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18 Mar 2014

Quote by Stamina
Ohhhhh never happened to me before....maybe you are jinxed.

Nope not jinxed, he is just stamina lol

lol

rotflmao

shear genius :rotflmao:
Its a curse... I have so much bad luck that I now break mirrors and walk under ladders just to tempt fate. He he he
it has been proven over and over again, that as soon as one realises that they have to do certain things in certain ways, that bad luck stops almost immediately . . . . . :grin:
Let me see if I follow you... When one gets electrocuted from inserting ones pinky into a plug socket, it is not bad luck that caused the electrocution?
@Stamina, NO . . . in today's age, it is usually because trades are earned in a third of the time it used to take, but I am afraid it is not "bad luck" . . . .

18 Mar 2014

Quote by wolfman
SDMR, I have an opinion on most of the topics posted on these fora, but because my views are mostly controversial I tend to keep them to myself these days to avoid the vitriol of the replies from ppl who totally misunderstand me.
Posting an opinion is not an invitation for a flurry of head blows, mine are meant as putting an alternate concept out there for discussion and intellectual debate but alas......... :giveup::giveup:
So I just pop in for some light reading now and again.
THANKS DENNIS, couldn't have said it better!!!!!

@Wolfman, yet again I extend my "challenge" to you, to put a topic in the forum . . . . . . .

17 Mar 2014

Seems like LeeEC is not biting on the stockings pic then . . . Oh well, In this strangely named Vanilla place (?) I am one who comes across as calm, grounded, not interested (aloof) and generally very well mannered and behaved . . . . . . I assure you, that is not so much the case in a private setting . . . .

17 Mar 2014

Quote by wolfman
You guys are just so full of shit, can' you ever take anything seriously?
But I guess that's what keeps me coming back to read your crap, my warped sense of humor!
Naughty by nature, kinky by choice!

Give a serious topic (site related) and we will show you just how serious we can take things.
remember, my challenge to you is site related (in other words, sex and swinging) not race, religion, politics, crime, entertainment, etc etc . . . .

17 Mar 2014

Quote by Stamina
Ohhhhh never happened to me before....maybe you are jinxed.

Nope not jinxed, he is just stamina lol

lol

rotflmao

shear genius :rotflmao:
Its a curse... I have so much bad luck that I now break mirrors and walk under ladders just to tempt fate. He he he
it has been proven over and over again, that as soon as one realises that they have to do certain things in certain ways, that bad luck stops almost immediately . . . . . :grin:

17 Mar 2014

Quote by playcouple
Ohhhhh never happened to me before....maybe you are jinxed.

Nope not jinxed, he is just stamina lol

lol

rotflmao

shear genius :rotflmao:

15 Mar 2014

ProfilePM They should put the guy's from TV licences on this . . . but now I have to say it, we talk about sex here people, and unless we have a story to share about sex including firearms . . . . . . I have a loaded 45 in my shorts! Advertising you only have a 4.5" dick might not be the best idea dude . . . banghead

banghead

:haha:

15 Mar 2014

Quote by LeeEC
A lady never reveals her secrets in public.... besides the rest of them would be jealous if I outlined all that they would be missing ..... :twisted:

Then write in in 'whisper' . . . . .

15 Mar 2014

So LeeEc, let's see a pic of you in those fishnets then . . . . please ! ! ! ! ! !

15 Mar 2014

Quote by wolfman
Did you know that when a registered gun owner passes away his firearm 'disappears', ie no follow-up is ever done by the authorities as to who now has said 'piece' in their posession, it vanishes into a 'black hole'!! So much for effective gun control!

They should put the guy's from TV licences on this . . . but now I have to say it, we talk about sex here people, and unless we have a story to share about sex including firearms . . . . . .

14 Mar 2014

Quote by Stamina
Ons ook n couple wat vandag gaan dogg in die veld oorkant eskom. Bome redilik dig daar vir lekker buite pret. Laat bdskap dan mail ons pvt oor tyd.

Oorkant Eskom??? Please don't wet the coal.. He he he...
Oh dear, now you are showing just how frigging gullible you actually are . . . . You surely did not buy the wet coal BS given by Eskom? Just think about Europe, constant rain and then snow in Winter . .. . . . funny how they don't have power outages because of wet coal . . . .

14 Mar 2014

Quote by Stamina
Hey! Put your pets away!!!
You know the rules boys!

