We've had this in the past. At least when there are 2 of us, if the other person/people don't show up, you have someone with you to finish your coffee with before leaving.
We've had this with singles and couples.
It's incredibly rude to not show up. At least let us know you won't make it, instead of saying that you're running late and then no show!
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Well, Hello Voyer1105...nice to read you guys are still here on SH.....
@ everyone else......JUST one question to this fetish of creampie eating.....WTF happened to safe sex??? and Condoms???
PiB1, this is a big question for me too.
But I have a small allergic reaction to semen inside of me. It feels like sandpaper if there is anymore movement afterwards.
So creampies just sound like a waste to me. Rather edge until you have to come elsewhere (inside a condom is a great place), and move aside for the next person so my pleasure isnt too interrupted....
We exist and are definitely out here.
For the most part we have done the threesome thing, but recently I've found myself a couple of regular fuck buddies. Sometimes it's a threesome, but if our schedules line up nicely, K gets videos of me having a wonderful time.
Our sex life really does flourish even more after I've had fun with other guys. He loves seeing me enjoy myself, and I love the variety.
That being said, I'm not a fan of the term "Shared wife". I'm not a piece of property that is owned or shared by anyone.
I'm a married women who enjoys a variety of sexual partners, and is open about this. The sex I have with other people is intricately spoken about, disected and enjoyed within my marriage.
although Im very attracted other women, I haven't played with one in years.
I'm terrified of not being able please her. From all the readings I've done, it seems like I'll be safe doing things I personally don't enjoy.... like direct clit stimulation!
K and I discuss it often, and most people are not as directive as I am during sex. If hate for her to not being enjoying my efforts without giving me some sort of direction on how to please her better...
I just read through all the new posts, which was LOVELY! Thank you for them!
But I still had nothing to add... Maybe it's cos I'm tired,and I was probably already running out of things to say in the forum before it died the last time....
I'm only commenting here now to let you know your efforts have been greatly appreciated.
I'll keep popping a comment in when I have something the say about the topic/ add to the conversation 
Hmmm. ...
I've often spent the most part of a Sunday lying on my tummy with my rabbit vibrator giving me exquisite sensations. Switching it onto a low vibration sensation between orgasms while I catch my breath before starting again.
But.... after this kind of prolonged stimulation, not only is my hand stiff (from holding the toy in That perfect position) but my clit becomes quite sensitive, so only gentle clit stimulating sex can happen afterwards....
I've also bruised my clit and labia from those sessions.....
But it was so worth it!
Ah Softiskitty, I'm so sorry you had a horrible experience!
I know the feeling of disappointment from unmet expectations and being stood up.
In all this time, we have only ever met with one couple! All the others have stood us up, leaving us to have coffee just the 2 of us at the restaurant...
Who knows if they saw us and decided that we are not worth the decent "thanks but no thanks" or if they just didn't show up.
We seldom have meet and greet first with single guys. They either arrive at the agreed upon venue, or they leave us high and dry. The single ladies we have chatted too... well, the meet just never seems to materialise..
Yeah, there is definitely more movement available to us when we are on top.
That said, I have bucked up while in missionary. If you manage to get a foot hold, it can be great fun, but QUITE the workout! lol.
Haha, yes, and I am quite verbal about what kinds of stimulation I find pleasurable. What's the point if we are both (or however many) not enjoying the movements?
Hmmm, I too have a big smile on my face...
Mostly mugs on the bedside tables have fallen to their deaths from a misplaced foot swing...
As for the wild riding... well now...
I for one LOVE a good ride. Both as the rider and the ridee.
Some of our playmates in the past seemed a bit lost with the lie there with an erection, and a slightly tilted pelvis, while I ride myself into pleasure
But stamina is something I have been building up over the years, so I often require someone to ride me while I catch my breath ;)
I have thought about it often actually.
I've often thought about different types of sex work...
We haven't paid for sex... but I have definitely paid for the pleasure of watching magic mike dancers. Those guys have bodies that lead to many fantasies! And their dance skills definitely get the juices flowing!
Yet another disappointing morning.
We had plans for a play date this morning. We made the plan last weekend already, and confirmed yesterday.
And now? 40 minutes after he was supposed to arrive. Crickets.
Nothing.
No response to our message to check if he was on his way (when he was only a few minutes late).
We don't have much free time, so we schedule and plan our meets very carefully.
We moved plans for today to have a threesome. All that planning and time wasted.
Out of the 6 meets we have planned this year, only one has happened. What is wrong with people?
Either show up, communicate why you'll be late or DON'T MAKE PLANS IN THE FIRST PLACE!
Hmm, I'm not sure.
Part of me thinks that we discussed most things to death, and then the forum died...
I check here regularly, in case there is a topic I am interested in, or where I have something to contribute. Most of the time, I have nothing to add to what has been said, so I just read and move on...
@RedBruce yes hahaha!
Considering how seldom we actually have time for meets, it is really appreciated when people actually show up!
And this far, single guys definitely are much better at showing up for meets than any other category 
We have a sad joke among our friends: When we meet a new person/couple, we like to choose the venue. At least then we can have coffee in each others' company when the other people decide not to show up...
Our experience with couples has been mostly frustrating.
We've only successfully met up with one couple. All the others have gone silent when we ask to meet, or don't show up. One had a really good reason for not showing up, but we haven't heard from them since....so....
We haven't had luck with single ladies. They seem to disappear when we try to arrange a meet,or they stand us up too...
Single guys, we'd say that 1/4 don't show. The rest at least show up for the meet!
There are many different ways to engage with swinging. Often single people are easier to meet and click with than couples are.
Depends on the kinds of sex you are looking for.
Since we are a couple who has mainly had threesomes, are we not swingers because of the lack of another couple present?
