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@ Mike_Pta...We have SEX on the beach ANYWHERE........................... just ask your bar man!!!!

Quote by Gerrie2012
Maybe he might be more comfortable with his naked fellow man in future also. DP is awesome but let's also keep Mr E happy also, I'm sure no guy wants to join in with the fear of a fist in the back of his mind.

Quote by Pussinboots1
2013-07-25
Recently I got this urge to be very, very naughty..so I am posting really really naughty avatars that I find so damn cute!!!!!
what you make of this SDMR???

Quote by Mike_Pta
Maybe he might be more comfortable with his naked fellow man in future also. DP is awesome but let's also keep Mr E happy also, I'm sure no guy wants to join in with the fear of a fist in the back of his mind.

Quote by Erotic_Nauty
Morning Mike..
Very true the possibility of male penetration during a 3 way with a lady is very very slim.
Doing a nice double penetration, you males do feel each others penises rubbing against each other through the thin layer of skin dividing the anal area from the that is what freaks most men.....
We are not even talking a double penetration vaginally, here that is even MUCH CLOSER ,it is direct contact.
Now just also imagine if one penis slips out, and the one guy has to help put it back in place...(that also happens more than what people realize) he he another touching experience.....
Not to talk if the testicles slam each other
OH boy this is truly a night mare for homophobic`s.

Quote by Pussinboots1
Morning Mike..
Very true the possibility of male penetration during a 3 way with a lady is very very slim.
Doing a nice double penetration, you males do feel each others penises rubbing against each other through the thin layer of skin dividing the anal area from the that is what freaks most men.....
We are not even talking a double penetration vaginally, here that is even MUCH CLOSER ,it is direct contact.
Now just also imagine if one penis slips out, and the one guy has to help put it back in place...(that also happens more than what people realize) he he another touching experience.....
Not to talk if the testicles slam each other
OH boy this is truly a night mare for homophobic`s.

Quote by Mike_Pta
Still if you are secure in your sexuality then being Bi shouldn't bring you or your partner into question about what they really want. I know that I'm cool playing with other guys, not that I'm ever looking for a m2m play date, but I also know playing with other guys won't change me. I know that in the future I will find a nice girl to settle down with but If I play with another guy it doesn't make me less of a man or anything.
While I won't go so far as to say guys who are nervous of male contact are insecure but if your fear is because you think you might turn gay after one experience then maybe you aren't that comfortable with yourself. Saying that if your partner does want to try out that side of himself then support him reassure each other that you can try out playing on the other side but you you know that home base is with each other.
Anybody get what I'm trying to say?

Quote by Bodyhunter
Hi all....had an awesome dogging meeting Friday night..Thank you H, you and hubby were true doggers in all aspects, sorry for the couple in the blue Opel we missed, but if it wasn't for the creepy dude in the golf, it would have been fantastic....
keep on dogging.....

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Please don't be a stranger on the forums!
We value and welcome your input in all our discussions - even when we get out of hand and off topic!!

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@ SDMR you are already on my *pen pal* list.... or you just wanted to do the phone thingie?? eish eish.....
@ Mike_Pta ie:-...spelcheck , if we do get personalized old fashioned mail all the faults in the world would not matter.
and yeah glad you as a young man, *get* where this old dame is coming from.

