would be ideal for what you have suggested here. I hope you get a crowd of people together and fulfill this idea of yours.
Quote by 1ncswinger
hi something is really puzzling me the whole time is if a woman is blond does she have the same colour pubic hair down there? are there any person who have nice pics to share? closeups?

Solution is simple . . . . . GOOGLE
thanks guy's, I was hoping there was a way of searching by simply typing in the name and then any messages would come up.
Maybe I'm technologically challenged, but is there an easy way of looking to see if you have messaged someone before in the Mailbox? I want to avoid wasting someones time with a second message (and looking through the sent box, it's easy to miss the name)
I find it makes the "ride" way more slippery than any lube can . . . .
JoyRider, from I have noticed the past few years, almost all woman do.
As long as the lady in question is comfortable, then why not . . . .
@ Stamina . . . the buildings you suggested are good choices for the purpose, I would however wonder if that area is not way too busy for such an event?