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5 hours ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 55
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One of my pet gripes is how the children are taught from an extremely young age about HIV and condoms, how to use condoms, where to get condoms etc . . . . . now working on the principal that these same children do not have emotional maturity, is it only me who can see that all that is going to happen is the kids are likely to land up having sex earlier than they are emotionally ready to? After all, they are being taught that sex is ok, as long as you wear a condom.. . . . . HOWEVER, reading this forum it would seem that all the sex education is only managing to entice the kiddies into having sex, and they are forgetting the condom part (otherwise they would not need so many abortion clinics) . . . . . . so, in MY opinion, if children were taught a little bit more about morals, a little more life skills then the pregnancy rates and the infection rates etc would be lower. I agree with most of what has been said here, but I also FULLY agree with Rumpledforeskin.
Ok, so we have pretty much established that most of us out here are average (and apparently liar's) so when do we hear about those lovely clits . . . ????
Quote by Pussinboots1
@ SDMR....sheesha *junky* HUH...you may need reconditioning and rehab....

many a clit . . ag, I mean person has tried before . . . . lol
Quote by vickyoliver
such a waste of time...guys look at a picture and hop on the keyboard...wasting everyones time and megabites....only in SA..take time to read profiles and save everyone the embarrassement, please guy's. hunt happilly, but do it after u have read up on it...thanx.

Most people can understand your frustration. BUT, having said that, just a thought from my side, maybe the bi-guy's do read the profile and then decide to comment because it is so very clear that it is against your choices? Your profile makes it clear in the beginning and at the end that no such people should contact you. . . . . . .
Also, maybe some of the guys get caught up with the fact that "Straight Male" is one of your options?
But, like I said, most of us do understand (and experience) your frustration.
Quote by Pussinboots1
Hey all you *funnies* and clit worshipers....I am busy dissing penises Not vagina`s or clits......
But I will see what I can find.....If I remember correctly I did post a few forums on vaginas already......although it was not quizzes

JUNKIE not worshiper . .. now answer my question please rotflmao
Quote by joyrider
What makes a man a man? Is it the size of his penis or the way it is curved. Or is it the way his build and his looks? No. That just sets him apart from the others.
I think a real man is the following and again maybe I am wrong again?
A real man never swears in front of ladies during a conversation. He always knows his place and never goes out of his way to hurt a lady. In other words he must conduct him self as a gentleman. Please do not confuse a gentleman with as a softy. A real man will never lift his hands to a lady and he will go with his lady to do the shopping with out being nasty or have a shouting match inside the shop because he don't want to be there, as his rugby and other sports are more important than going with his wife shopping. He will help with the house chorse and even wash the dishes and of course do the washing for the love in his life. He will do anything for her, even if he does not like it and will not say a thing about it. A real man will know how to comfort a lady when she needs it and cry with her when it is needed. A real man must know when to take the lead and when not to. A real man will be able to control him self after he has had a few drinks and not look for shit with anyone and everyone, and leave the bigger men alone.
A real man is the one who other people feels comfortable enough with, to came to talk about their problems and keeps it to himself.
Maybe I'm right or maybe I'm wrong?
Joyrider
Oops must not say too much lol lol

Each and every thing you have said above has it's own level of merit.
Quote by joyrider
People REMEMBER one thing do not judge a book by its cover. I know of two people that did that and they where surprised, in what the book really had between the pages :twisted: :twisted:
Joyrider
wink wink wink

I agree with your "do not judge a book by it's cover" statement, However, this is reality and most people do
Quote by Pussinboots1
With all of this penis talk....take this quiz.....
I will give you your details tomorrow!!!
1) Smaller than 2 inches.
2) 3-4 inches long.
3) 5-6 inches long.
4) 7-9 inches long.
5) 10 inches or longer.
6) I am a woman.

I could give 2 or 3 possible answers here, dependent on time of day and arousal levels , . . . . clarify as to when specifically (hard or soft) we should answer
Joyrider, there are a lot of woman who read the forum (as there are many men) only thing is VERY few of them comment on anything
Quote by LeeEC
Will there be a quiz for girls too...how long is your clit?

OK, I'm listening . . . . . . (did I ever tell anyone I was a clit junkie? ))))))
Quote by Gerrie2012
I WANT a Rich man!!!!!! anything for a man with a open wallet!!!!! then I will not mind any size penis!!! I drive a small affordable car.......and I loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove money.
I often hear ...*Why do you NOT charge men * for what you do to them.....(as in kinky) man..... I might just start doing that when I have my own dungeon.......yeeee haw!