Fine! I will put "Steve" away. He he he...
She said your pets, not your toys . . . lol

lol

Stamina, we have told you repeatedly that too much wanking makes you dyslectic . . .
4 times a day is not too much is it?
Well you tell us buddy . . . .

14 Mar 2014

Oscar who?

14 Mar 2014

Quote by Stamina
Hey! Put your pets away!!!
You know the rules boys!

Fine! I will put "Steve" away. He he he...
She said your pets, not your toys . . . lol

lol

Stamina, we have told you repeatedly that too much wanking makes you dyslectic . . .

14 Mar 2014

Quote by Mike_Pta
Fuck my Lover
For my Loins

Gladly, Send your lover over . . . . rotflmao

rotflmao

14 Mar 2014

Quote by LeeEC

Challenge accepted . . . .. but I'm useless with words, so how about a volunteer and I shall demonstrate how I roll the important fleshy bit between my tongue and upper teeth ? :twisted:
Anyway, with the possible exception of Mike_Pta, none of the other respondents have revealed anything anyway

Perhaps I'm not that interested in their technique :twisted:
Interesting.... teeth.... 200 points me thinks...
Oh my, should I blush or get the Brasso out? lol

lol

So, 200 points hey? really? that's what you award for the "thought" :hunk:. . . . . I wonder what the points would be for the real thing?
But tell me @LeeEC, what could I expect in return? kiss

kiss

13 Mar 2014

Quote by adminsteve
Ok, so now Ashlee has me wondering. What actually happens when you click the Ignore button on a message?

You won't receive any more messages from them, if they've been abusive by pm its always best to put in a support ticket as well, with a copy of the message, we will then investigate.
Thanks AdminSteve,
Another question, if we (as site members) "Ignore Button" someone, I understand that we would not receive any more messages from them, but what makes me curious is, will it be known to the person we have "Ignored Buttoned" that we have done it, or will it simply appear to them that we are not answering their messages?

13 Mar 2014

Quote by bubblegummzn
hi there... new to the scene, but am really keen to try it out... anyone know of areas in and around centurion?

Any dogging that does happen in SA, is 95% private and pre-arranged, so my advice to you would be to not get your hopes up too high.

13 Mar 2014

Quote by KC_
SDMR, you should probably avoid the shops when K and I are shopping ;)
If we have to stand and wait in a que, we use the time as best as we can!
That includes kissing, with tongue, and ass holding...
Kids see this stuff all over tv, without the love aspect attached to it. If they see us, it might give them something to think about...
;)
C

Tell you what, I am going to be in Norwood on Tuesday, maybe I should observe you guy's at the shops and see if it also gives me something to think about . . . :twisted:

13 Mar 2014

Male / Female ? Durban / Cape Town / JHB ? Straight / Gay / Bi ?

13 Mar 2014

Quote by LeeEC
Ok SDMR, how about you come back to topic and answer the question.... I'm terribly interested in your answer.... :twisted:
did that sound like a challenge to you... :twisted:

Challenge accepted . . . .. but I'm useless with words, so how about a volunteer and I shall demonstrate how I roll the important fleshy bit between my tongue and upper teeth ? :twisted:
Anyway, with the possible exception of Mike_Pta, none of the other respondents have revealed anything anyway

12 Mar 2014

Yes, I know i am going slightly of course here, but like Stamina said, enough with the serious shit already (for now anyway) I think it would be extremely beneficial to everyone's sex life if they had the opportunity to experience sex and subsequent orgasms from the other genders side (just once) . . . imagine how much more Enthusiasm we would have after that . . . Well, those males who could get over the fact that woman have it way better than we do in the orgasm department

12 Mar 2014

Taking the seriousness out a little here, (as per PIB's intention) . . I know manage a 25 . .. . . and I think that the more I think about some of them, the higher that score may just climb, So in conclusion, I must deduce that I am kinda a sick Fu@k . . . lol

lol

(but in a good way of course)

12 Mar 2014

Quote by Nimfie_Pieman
PIB if you get 26, what chance do we have?
Question 7: Is Asexual lover not a oxymoron?
As for passing though the Cervix, please keep in mind that large numbers of people in SA where born by Caesarean section

Then those people would not tick that box now would they?

11 Mar 2014

Ok, so now Ashlee has me wondering. What actually happens when you click the Ignore button on a message?

