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Quote by Nimfie_Pieman
I would like to have a dinner with the 1980's Madiba, I would like to know what he was like before things started going his way. :
So you mean when he was killing thousands of innocent woman and children with his ANC bombs ans riots? ok then.
Mike_pta like you said, books don't tell the full story . . . .
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Quote by Pussinboots1
Les get back on track....
SSOoooo who has or will try paying for sex???What was your experiences
Ever look at porn and when last ,ever Buy porn...why???What is your choice (kinda) when you do buy? or check out pron on the pc?
Only ONE brave soul who answered ....and me of course......sooo who is Next???
YES, once or twice when I wanted something specific.
Porn? do not buy but have quite a bit. Choice is more to the extreme side . . . . .
Hey PIB, this make me the second one to answer ! ! ! !! ! ! do I get a (sur) Prize?
((Even though the thread has had failed thread jacking attempts by others)) . . .
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Quote by Stamina
I will definitely consider all you said very carefully. I do want it to be an amazing experience for her first time...
As for the face pics, I am happy to show you us... I have nothing to hide. Glad you like her... But what about me? Ugly? Ok? Not bad? Cute? Hot? OMG?.. He he he...
Was that an "Ag Shame" I heard there?
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Quote by Pussinboots1
LMAO Thanks SDMR ,the straw sucking the joy out of the day is a nicer one!!!
NOW depends on what you want for a prize...you have already seen me old face...you have seen me old boobs,well more frequently really...as for a bum pic that you have also seen now you most likely would wanna see *more* HUH HUH...now remember I HAVE seen all off you, EXCEPT a genital pic....how crazy is that?? You do have sexy to swoon over LIPS !!!! I can just think about kissing the daylights outa you while Masturbating .... with lips like those who would not masturbate .....Lordy lord now I have gone and done it huh huh??:roll:
Indeedy . . . . :twisted: haha, but tell me PIB, was that a subtle request for a genital pic?
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Quote by Pussinboots1
Ermm Anyone can GOOGLE ME??????? oh lordy lord..........Really???? Now I am paranoid all over again!!!!
Yip, anyone can google anyone.
problem with that though, is that unless you specifically know the person you are googling you could have a number of inaccurate "findings'
A lot of what is available on the web is not put there by the actual person or even someone who knows him / her
There are almost always guaranteed to be more than one person with the same name on the web . . . .
The list goes on and on . . . and yes, some of it is even positive.
PIB, unless you allow secrets and pics / vidoes to be available to "strangers" you should be pretty much unaffected . . . and people who can hack into other peoples PC's, would not bother with people like us, they would be going after big and important and powerful and rich , . . . . . and they would not spend the energy to create "false" info on the web . . . .
This is of course just my own two cents worth of an opinion.
prove it :rotflmao: Sex God
Quote by Pussinboots1
I am going of topic on my own forum hope it is okay with who ever feels topics should remain of the above.....But just for this once!!!!!
Sheesh SDMR I know lady VampEC1 said she likes your new avatar,and obviously You do too!!!!
Please do forgive me for being honest here...it might sound I am shooting you down I am not it is purely to save my own sanity!!!!
But it creeps me out....Sorry to have to say this... but it does
Every time I see that eye and teeth *init.*..I think of surgery and NO eyeballs!!! and eyelids that is turned upwards...it is really creepy!!
Come on HUN change it for me PLEASE!!!!! Pretty Please!!!....
Name your prize if you want to blackmail me.......(within reason that is)
I await my "prize" with the greatest of anticipation . .. . .
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Quote by Pussinboots1
As for that business part you and SDMR have, remember I want copy right if you want to start a male escort service!!! I will settle for being their *Madame* though.
A three way . . . . . . . . . business partnership . . . . hah, and people want to say the success rate on this site is poor :twisted:
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Quote by Pussinboots1
I again find changing your strokes and rhythm prolongs and teases the heck out of someone...
So, I am all for that!!!!!
As for masturbation does OLD ladies like me still masturbate, SURE I do...and I am not ashamed in saying so!!!
Tell us more. .. . .please :twisted:
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Quote by Funwithcouples
Have a I paid for sex. Yes I have. Now before anyone jumps to conclusions let me explain. When Meet a girl I find interesting, the is dinners, gifts etc. That all costs. There is one girl I was seeing recently. I spent R65k in 4 months with her before I had enough. Total number of sexual occasions with her, 9. Do the math.
But back to PIB and her original question.
I was approached by a woman that has an escort agency in jhb. She wanted me to to be a companion for the night for women who needed a date. For a function, a work event or what ever the occasion may be. These dates do entail sex.
So to answer PIB. Yes, a woman can find a man for hire, that is not for hire by gay guys. You just need to know who to ask and where.
I did consider doing this, but........ Did not go ahead with it. I could just see the shock on a woman's face who would have booked me, and on my face, if I knew her.
Yip, in some way or other, we the males of the species pay for it . . . . maybe not always with money, but we always pay . .
