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21 Oct 2013

Quote by Jhbhung
So now for a real test. So many guys here seem to chicken out when there is a real invitation.
So here it is, a gangbang next week. I will disclose the place and time later. Let's see who is keen. Pm me

Did this go down?
Would be interesting to know if it happened. I think I have missed it by a week lol.
My take on this is as follows . . .
Anyone who would actually go through with some or other form of gangbang, would already have the "means" of doing so and would not be looking for a bunch of strangers to make things happen. (remember, this is my take on it)
I think Jack99 shares my views to a certain extent and that is why he put it out there, knowing full well he would not have too many "serious" inquiries . . . . . thus exposing this kind of forum posting for what it is.
p.s. Jack99, if I am wrong, send pictures dude lol

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21 Oct 2013

Quote by RockstarLemming
Hi all,
Just to let you know I am back. I (foolishly) deleted my account - instead of just deactivating it - when a girl I was seeing stumbled onto the link while using my phone. Yes I know that was incredibly silly of me (she just saw the link and didn't go to the site) - and damn Google for bringing up link suggestions when only a few letters are entered!
)

Dude, firstly welcome back . . . .
secondly, if you are going to allow other people to use your technological devices, you better learn pretty damn quick how to delete browsing history on them . . . . . . (fixes the link suggestion issue)

16 Oct 2013

Quote by RetroSiren
Hi all
We're new here (but not new to the scene). A friend persuaded me to join. I gather that posting an into here first is the Done Thing*.
Just your basic lifestyle couple with kids and a mortgage and some good friends in the scene. Hope to make some more friends here.
* Yes, I am a nerd.

Welcome

16 Oct 2013

Quote by cpl2play
Probably going to pick up a bit of flak here but anyway!
We (my lady and I) are amazed at what a lot of cpl's/ppl consider athletic. To us it means exactly that...an athletic body! Not a plump body, not a couple kg's overweight body or not even an in-weight body that is not in shape. There's a whole bunch of profiles claiming to have athletic bods...but it ain't so. To us athletic means ripped abs, tight ass, good definition overall. Someone that you can actually see is athletic and active. Not saying we are athletic, we don't claim to be.
Just stating our observations...or should we remain forever silent?

Best advice I can offer, is don't let it bother you too much. Some people see things differently (I see them your way) but we are all different in our views . .

14 Oct 2013

Quote by Jhn21
Hi There
I am a male new to all of this and am giving it a try due to the reason that i am tired of barbie doll looking females everywhere.
Is there anywhere i can go to to find a natural woman or do they not exist ? i'm just looking for someone who is not afraid of having a few extra pounds, or being overly endowed.
Just to chat at first and see from there...

Apparently Roodepoort is full of Barbie looking females . . . . . I will be in that general vicinity for the next indefinite period if anyone is looking for me . . . :thumbup:

14 Oct 2013

Quote by Pussinboots1
@ SDMR damn and your ONE pic is in a closed album so I can not perv it!!!! DAMN DAMN how about a nice bum pic?? I love a nice hard tush!
@ KC_ ohhhhhh can not wait for that ONEday!!!!! I love perving men ........
eish whom am I kidding I love perving women toooooo!

All a lady has to do is ask nicely wink

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14 Oct 2013

Quote by lexmar005
Hi Im Lester 27y old white straight male tall and 97kg
Im looking to meet new ppl to play with pvt as im married and dont want my wife to know about me being on here
Hope to chat soon

While it's a "good" thing that you are being open and up front about being married and you being here alone, this is not the site for what you are looking for.

14 Oct 2013

It fascinates me how the pictures in "couples" profiles are more often than not mostly of woman.

14 Oct 2013

Dictionary Says Definition of 'Demand' An economic principle that describes a consumer's desire and willingness to pay a price for a specific good or service. Holding all other factors constant, the price of a good or service increases as its demand increases and vice versa. So, demand it and see what the actual final price will be . . . . . . . rotflmao

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14 Oct 2013

Quote by Rain
My boyfriend has sex with me once a week, if I'm lucky. But he looks at porn videos on the internet every day... and wanks off most of the time (I know this because of a hidden camera )
He doesn't even get properly hard when we do have sex. What gives? Has he lost interest in me? Is he so addicted to porn that only porn stars can turn him on? Is it his age (52). Any ideas? I'm going nuts.

So my take on this . . .
Judging by your profile, you have pretty much made up your mind how you are thinking about 'dealing" with the lack of sex.
You mentioned in your profile you and your "husband" and here you make reference to a "boyfriend"
Have you guy's been together for long? and are the emotional strings strong enough to want to work around this? If you have Hidden Camera's I would have to wonder what else there is that could be affecting things.
BUT, maybe he is just not that into penetrative sex . . . although I would think you would have known that all along . . .