I will be your first customer.
Dude, are you pushing in again? seems like you are still jetlagged or something, I, that is ME, as in SDMR (Shawn to you) am ALWAYS first, regardless of any special circumstances or any previous arrangements or anything you can think up.
Sorry to budge in ........
Normally when you do your notice month (always wanted to ask you anyway! lol ) .....aren't you suppose to step back and give the other guys a turn? :twisted:
nope, that is when it is important to clear up any outstanding items. . . . . .
Quote by Pussinboots1
OMG OMG I am flabbergasted so far!!!!!!!!!!
I have just checked the NUMBER 8 answer of every one who answered the quiz so far!!!!!!
MEN YOU ARE ALL in the damn DOG BOX!!!!!!!!! you have NO clue as to where a ladies G-SPOT is ?????????
And REALLY... SDMR your penis does not shrink during stress or being scared??????
And I had to laugh at Joyrides optimistic count of times having sex in year!!!!!!!!!!! that would be the number 1 question.

Ok, so why are we in trouble about number 8??????????
The Gräfenberg Spot, often called the G-Spot, is defined as a bean-shaped area of the vagina. Some women report that it is an erogenous zone which, when stimulated, can lead to strong sexual arousal, powerful orgasms and female ejaculation. The G-Spot is typically described as being located one to three inches (2.5 to 7.6 cm) up the front (anterior) vaginal wall between the vaginal opening and the urethra and is a sensitive area that may be part of the female prostate.
And yes, my penis might shrink with stress, but only temporary, not permanently.
Quote by Pussinboots1
I was reminded of how fucked up the world is after hearing about a abortion that has gone bad!!!
Everywhere I drive I see stickers on lamp posts advertizing *Abortion* and that it is not painful and that it is a fast solution to unwanted pregnancies!!!
I do agree it is a solution to a unwanted pregnancy. BUT should it be a method of birth control is my question???
I also KNOW that any girl underage can go and demand a abortion and that the health carers have to oblige that child,to doing it for her in a safe environment.
And they are NOT allowed to contact the parents, or give the fathers details, of this unwanted baby ,to the police for statuary !!!
The girl child is allowed to sigh the consent forms for the procedures herself!!!
Just to be back after a month or 2 for another one.
Now I am talking kids of as young as 10 that can go for abortions , BUT they are not allowed to go to a birth control clinic to ask for birth control with out a parent being present.
How fucked up is that???

Oh deary me, we have now seen PIB in her VERY angry mode . . . . (I do agree with what you have said)
Quote by happybeats
well to be honest i reckon people are just afraid. Mostly the ladies
I guess they think something could happen to them
plus majority are males who comment
we have a culture of fear in this country
sad but true and warranted to some degree

It may be a culture of fear (with the woman) but the bigger problem (this is only MY opinion) is that the south african male wants all woman to be slutty, have all kinds of intercourse with him and then he goes right ahead and thinks less of her. The only real difference is that their genitals look different, but for some reason it's ok for men to behave that way . . . how on earth can men behave that way if woman don't have the same sexual urges to fulfill?
Quote by Pussinboots1
Now remember not to go look for the answers...... I will post them tomorrow.
How many of you brave people is going to complete this quiz?????
1.) How many times a year does the average couple have sex?
89
2.) In which of the following ways are men`s and women's sex drives different?
All of the above
3.) What's the average length of an erect penis?
5 to 6 inches
4.) Which gender has a higher preference for reaching orgasm through oral sex?
Men
5.) How long is it before the average man ejaculates during sexual intercourse?
5.4 minutes
6.) Stress can make a man's penis shrink.
False
7.) Sexual activity can increase the risk of stroke and heart attack in older people.
True
8.) The G-spot is a sexually sensitive part of a woman's anatomy found in the anterior vaginal wall.
True
9.) Most women can have an orgasm without direct stimulation of the clitoris.
False
10.) What percentage of men say they always have an orgasm during sex with their partner?
93
11.) What percentage of women say they always have an orgasm during sex with their partner?
48
12.) Most women under age 60 think about sex less than once a day.
False
13.) Masturbation can:
All of the above
14.) Older women are more likely to experience orgasm when sex is within the context of a relationship.
False
Quote by georgeous
I WANT a Rich man!!!!!! anything for a man with a open wallet!!!!! then I will not mind any size penis!!! I drive a small affordable car.......and I loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove money.
I often hear ...*Why do you NOT charge men * for what you do to them.....(as in kinky) man..... I might just start doing that when I have my own dungeon.......yeeee haw!

I will be your first customer.
Dude, are you pushing in again? seems like you are still jetlagged or something, I, that is ME, as in SDMR (Shawn to you) am ALWAYS first, regardless of any special circumstances or any previous arrangements or anything you can think up.
Quote by zach_2012
u right, too many people around here who collect pictures only...what are we going to do abt these timewaisters?

Why would people collect pictures from a site like this when they can collect professional pictures from porn sites?
38% . . . .apparently I'm a wanker in attitude only . . . . rotflmao
Quote by Deviants
There really isn't much more I can add to this post that hasn't already been said except to offer the following quotation:
Egotism is the anesthetic that dulls the pain of stupidity. ~ Frank Leahy

Nice quote Deviants:
and in light of deviants observation that it has all been said, I would like to put a slightly different spin on this.
We the males of the species do actually know that a lot of women think that bigger is better and to a large degree just go about silently hoping this knowledge does not affect us too much on the performance level . . . . .
How many of you (males) have been in the situation where because you have this knowledge you thought about introducing something a little bit bigger than you into playtime (a Dildo or other inanimate object) only to have the lady ask you ever so politely if you were fu@#ing mad? you are not putting that into me . . . . . .
so another Dogging post, it's 15 days old, over 450 people have read it and only 9 people have commented ? ? ? ? another situation that makes me wonder if Dogging in SA has a chance
Over 650 people have read this post, and only 16 have commented ? ? ? ? wow, makes you think that Dogging is more of a fantasy than a reality
Quote by LeeEC
Your marketing strategy needs a bit of research... Only a tiny percentage of members actually use the forums...