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Quote by Stamina
So Stamina, has the penis healed?
And when is this massage going to happen, we'd all love to hear the details....
All healed yes.
I want to plan it for Thursday as they have specials then. Will tell you all about it - promise...No self respecting male uses the word Promise unless . . . oh :lol: wait, you are controlled by a female . . :lol: explains it
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Quote by Stamina
This old thread was really dug out of the archives... He he he.
Yip, some relatively new guy to the forums brought it back to life and promptly got hammered from all over the EC . . . . . but people still say the biggest reason more people do not contribute is because of you and I . . . . .
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Quote by Nimfie_Pieman
SDRM you do need to read more carefully.
He was not accused of BS, he was asked if he was.
His reference to the hole site, implies that all serious swingers hang out in Swinging Clubs, which we clearly proved is not possible.
Please feel free to make a further response, but let's not go off the topic too much.
The topic is about swingers being weird, that was the theme I stuck to about PE.
Then again we're all weird. :eeek:
Forget about what you interpret, and take into consideration what the poster actually meant.
Anyway, from the response of the EC people, it would appear there is the option of clubs, You and some others just don't seem to qualify for an invite. . . . . but, ADMIN Pieman and MOD Pieman has spoken, so I will stop talking about things that are not related to swingers being weird.
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Quote by VampEC1
The statement was made this whole site is a joke, that includes PE, Gauteng etc.
It was also said if you want to swing seriously you should join a club for that.
So if you suggest that you should have investigated if there are clubs like that accessable to all on this site in all provinces.
Otherwise not be as outspoken to say the site is a joke!
By the way SDMR, luv your new avatar!
Read the post again, no suggestions were made at all.
He said that if people wanted to swing they WOULD join a club. NOT that they SHOULD.
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Quote by Nimfie_Pieman
SDRM he generalised: " This whole site is a joke."
I would say he gave his opinion about people in the lifestyle rather choosing to go to clubs . . . . . . for which he was shot down, and "accused" of being a bullshitter
His opinion about the site being a joke garnered the reaction of "we disagree" . . . . . . .
Funny how there is not a bunch of people complaining about this reaction towards this member . . . . I wonder why that is . . .
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Quote by scorpio69
Just for curiosity sake: What do you do to a lady sitting at a robot breast feeding her baby with her 2 kilo boob totally exposed, and your kids seeing it? Do u climb out your car and tell her: " NOW WE CROSSED PATHS"!
We seem to have a different interpretation of your initial wording of crossing paths. I understood it to mean, "bumping into each other randomly"
As for a woman breast feeding at a robot, there is nothing I can do or say about it, except explain to my kids (who DO NOT have blackberry's) that it is not actually a good thing to do, because if the vehicle had to brake very suddenly, the baby would in all likely-hood get very seriously injured or killed, that, and why would any self respecting woman want to show of body parts in public that are usually kept covered with clothing.
But needless to say, in the right public environment, I would love to cross paths with you and your wife and watch as you grabbed her pussy, but like I said, in the right environment.
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Quote by scorpio69
Well then you must hope you never cross paths with us in a shopping mall !!!!!!!!!! If i decide 2 rub a titt, then a titt i'm going to rub. And if i decide to grab my wifes pussy........then thats exactly what i'm going to do! THAT'S EXHIBITIONISM!!!!! Whoever doesnt like it, must look away. :mrgreen:
All righty then . . . . a slightly different spin on the meaning of exhibitionism, but hey, each to their own.
But if I am out with my kids, I hope, as you say "we never cross paths" . . . . .
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Quote by LeeEC
Sounds like fun Flagg, but that wouldn't be accurate in terms of what "Watersports" means. .. so if you tick that box people are going to assume you want to be peed on. Or want to pee on others. I wouldn't tick that box
The meaning is really specific, it appears:
It's a fascination with urine. It doesn't refer to any other kind of bodily fluid.
Fascination with female ejaculate appears to be considered a perfectly normal sexual behaviour, very 'run-of-the-mill'... but water sports is apparently considered "paraphilia"... association of non-sexual acts or objects with sexual response...
I thought that was interesting. .. May be someone else will too..
I do not (I think) have any issue with the concept of said "watersports" I do however have zero interest in partaking in said event.
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Quote by LeeEC
Oh yes. NP - you just touched on something that really made us raise eyebrows. .. Do not ever suggest play with kids asleep in the same room . .. thats just friggin bizarre! Yes that really happened to us!
I have heard my own fair share of "surprising suggestions" but must say, this one is luckily still not on that list. Bizzare indeed, but then again, people all have different views and ideas.
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Quote by LeeEC
I've been invited to a cpl before, where the hubby tried to convinced me that his wife prefer being so drunk that she would like me to do her, in front of her husband, while she is passed out
That sounds like one freaky wierd fantasy. ...
She Is turned on by not remembering a Damn thing? Can someone say "coerced "? You dodged a bullet their friend.