14 Oct 2013

First of all, . . . . . . . . . . secondly, what is "good looking" to one is not necessarily to another . ..

8 Oct 2013

I have to wonder how effective this little advertising campaign has been for the store . . . .

1 Oct 2013

Quote by Sunflower26
Hi all
My BF has done this before as I am new to all this I am willing and want to give this a try where can I find us a swinging club in kempton park area how does it work? Is it better for us to have a party with a couple first lots of questions he wants to see me with a man is that normal I wound mind him doing a nother woman I am just scared of how I am going to react will I get jelouse then what then?
Thx in advanced for the answers

My immediate reaction to reading this is that you are not entirely ready for this yet.
My advice would be to take it very slow, find out as much as you can and if you still think you would like to try, then ease into it over a long period of time. If you jump in with both feet, there is a big chance you would not enjoy the experience because you were not ready.

25 Sep 2013

Quote by jmatthews1972
Can someone give me any specific reason why colour lines are not crossed ? .

I enjoyed reading your little write up . . well put.
As far as why lines are not crossed . . . they are, (even by some of those who are so adamant to put in their profiles they don't) they are just seldom spoken about. Bottom line, people are just people don't let this bother you too much (especially when the ones who say they don't keep checking out your profile lol

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21 Sep 2013

Quote by LeeEC
Ha ha, I think the measure of how good a pick up line is, might just be the gullibility of the chick in question....

Or the levels of inebriation . . . lol

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21 Sep 2013

Quote by Stamina
I have been a member for a year... Have sent only tasteful messages, approached people with respect, never started a conversation with sexual intensions... I am a decent, clean, professional... I am good looking and not in bad shape... Yet have not had a single encounter through this site! Most of you that will read this have confirmed that I seem like a good guy. Am I doing something wrong? Any advice welcome.

Swings and roundabouts my good fellow . . . . I have been in the same place you are now, then I have also been in the place where something happens in a few hours after initial contact . . . I reckon it's a luck of the draw thing mostly

21 Sep 2013

Quote by playcouple
Viagra does that to you.....
Sound to me a bit like a "the fish was THIS big" story.....

Sounds about right....... And it was a small goldfish caught in a gill net attached to a fleet of trawlers
Waisteline humour . . . . rotflmao

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19 Sep 2013

Quote by redbruce
I was at Emmerentia on Tuesday from about 11h00 onwards and there were 2 couples playing but both were caught by the security. It does happen but one has to be careful.

Hi Peter,
So what did Security actually do to them? Lock them up, evict them from the park, or just hang around making sure they did not play any more? I'm curious - just how serious an offense is it if caught?
I can only imagine it would fall under public indecency, which would carry different severity based on different things. BUT, a security guard can do little more than call the real police unless you are breaking a specific venue written rule / regulation / law.

19 Sep 2013

Quote by altydluzz
Sex is nobody's business except the three people involved

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19 Sep 2013

I'll be back ------ every person who ever watched the Terminator

18 Sep 2013

Pretty fascinating how a lady from Bulgaria has so many men from South Africa captivated . . . rotflmao

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18 Sep 2013

This is me standing up and applauding Bks_kinkycpl . . . . . . . it seems there are people out there who are willing to make something happen instead of just waiting around for someone else to do something. :bounce:

18 Sep 2013

Quote by Mike_Pta
Thanks guys, your making me blush here

hey dude, clever way to get a bump in the number of hits on your profile .. . . :thumbup: I am in PTA next week, perhaps I should recruit you to write a new profile for me rotflmao

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17 Sep 2013

Quote by playcouple
A good starting point for reference of the kind of profile that will almost always get a reply is Mike_pta's profile. Would put his as one of the best single guy profiles

Now if i was a skeptical type of guy rotflmao

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. . . .. Let us know if this tactic worked guys . . . lol

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17 Sep 2013

Very open to interpretation . . . . . . but first and foremost, if the people involved in the relationship are not "open" to start with, there is nil to zero chance of it suddenly becoming a "non issue at all type of relationship" overnight

16 Sep 2013

Quote by RockstarLemming
Unfortunately I can't make it this year
I hope that those who do go have lots of fun and buy some toys to play with at home.

FORTUNATELY . . . I never make it any year . . . . . don't see the point really (this is little old me and my opinion)

13 Sep 2013

Quote by LeeEC
Ok, so we'd SHOW you then :P

promises promises . . . . . wink

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13 Sep 2013

Quote by LeeEC
If YOU had broken bits then we would try our bestest to advise you on how to fix them too....

I'm more of a visual learner . . . . lol

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12 Sep 2013

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12 Sep 2013

The world does not need your permission to change . . . . .