11 Mar 2014

Quote by Adonis
I am of opinion that been a couple of 40 years give you the right to act if you are in the bedroom. By that you show to people what they miss in life. That is why you see so many idiots in the street because the chip on there shoulder are so big they cant see the nice things in life.
Walking in the streets of Cape Town it a shame how people behave rather see a couple holding hands and kiss openly even is a nice snooze. Young people in street and the guy hands in the back of his women scathing her ass that is gross.
Some people are jealous seeing people in love walking in the street. Perhaps they must take a mind change and they also would find love.

Everyone is entitled to his or her opinion. For me it is just a simple case of, us as adults cannot complain about the younger people doing things if we ourselves are doing them.
How many times have you seen a young couple (16 - 25) in a mall who are standing against a wall and kissing like there is no tomorrow? hands running up and down each others backs and bums? Is your first thought when you see this type of thing, that they are in love? or is your first thought something else? . . . . Now replace those youngsters with a 50 or 60 year old couple . . . what is that thought now?

11 Mar 2014

Quote by Pussinboots1
You guys must remember the question
1. Which of the following elements have you incorporated into your lovemaking?
Earth
Air
Fire
Water
You could actually tick off all of them..
IF...
You had sex in water.....any water like a pool or shower
You had sex outside the house..on a blanket on the grass or what ever...(earth)
You had sex while candles where burning, or in front of a fireplace...next to a bonfire......
Air...well that is an easy one....we all do breath...and we do all have open windows......and we all sometimes use a fan.....or feathers ????
See guys your score can already become MORE!!!!!!
There is NO trick questions here.
Icould change some,if so desired.....but you guys must remember this is taken from the internet for us to enjoy(just like all the previous ones).Hence my own score.

Ok, so if I change my answers to comply with your above explanation, all it does is add one more to my score . . . . :sad:

11 Mar 2014

Quote by joyrider
:banghead: SDMR,
How can you have a problem with a cpl that is not scare to show other people they still love one another. I mean do you know how nice it is to see an old cpl still holding hands and kissing after 40 years of been together. I mean not many people these days can brag about been so in love after so many years.
Joyrider
Showing other people you still love and care for your partner is not a crime

As I said, I have no issue with people holding hands and even sharing the occasional little kiss. It is when it is more than that, that I do not think it is appropriate. Couples can easily show they are still in love after 40 years without behaving like they are in the bedroom when they are in public.

11 Mar 2014

So, considering what some of my answers were, I am surprised to say that my total score was only 8 . . . .

11 Mar 2014

Quote by Pussinboots1
As Lee said,Rules are a must between couples even the single people in the lifestyle should also have their own set rules we all should adhere is ONLY when the RULES are broken...otherwise kiss away.
I would never KISS ANYONE OUTSIDE in the public when the hubby or wife is NOT is JUST not done. In a party or club prior to play is a different story.
I am not talking a little hello Kiss-Kiss....but I AM talking passionate kiss tongues and lip locks that is totally off the map, that is CHEATING in my eyes.
Kissing is way to intimate for some people, most feel it is only something that only partners should share.
Sex in any form is allowed from Normal to anal to cunnilingus to Blow jobs.... BUT dare to kiss and you are in hot water.
How that is suppose to works is above my intellect really??
What is more intimate than having someone going *down* on you??
But rules are rules.
I for myself Love kissing! I kiss women and men if so inclined...how can one not kiss the person you are going to play with is my question or to kiss them after playing When you do a little hugging or cuddling and catching your breath ?? Or do most people just jump up go and clean up and go on to the next Person??And here I am not talking about becoming emotionally involved at all....it is just normal for me, to relax back and show a little appreciation for enjoying each other.
I For the love of me,can NOT see why men cannot kiss each other,if we women can kiss,why not men??
I think it is more of a homophobic reaction people have,when watching men kiss.
Now I will most likely be shot with out the benefit of a plea bargain......
Mostly I think women tend to be really sorta prissy and pretentious if they do not allow their men folk to enjoy what they obviously enjoy. But then women are generally more prone to the *green monster* than men really.
I know some women have this rule if they feel a lady is sexier than themselves,the lady will play BUT hubby is not allowed to touch, and the woman is NOT to touch or smile with the hubby,then she is a flirt and a house wrecker.
Ever wondered why I never said yes to playing with couples?????
My 5c`s.
@ SDMR
You dislike any to all display of affection in Public???

@PIB, I do have a bit of an issue with it yes.
Don't get me wrong, holding hands with your partner while walking and even the occasional little kiss (Peck) is no issue, but people who have their hands all over each other, and are locking lips with darting tongues in public in front of people (KIDS) and they walk with their hands on their partners asses . . . . . I have a bit of issue with.