Oh, and welcome to the forums!
Really frightening thought indeed . . .
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Quote by Ryan71
Hmmmm.... you may have exhibited your debating ability and possibly made your point... but also proved everyone else correct as to why they don't participate in the discussion.
Well despite my fellow nappy wearer exhibiting certain traits, I take comfort in the fact that it was neither him nor I who thread-jacked it first.
Now back to original intention,
Thank you VampEC1 for your suggestion, I have created a thread.
Does anyone else have suggestions?
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So following VampEC1 suggestion.
The Do's and Dont's of Swinging:
Usually one of the early posts would say, look back in the forum and read what was said before. Now while that is good advice, I propose we start afresh seeing as we have new / additional contributors and even those that have commented before on the subject may get a new or different idea.
1)
make your own rules first
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So since posting this thread, there has been 92 views and 10 replies:
Just to bring to your attention:
Of the 10 replies, not a single one was responding to the original thread ie: what would you like to see discussed in the forums.
Instead the thread was thread-jacked and the only responses, were about what people do not want, and what their feelings were about certain contributors.
And seeing as I posted the thread, and Stamina refrained from posting, we cannot be blamed for the thread-jack.
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Quote by MIKE_
You asked the question so here's the answer, time for a bit of honesty.
I check the forums every time I log on to the site, irrespective of how many times I've logged on that day. so why don't i comment.
Well, quite simply i don't feel like getting involved in a forum where the so called regulars, are aggressive towards those who don't agree with them, hijack posts that they feel don't belong on the site and feel the need to not only comment on every single thread but on every single comment made, where debate is replaced by instruction.
If a thread is of no interest to you, why not leave it to those who may be interested or let it die its natural death.
There is no debating, there is only the opinion of the regulars and the attempted humiliation and/or personal attacks on the rest.
The problem is not topic related, I believe more people could be encouraged to start and comment on threads, if only the environment was a little less hostile.
Why would people want to get involved in this?
Well there it is, I'm fully aware that I'm going to get lambasted, but I don't really care. After months of hearing people complain about the same thing, someone has to call it as it is.
Right,
So I think somewhere along the line, I have been referred to as a so called "regular".
While I do not completely agree with the way you see things Mike (obviously I would not, as I am on the receiving and dishing out ends) I would like to propose the following to the other so called "regulars"
This is not the first time it has been suggested that this forum 'belongs' to a select few (one of my motivators for this thread)
It has even been suggested before (in round about ways) that we should give others a chance.
So let's do just that, how about we cut back on the amount of "contribution" we make to the threads and "let others" make all the contributions for a while.
Stamina, what say you and I only "speak kak" in a specific thread, say the old BS Forum, and completely refrain from any humorous, or off topic comments in other threads? ie: no thread-jacking
I am as involved in these threads on this site because I thoroughly enjoy it, and actually learn things from time to time, even if it is just about peoples inner workings.
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Quote by Nimfie_Pieman
As Adonis says, let's play the ball and not the man.
I think I've pretty much worked the chip off my shoulder too, so let's see if we can get something constructive going.
SDRM,
The "saving" statement was yours but I did not single you out because Stamina was normally your partner in crime when taking threads off on a tangent. But guys let's try and get some balance here.
Please don't spoil a thread just because you don't like it.
As for your hypothetical scenario, that kind of thing scares the crap out of me.
If you are linked in any way to any crime or scandal your activities here would raise big questions.
That is why I'm not too keen on being an open swinger. But yes, they will scratch it out anyway.
If you wish to know about my bad experiences with guns you are welcome to PM me.
I hope I never spoiled a thread because I didn't like it, if I ever did, it was not my intention. I would like to think I was more trying to get it back to original topic or liven it up somehow or . . . . well, now you have me thinking as to what was actually behind it sometimes.
BUT, just for clarity, while it may be Stamina and myself who take the topics off on a tangent most of the time lately, it is not only the two of us who do this.
For my part, like I said above, I do it for my own specific reasons, which equates to me not getting involved with a certain line of posts that I clearly see no current, topic related value in. So, my thoughts would be, if other members had the same / similar thoughts to what I was posting, they could maybe just do the same and pretty much overlook what I have added, and carry on with what they do agree with. But, just like if I "attack" what they say, I will react when I am "attacked" for what I say.
I have my views on subject matters that should not be combined. Sex, politics, religion, racism.
Politics because I am part of the statistics of this country that are not allowed to be reported,
Religion because I disagree with the tolerance certain beliefs are given over others (this is a personal thing)
Racism because I have worked in large corporate companies and have watched established people being "destroyed" for the benefit of others.
I cannot understand why the world wants these topics intertwined with everything in life (as in associating them with sex, and making sure the rest of the world knows about it)
These are my views, they are based on things that have happened to me directly, and not on what history says. I do not expect everyone to accept how I see things, but in fairness, people should stop expecting me to see things the way they do.
