Yes, I am well versed on googlelitis . . :grin:

I think that sums up what I was also trying to say 'not a text book definition" . . . . the same google search throws up a few other explanations (definitions) so once again it appears "choice" is raising its unpopular hand. . . 

mmmm? Excuse me . . . . 

Where is all this kink???? 

Waiting in great anticipation . . . 

I thought I would put a little effort in to try and "understand" things better . . . one of the interpretations that Google throws out when you search "what does open minded mean sexually" is as follows . .  .

A sexually open minded person can be bisexual, but a sexually open minded person may also be heterosexual or homosexual only. A sexually open minded person means they are willing to explore and experiment within the boundaries of what they deem as comfortable for them. . . . 

Just the same as Sexysam69 . . . I am also struggling to keep myself quiet. . . . 

Almost everyone is saying "I respect everyone's right to choice" . . . so then I must ask, why is everyone's right to choose being questioned and or challenged ???? 

mmmmmmm,

I think I should check if I have this thing you call "sex addiction" . . . . . . 

And if I do not, well then, I NEED to get me some  . . 

OK, OK, OK . . . seriously, I am in agreement with the "choose what you are" suggestion made by PIB . . . but there are those who need a little guidance when it cones to choosing . . . always the possibility of one "trying" to be a certain way. 

FOR EXAMPLE:

Some would say if you are involved in a mmf then you are gay, some would say you are bi, some would say you are a pervert . . . I would say, YES !!! 

PIB, penis presentation available in person anytime . . . and yes, happy to help with any bucket list item of yours

puts his hand up . . .

If you (pronounced anyone) expect others to "respect" and "comply" with your "preferences" as laid out in your profile . . . then where do you get off having anything to say about anyone else's "preferences" ? 

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confident and nervous are also worlds apart.

as are views . . . .

Couples only 7% more than single females? Now there's a talking point . . . . .  

funny thing is, a number of the old forum regular's were expecting a forum revival after the departure of a certain lady from the East. But maybe the damage was already to extreme?

I am fully aware that I for one could contribute more, and yes, I actually want to.

I have such a big smile on my face

Wait, wait, wait a minute . . . " genital thingies " ????? Tell more pleeease. . , 

Now, I am almost tempted to "encourage" that pshycotic behavior. . . . ?

The forums have taken a huge knock in recent times. Various members have various opinions as to the reason for this. My opinion I will share via PM with you. 

It would be great to see the forum swing back into life. 

@PiB1, you are too kind ;)

Yes, nice to read something from your keyboard! 

The "R" was a typo, so when I found out I could change it, I jumped at the chance . . .   

By the way, greying pubes are . .  . . , :lickface:

Are my eyes playing tricks on me? PIB? 

You have actually answered your own "question" . . .you say that in your opinion (paste your words in here) . . . then in fairness, surely other people are allowed to have their opinion on the matter ? 

I almost concur completely with you Sir Redbruce. I myself have had numerous successful meets via this site, however, to date still not had the opportunity for a Dogging scenario.

And yes, I agree patience is the key.

Why even mention the word couple when its already showing that its a couple profile? 

A large number of the couple profile wright ups, have the opening sentence "happily married couple . . . . "!!! 

I have not been part of a married couple in the lifestyle for some years now, so I am asking if anybody has some info on these words? To me, it seems like insecurities? Like one of the partners is not actually into this idea? 

Took a walk down Nostalgia Boulevard. . . . remember the days when an opinion was simply an opinion? 

The days when being yourself was actually applauded? Instead of the current "be yourself, just differently" mind set of the world today? 

You may (or may not)have a point there, but a thought springs yo mind immediately, . . . . . what about individuality? 

The problem with "self help" books is they are generally based on one persons ideas, and more often than not, said person lives in a different continent that has completely different values. . . . . 

And no, I have not read the book ( hence the may OR may not) 

hmmmmm, 

Fits right in with the posts heading!!!

Perhaps it's time that the request for single straight males to be removed from the site is made by the couples who have an issue with it?

Or at least, a request that couple profiles cannot tick the straight male box! That should cut the "problem" in half at least? If course, that would also require the straight "single" female member get the same "treatment" because if MMF s not site appropriate, then MFF is surely not? 

Or perhaps . . . . . the majority of the people who comment, really do mean what they say??????? 

Knocking what people say by saying something negative about them /  their comment is perhaps a little . . . . well, exactly the same? 

And don't behave like an ASS!!!! :laughabove: