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Straight White/Caucasian Male, 55

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15 Mar 2013

Quote by LeeEC
...you're not doing it right?
:twisted:

anything is possible . . . . lol

lol

14 Mar 2013

as you say, asking your doctor for a full STD screening might be a little awkward, but I can assure you of one thing . . . it will be more awkward for you than him (yes, I know that doesn't help any) Doctor's get asked for the strangest of things . . . . . when was your last Prostrate exam?

14 Mar 2013

I read (or might have been told) that if you have any kind of mouth sore or even a bit of a gum infection, that you were at risk of contracting the Virus through oral . . . . .

14 Mar 2013

You are a lucky man, I too am able to "go again" after a few minutes, and yes, it does take way longer to reach second orgasm (if at all) but to me the second orgasm is not really worth the effort.

14 Mar 2013

Must say, everything that has been said by the different people on this topic has merit. A lot of it I'm sure we have all thought / realised at one or other point, but being brought up here it reminds one about so much. I especially liked the comment regarding no replies to messages. I am guilty of this myself, if I don't feel the person contacting me is a possible fit, I just move past it, that's wrong of me, especially because it is annoying when it happens to me.

11 Mar 2013

Seeing as I plan to get laid on a fairly frequent basis, I reserve the right to remain silent. you are all WAY braver than I am . . . . .

11 Mar 2013

Well to start with, well done Joyrider, you have managed to get a bunch of "sex on the brain" people to think about something else (insert laughing smiley face thingy here) So, why did I join SW? well to be honest, I "discovered" the lifestyle many years ago with my then Wife, the club life style was not really my scene, so I thought that maybe a Site like this might make it easier for the initial approach. has it been successful? well, I think we all have different interpretations of success when it comes to Swinging

8 Mar 2013

a good giggle, sadly though some people would think things like that and miss the humour

7 Mar 2013

false . . . but hopefully not for too much longer . . . the person below me is able to squirt

7 Mar 2013

Adonis, you are so right when you say "makes no sense" I guess there are a number of different reasons why people would do that. Fortunately it's pretty easy to identify the majority of those kinds of profiles.

7 Mar 2013

Yip, a number of them are fake. from time to time one finds the same picture on a profile 100's of kilometers from the last person who claimed it was them. Also a lot of "not entirely accurate" profiles. Like Adonis said, impossible to scan everything, difference is though, the fake ones will get bored and move onto another site eventually, those of us who are actually using the site for it's intended purpose will still be here . . . .

6 Mar 2013

If helping with housework (or lack thereof) was the determining factor as to how much sex one got . . . . . . . well, need I say anymore?

6 Mar 2013

I have been noticing that among my friend and work colleagues there is a general openness developing to interracial sex. The history is history and most are becoming more interested In the person, and not the race.
I really now have a preference for black men (call me a racist), but that is how things developed.

I wonder how many other people there are like you (and I think you pretty much have it right) sex is sex, however . . . . there may well be many other people out there who enjoy sex with a person and not so much sex with a specific colour person, but my money (based on the country as a whole) says that outside of the bedroom, they are not so colour blind ! ! ! ! ! !

6 Mar 2013

But as the question was asked "if so, who would you prefer" ? I would also say my sister in-law. That way is was never likely to be spoken about (she wouldn't want anyone knowing she was involved in such activities either) Actually, you know what . . . . . this is quiet a scary thought, other family members being into such like activities . . . . . maybe that's why a lot of people don't put too much "truthful info / images" on their profiles EISH

6 Mar 2013

what will be . . . will be . . .

6 Mar 2013

Watching is going to make it even more of a question mark for you. Why remain curious, get yourself a willing partner and try it out for yourself ! ! ! ! !

4 Mar 2013

I am curious to hear what others interpret as "kinky" I have experienced somewhat different viewpoints on this. What one may see as "kinky" can be "normal" activity to another.

1 Mar 2013

Vee, I know someone who is linked to the Witbank News / Middelburg Observer. Send me the details of the venue, I am reasonably sure they would like to "investigate" a bit
my mail address is:
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1 Mar 2013

Vee, I know someone who is linked to the Witbank News / Middelburg Observer. Send me the details of the venue, I am reasonably sure they would like to "investigate" a bit

1 Mar 2013

I can't see it being a hugely successful endeavor. Movies don't cost very much these days. But hey, who knows.

1 Mar 2013

Squirting

1 Mar 2013

I would say that it's a 100% even split (yes, I know the math doesn't tie up) however, even if a male buys the undies for his lady, she will be 100% appreciative and he would be 100% rewarded. If the Lady buy's the undies herself, she is buying what makes her feel sexiest, and that makes her man very appreciative So I guess I would say that it's a pretty even share of the spoils.

1 Mar 2013

So as to ensure I am speaking the same language here, are we talking about a male who can orgasm and continue until another orgasm?

27 Feb 2013

just a thought, is the "lack" of new posts/topics perhaps not got something to do with the majority of the people (like the regulars who have posted on this one) not really being "talkers" and more "do-ers" ?

27 Feb 2013

The more I look, the more it seems (I am not saying it is fact, I am suggesting that it appears that way) that the majority of people with the "Swinger Mindset" live in Cape Town, followed closely by KZN and GP. . . . . . . anybody know of a good Estate Agent in these areas? wink

wink

25 Feb 2013

So it appears that my comments to Thumper and My Dream were a little hasty. Turns out that it only looks like the same person sent the same message, (the way it showed on my screen) SO that been said, I owe an apology to both parties. Thumper: I apologise to you for jumping to that conclusion. My Dream: I apologise to you for jumping to that conclusion. I will en-devour to be less hasty in future. Regards, Shawn

25 Feb 2013

you are all very lucky to have partners who are comfortable enough to go through with this kind of experience.

25 Feb 2013

Georgeous, I agree with you are saying as well, BUT just to clarify, my Eureka moment message was initially meant for Voyer's Balling message.

25 Feb 2013

Somebody who understands what I was saying . . . . . and to clarify, I have no issue with whatever a person's sexual orientation is, just don't lie to yourself about it

24 Feb 2013

Thumper or should I say My Dream ? ? ? Firstly, nobody appointed me judge, secondly, I did not pass any form of judgement, I merely made a suggestion and Thirdly, you are a prime example of what I was talking about (what with you having two profiles from two provinces) . . . . . . . . anyway, PIB you make yourself clear from the word go, and IF I recall correctly, I sent you a "well done" message some time back on the your write up . . . . . to those having a go at me about the forum . . . . where exactly did I mention the forum in my "comment"????????? my comment is only meant to cover the not so up front profiles . . . . you know, like Erotic Nauty even commented on . . .