Although having said that, 31 people have read your post in 5 hours, and only Lee and now myself have commented. I hope you have at least had responses in private form :sad:
1 According to research on masturbation...
C) Single people and people in relationships masturbate about the same amount.
2 True or False: All organized religions condemn masturbation.
B) False
3 What is the longest amount of time a participant in the annual Masturbate-a-Thon has masturbated to raise money for a cause?
D) 18 hours
4 Which American actress has been in two masturbation scenes in mainstream movies?
A) Joan Allen (woody Allen?)
5 Who said, 'The subject of masturbation is inexhaustible.'
B) Woody Allen
6 What is the technical definition of chronic masturbation?
A) Masturbating more than 6 times per day.
7 What percentage of people who are married tell their partners that they masturbate?
B) Less than 30 percent
8 True or False: Masturbation is the most commonly engaged in sexual behavior in the world.
A) True
9 What was former Surgeon General Dr. Jocelyn Elder fired for saying about masturbation in 1994?
A) That masturbation should be a required part of sex education curriculum.
10 True or False: If you use a vibrator during masturbation it's harder to orgasm with a partner.
A) True
11 What popular commercial food product was originally developed to prevent young boys from masturbating?
???? pussy????
12 Which of the following titles is a published book about masturbation?
E) The Best I Ever Had
13 True or False: The more you masturbate the less you need to have sex with a partner.
B) False
Quote by CamFun

Having been both average and big, I can tell you that knowing how to use a bigger tool is often, but not always, better. It really does depend on the woman. And yes, thicker is also almost always better - but even here there are limits. My wife can't handle thicker than me.
Cfn

Ok, so now everyone (males especially) are going to ask how you managed to be both average AND big ?
Quote by Oceana
So here's a new topic ....
Is it important to you that the couple/person that you are swinging with is in good physical shape? I'm not talking gym bunnies, but at least physically fit and relatively slim .... or are you happy that they might be carrying a couple of extra kilo's as long as there is a connection with them??

As long as the people are hygienic, carrying a little extra kilo's is of no real relevance to me. It is more about the person / people's vibe and personality,
Quote by Aquarium
Hi ladies and gents, im new obviously. .. Im up for most things, dogging excites me but ive never tried it, also would like to meet like minded people not necessarily for sex rather just to get to expand yours and my understanding of this alternative lifestyle!

your post has been read 35 times so far today, and not one single reply or comment in the forum . . .I really hope you have had PVT messages from people . .
Quote by Gerrie2012
Well this one is not for me. Because when I was much younger my oupa told me if I play too much with my tool, hair would start to grow in my palms. lol And the other reason is been married and having sex 5 to 6 times a week. It dont give me much time to play with my wirelol lol lol lol lol
Joyrider
Married life is great :twisted: lol lol lol lol

Hehehehehehe! Whom of you or Joy have hairs growing on their hands today? :twisted:
Of course when that story was told and everybody that knew the story waited to see if the unsuspected (and guilty ...!) guy quickly looked at his hands!!!!
I for one 'sommer' have green hair growing on my hands!! Still using the "five tackle one" strategy! ..... but (absolutely!) prefers a pair of feline, soft hands and warm wet lips to do it!
agreed, taking matters into ones own hands is one thing . . but when a lady and a bottle of oil takes matters into her hands . . . . .
Quote by Gerrie2012
Ok! Everybody together........
Inhale and bloooooow! Inhale and blooooow! .......... new life into the forums!
:cheers:

No dude, it's not a breath it needs, it's a bloody good kick up the arse it needs . . .
As C from KC said, sex is about more than just penis and pussy, you also need fingers and mouths and hands and feet and and and and are what makes the entire experience worth it or not . . . (well to me anyway)
I would tend to agree with all that you have said here. I also think that it is mostly men that have an ISSUE with it, because they know it. BUT, yes more women prefer a bigger penis, but most of them will be happy with whatever they have at that moment, men on the other hand have been condiiotned by all the talk around the world of "Size doesn't matter" . . . if it did not matter, it would not be spoken about so often it's the same for women, just like men prefer tighter vagina's regardless of how big their penis is
Quote by Thailand
Well dogging seems to be really happening with ALLOT of planning and all that stuff so final verdic....it is not happening, just maybe by change you will see some guy getting jerked off by a hooker at Brakpan dam ...so otherwise no luck...

After reading what has been written in the various posts about Dogging, I have to agree with you. Seems as if nothing really happens