Quote by Pussinboots1
I know it`s ironic to be writing on a computer and using blogs and forums to post ideas about how I want to temper my time on computers and the sites I belong to. That, to me, is unthinkable not to be on a computer daily.
But that is sort of the crux of the problem I want to talk about.
Isn`t it strange that this *thing* piped into my home, this *thing* that gives me intimate and controlled access to the daily banalities of people all over the world, the same *thing* that are limiting my access to people and to the banalities of life.
The very *thing* I use to tell the world and my friends on how my life is unfolding.
The *thing* that is possibly (and for everyone of us,) preventing me from picking up the phone and calling just one friend to talk about my or their day.
We are so connected to each other these days, and yet I am struggling with an almost staggering disconnect. I interact with my friends everyday. I interact with my family everyday. I laugh/cry with them and at them and because of them. They laugh/cry with me and at me and because of me.
And yet, everyday I miss my friends. I miss... Contact. We may be laughing/crying with and at and because of each other, but we`re doing it alone.
We are not laughing/crying together. I cannot hear them laughing/crying. They cannot hear me. That makes me sit back and go whoa. It gives me a heavy lonely feeling in my chest.
When we have Facebook and Twitter and email we don`t really have much of a reason to pick up the phone and call anyone just to see how they`re doing - we already know how they`re doing. Or, I guess, you know how they want you to think they`re doing.
Why pick up a pen and paper and buy a stamp and walk to the mailbox and mail a letter and wait a week to get a response when you can just send a text or an email?
Why?
Because calling someone allows us to hear their voice. It gives us a few moments to wade through our emotions together. We can hear life happening in the background.
I miss ink-stained fingers and a mad dash for funny stamps and breathlessly opening the mailbox to find an envelope with familiar handwriting that grabs at you like a hug from far away.
Think about it: deciphering your best friend's handwriting on back-to-back pages of smeared ink is a lost art. These days, do you even know what your friends handwriting looks like? It feels like a secret to me, an intimacy, when I see the handwriting of a friend. Its a peek into their personality, their day-to-day, but also their psyche and their emotions.
Is it archaic to miss a kind of intimacy that our current world has rendered obsolete? I`m sure plenty of people think this sort of pining is ridiculous. Why would we torture our self waiting for a response from our friends when you can just email them a letter and possibly hear back by the end of the hour?I guess I feel like letters don't have to be a lost art. They don't have to be obsolete. And sure, there's a place for email and texting and Facebook.
Please don`t misunderstand me - I am a big fan of technology and email and all of that.
But when it comes to everyday interactions, this kind of instant feedback can be so dangerous, don`t you think? These interactions shouldn`t replace human contact, you know.
I feel like before there was a computer there were more dinner parties and more phone calls and more letters and cards. There was, ironically, so much more to talk about when you got together with your friends.
So while my world has expanded into a supernova of *friends* and interactions, I can feel it sucking in on itself, creating that inevitable black hole that comes from an explosion of this magnitude. I see /talk to friends everyday, and yet I miss the *more* than ever. I am surrounded by friends, but have never felt more isolated.
I miss catching up because I don`t already know you had fried chicken for lunch.
I miss you. All of you.
Who wants to be my pen or phone pal?

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LMAO @ Gerrie... NOPE it is nothing to do with size...... just plain old kink!!!

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Ha ha, I've loved all the picture comments
The deos can makes sense if its obvious what it is and you can look at one in a shop somewhere... But the tv remote?
We do not al have the same tv... But here's the thing guys, if its so important for people to know exactly your size then get out the ruler! It has measurement markings and everything.. You'd be tempted to think it was for exactly that!
Or put your length and girth in your profile write up (remember both measurements are equally important to women, if they are important at all).
And on the note of pictures... A bit of creativity goes real far.. A woman looking at creative pictures thinks..he made an effort, he will probably make an effort in bed, he is creative... imagine how creative he will be with his tongue
If you know how a woman thinks, you will get much further in this lifestyle... Actually girls, if you know hire a man thinks you will also be able to sift through the kak to find the good ones too...

Quote by NawtyCat
I have had this conversation with several of my female friends, both lifestylers and vanillas, and the general feeling is that they are a little over-whelmed when giving a bj. There are many women who would like to give bjs, however, are afraid that their skills may not be up to par and are too shy to ask anyone for assistance/their opinion for fear of being ridiculed or rejected.
(I wonder if guys feel the same way re cunnilingus???)
I personally used to be one of the aforementioned group......until I met Mr Nawty.....now I ABSOLUTELY LOVE giving bj's (including deep-throating) and have been told that I am quite adept..... Fellatio does not give me (my throat) any physical pleasure, however, I get VERY turned on by how turned on the gentleman gets by my mouth. Nothing beats getting a man SO turned on that he cannot help, but orgasm!
Not all ejaculation/semen tastes the same and I am happy to swallow and if it tastes ok, will do so repeatedly. Flavored condoms are also great, however, without is definitely better (as everyone has pointed out - bare-back only happens with our long-time FWBs and Mr Nawty).

