Challenge accepted ;)

I thought I would put a little effort in to try and "understand" things better . . . one of the interpretations that Google throws out when you search "what does open minded mean sexually" is as follows . . .
A sexually open minded person can be bisexual, but a sexually open minded person may also be heterosexual or homosexual only. A sexually open minded person means they are willing to explore and experiment within the boundaries of what they deem as comfortable for them. . . .
mmmmmmm,
I think I should check if I have this thing you call "sex addiction" . . . . . .
And if I do not, well then, I NEED to get me some . .
OK, OK, OK . . . seriously, I am in agreement with the "choose what you are" suggestion made by PIB . . . but there are those who need a little guidance when it cones to choosing . . . always the possibility of one "trying" to be a certain way.
FOR EXAMPLE:
Some would say if you are involved in a mmf then you are gay, some would say you are bi, some would say you are a pervert . . . I would say, YES !!! ![]()
A large number of the couple profile wright ups, have the opening sentence "happily married couple . . . . "!!!
I have not been part of a married couple in the lifestyle for some years now, so I am asking if anybody has some info on these words? To me, it seems like insecurities? Like one of the partners is not actually into this idea?
You may (or may not)have a point there, but a thought springs yo mind immediately, . . . . . what about individuality?
The problem with "self help" books is they are generally based on one persons ideas, and more often than not, said person lives in a different continent that has completely different values. . . . .
And no, I have not read the book ( hence the may OR may not)