Quote by Yugylf
Hey girls I have for years been enjoying the best real gloryhole in JHB
It's a public bathroom very quite upstairs easy for a lady to sneak in
and then just wait for a cock to appear through the hole
Suck away and play
Contact me if you would like details
Will gladly assist you in having the hottest cock sucking action
Ever?

Quote by KC_
Wearing women's undies does not necessarily mean that he is not straight!
The only thing you know for sure about that profile is that he enjoys wearing women's undies ;)
Many straight men engage in cross-dressing activities. It doesn't change their orientation...
;)
C

Quote by Stamina
I think the people love showing their very unique fannies and willies in all sort of they are exhibitionists
What I dislike is the Photo`s where....
Some ladies stretch their genitals wide open...with cum dripping out, and they stuff/insert really awful stuff inside their vagina to show how wide it can are not always cleanly shaved / includes their anal area....
Have you guys ever noticed that nearly NO ONE shaves/wax that area???? eeewwwww.....
The same with men...they show how they ejaculate, hold empty toilet rolls /deodorant cans next to their genitals so we can sort of see how BIG and THICK they are.
For me who is a BIG pervert and an *peeping tom*
Those kinda photos are distasteful to me as a person, because it leaves NOTHING for an active sensual imagination.
Really a big pity!!
Me,I like to think and dream and imagine how something should look like.
As for face pics...sorry that should be kept in a closed album only to be opened when you are about to meet someone.
but then that is just me being paranoid.

Quote by mymail069
Does anyone also get that little fluttering feeling when loading up your email and Swinging Heaven home page and wondering if you have any new mail from interested members

Quote by redbruce
Although my wife's "red sea" days are now a thing of the past, we never let it stop us! She also reported being "more horny" during that time, and I had no issue with it being "dirty" or anything. It was just a different form of lubrication! One just had to be a lot more careful about not messing the sheets and the mattress, although that happened from time to time...

Quote by Voyer1105
My wife will suck a nice cock but wants to feel the cum squirt into her pussy
So it seems that only men enjoy swallowing sperm

Quote by Mike_Pta
@ Mike_Pta...We have SEX on the beach ANYWHERE........................... just ask your bar man!!!!

Quote by Gerrie2012
Maybe he might be more comfortable with his naked fellow man in future also. DP is awesome but let's also keep Mr E happy also, I'm sure no guy wants to join in with the fear of a fist in the back of his mind.

Quote by Pussinboots1
2013-07-25
Recently I got this urge to be very, very naughty..so I am posting really really naughty avatars that I find so damn cute!!!!!
what you make of this SDMR???

Quote by Mike_Pta
Maybe he might be more comfortable with his naked fellow man in future also. DP is awesome but let's also keep Mr E happy also, I'm sure no guy wants to join in with the fear of a fist in the back of his mind.

Quote by Erotic_Nauty
Morning Mike..
Very true the possibility of male penetration during a 3 way with a lady is very very slim.
Doing a nice double penetration, you males do feel each others penises rubbing against each other through the thin layer of skin dividing the anal area from the that is what freaks most men.....
We are not even talking a double penetration vaginally, here that is even MUCH CLOSER ,it is direct contact.
Now just also imagine if one penis slips out, and the one guy has to help put it back in place...(that also happens more than what people realize) he he another touching experience.....
Not to talk if the testicles slam each other
OH boy this is truly a night mare for homophobic`s.

Quote by Pussinboots1
Morning Mike..
Very true the possibility of male penetration during a 3 way with a lady is very very slim.
Doing a nice double penetration, you males do feel each others penises rubbing against each other through the thin layer of skin dividing the anal area from the that is what freaks most men.....
We are not even talking a double penetration vaginally, here that is even MUCH CLOSER ,it is direct contact.
Now just also imagine if one penis slips out, and the one guy has to help put it back in place...(that also happens more than what people realize) he he another touching experience.....
Not to talk if the testicles slam each other
OH boy this is truly a night mare for homophobic`s.

Quote by Mike_Pta
Still if you are secure in your sexuality then being Bi shouldn't bring you or your partner into question about what they really want. I know that I'm cool playing with other guys, not that I'm ever looking for a m2m play date, but I also know playing with other guys won't change me. I know that in the future I will find a nice girl to settle down with but If I play with another guy it doesn't make me less of a man or anything.
While I won't go so far as to say guys who are nervous of male contact are insecure but if your fear is because you think you might turn gay after one experience then maybe you aren't that comfortable with yourself. Saying that if your partner does want to try out that side of himself then support him reassure each other that you can try out playing on the other side but you you know that home base is with each other.
Anybody get what I'm trying to say?

Quote by Bodyhunter
Hi all....had an awesome dogging meeting Friday night..Thank you H, you and hubby were true doggers in all aspects, sorry for the couple in the blue Opel we missed, but if it wasn't for the creepy dude in the golf, it would have been fantastic....
keep on dogging.....

Quote by LeeEC
Please don't be a stranger on the forums!
We value and welcome your input in all our discussions - even when we get out of hand and off topic!!

Quote by Pussinboots1
@ SDMR you are already on my *pen pal* list.... or you just wanted to do the phone thingie?? eish eish.....
@ Mike_Pta ie:-...spelcheck , if we do get personalized old fashioned mail all the faults in the world would not matter.
and yeah glad you as a young man, *get* where this old dame is coming from.

Quote by Pussinboots1
I know it`s ironic to be writing on a computer and using blogs and forums to post ideas about how I want to temper my time on computers and the sites I belong to. That, to me, is unthinkable not to be on a computer daily.
But that is sort of the crux of the problem I want to talk about.
Isn`t it strange that this *thing* piped into my home, this *thing* that gives me intimate and controlled access to the daily banalities of people all over the world, the same *thing* that are limiting my access to people and to the banalities of life.
The very *thing* I use to tell the world and my friends on how my life is unfolding.
The *thing* that is possibly (and for everyone of us,) preventing me from picking up the phone and calling just one friend to talk about my or their day.
We are so connected to each other these days, and yet I am struggling with an almost staggering disconnect. I interact with my friends everyday. I interact with my family everyday. I laugh/cry with them and at them and because of them. They laugh/cry with me and at me and because of me.
And yet, everyday I miss my friends. I miss... Contact. We may be laughing/crying with and at and because of each other, but we`re doing it alone.
We are not laughing/crying together. I cannot hear them laughing/crying. They cannot hear me. That makes me sit back and go whoa. It gives me a heavy lonely feeling in my chest.
When we have Facebook and Twitter and email we don`t really have much of a reason to pick up the phone and call anyone just to see how they`re doing - we already know how they`re doing. Or, I guess, you know how they want you to think they`re doing.
Why pick up a pen and paper and buy a stamp and walk to the mailbox and mail a letter and wait a week to get a response when you can just send a text or an email?
Why?
Because calling someone allows us to hear their voice. It gives us a few moments to wade through our emotions together. We can hear life happening in the background.
I miss ink-stained fingers and a mad dash for funny stamps and breathlessly opening the mailbox to find an envelope with familiar handwriting that grabs at you like a hug from far away.
Think about it: deciphering your best friend's handwriting on back-to-back pages of smeared ink is a lost art. These days, do you even know what your friends handwriting looks like? It feels like a secret to me, an intimacy, when I see the handwriting of a friend. Its a peek into their personality, their day-to-day, but also their psyche and their emotions.
Is it archaic to miss a kind of intimacy that our current world has rendered obsolete? I`m sure plenty of people think this sort of pining is ridiculous. Why would we torture our self waiting for a response from our friends when you can just email them a letter and possibly hear back by the end of the hour?I guess I feel like letters don't have to be a lost art. They don't have to be obsolete. And sure, there's a place for email and texting and Facebook.
Please don`t misunderstand me - I am a big fan of technology and email and all of that.
But when it comes to everyday interactions, this kind of instant feedback can be so dangerous, don`t you think? These interactions shouldn`t replace human contact, you know.
I feel like before there was a computer there were more dinner parties and more phone calls and more letters and cards. There was, ironically, so much more to talk about when you got together with your friends.
So while my world has expanded into a supernova of *friends* and interactions, I can feel it sucking in on itself, creating that inevitable black hole that comes from an explosion of this magnitude. I see /talk to friends everyday, and yet I miss the *more* than ever. I am surrounded by friends, but have never felt more isolated.
I miss catching up because I don`t already know you had fried chicken for lunch.
I miss you. All of you.
Who wants to be my pen or phone pal?

Quote by Pussinboots1
LMAO @ Gerrie... NOPE it is nothing to do with size...... just plain old kink!!!

Quote by LeeEC

Ha ha, I've loved all the picture comments
The deos can makes sense if its obvious what it is and you can look at one in a shop somewhere... But the tv remote?
We do not al have the same tv... But here's the thing guys, if its so important for people to know exactly your size then get out the ruler! It has measurement markings and everything.. You'd be tempted to think it was for exactly that!
Or put your length and girth in your profile write up (remember both measurements are equally important to women, if they are important at all).
And on the note of pictures... A bit of creativity goes real far.. A woman looking at creative pictures thinks..he made an effort, he will probably make an effort in bed, he is creative... imagine how creative he will be with his tongue :)
If you know how a woman thinks, you will get much further in this lifestyle... Actually girls, if you know hire a man thinks you will also be able to sift through the kak to find the good ones too...

Quote by NawtyCat
I have had this conversation with several of my female friends, both lifestylers and vanillas, and the general feeling is that they are a little over-whelmed when giving a bj. There are many women who would like to give bjs, however, are afraid that their skills may not be up to par and are too shy to ask anyone for assistance/their opinion for fear of being ridiculed or rejected.
(I wonder if guys feel the same way re cunnilingus???)
I personally used to be one of the aforementioned group......until I met Mr Nawty.....now I ABSOLUTELY LOVE giving bj's (including deep-throating) and have been told that I am quite adept..... Fellatio does not give me (my throat) any physical pleasure, however, I get VERY turned on by how turned on the gentleman gets by my mouth. Nothing beats getting a man SO turned on that he cannot help, but orgasm!
Not all ejaculation/semen tastes the same and I am happy to swallow and if it tastes ok, will do so repeatedly. Flavored condoms are also great, however, without is definitely better (as everyone has pointed out - bare-back only happens with our long-time FWBs and Mr Nawty).