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Highjacking Skills indeed . . . . . I also notice (with concern of course) that you are referring to the girls and not to . . oh, wait, it is only Gerrie and I left of the boys, so I guess we are outnumbered . . . .

Quote by LeeEC
Oh look girls! A bright one! I like him already
Deeeeelish!
Promise you won't leave the forums mike and we'll adopt you into our gang!
Quick girls, love him and give him treats!
*she steals the thread and nimbly makes off into the sunset! How's that for hijacking skills boys?!*

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@ Gerrie , you are my hero !!!!
@ SDMR...you are hairless with out waxing or shaving ermmm ???????? Do tell us more!!!!
@Mike_Pta ermm you can always try just trimming...a hair cutting machine trims quiet well.
Shaving leaves that ingrowing hair, everyone is speaking about and nothing is as unsightly as a *pimply looking ingrowing hair* pubic area.
Can you elaborate on
*until I get a girl willing to give me a post torture rub down also.*
Have you ever had a POT???? If you did ,please do tell me how you hated or loved this method of CBT.

Quote by KC_
Lol SDMR
No amount of convincing? I know many men who started waxing because they lost a bet, or were dared to do so...
They still wax years later, but won't admit it to anyone else ;)
The one started because his girlfriend at the time was a beautician. I am not sure if she did his "base, sack and crack" but i dont think it could be worse than chest and back!
;)
C

Quote by Mike_Pta
It's gonna take a lot of convincing before I let a girl bring wax to my play area, very long time. I'm still getting used to the razer, however I do enjoy the results, I just wish the process was more friendly.
Laser seems like a nice option pity it's so pricey, your man is very lucky KC

Quote by LeeEC
Not to worry boys - I kicked him off the site this morning bright and early
Though I must admit I was horrified to discover this particular idiot had some nice little notes on his profile for past crappy behaviour and he was STILL here! :doh:
Rest assured ladies (and all other parties who are victims of abuse here) :sparring:
I have a ZERO TOLERANCE for abuse. Any abusive person MUST be kicked immediately and permanently off this site.
We must be EXTREMELY pedantic and extremely strict about it - this is the only way to instill a culture of respect - any person not willing to show the very most basic level of respect to their fellow human... OUT! ON THEIR ARSE! IMMEDIATELY! :dry:
Please do not hesitate to report breach of AUP :small-print: - which includes and clearly underlines a minimum of respect as a requirement for the privilege of using this facility. People do not pay sub - the very least they have to pay to qualify for their continued membership here is RESPECT. And anyone not prepared to do so can F@#k right off... OFF our site!
REST ASSURED (it is quite clear) that while some people may not exactly appreciate the MooPooGang...
We are ready and armed with our best MooPoo to take action against ANYONE who dares mess with our peops!
If you're gonna be an arse, best you duck boy coz the MooPoo will HIT THE FAN! :scared:
Maybe we should rename .... MooPooMafia :haha: :haha:

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@ georgeous,
Oh boy.....you do sound sorta scary here.....now guys KNOW not to be rude to me yes, I have georgeous who is gonna set you straight.... Thanks for the offer georgeous.I will help, by sitting on them to keep them in position.
I have found this nice quote ,and I think it applies to this sort rude people who we have on has two sets of moral and manners when they think to be *gentlemanly*nice when flirting while wanting something...then decide to change to an oaf when declined/rejected.
Quote...
Don't reserve your best behavior for special occasions.
You can't have two sets of manners, two social codes - one for those you admire and want to impress, another for those whom you consider unimportant.
You must be the same to all people.
Lillian Eichler Watson