Identify swingers in public

In Pretoria - Bossa atterbury, The Goat&Co at The Village, Stoetbul Olympus 😘

Seen a sign which is a red circle with a black tumbler-like outline (meant to resemble a swing) inside the circle. Upside down pineapple is the other one.

Black rings is it still a thing for Swingers ?

What are other ways or trends for swingers to recognize one another ?

I will listen on the radio 👂🏾

Yeah the serviette idea is cleaver and has potential. I have met couples through my sports club and other vanilla environments where after chatting and laughing, we say good by, and she, while walking away, turns back to me and blows me a kiss with her hand. If that is not a good sign of a potentially swinging couple......besides a boost to ones ego!😇

Wow. All very interesting. Had no idea this was happening. Will have to open my eyes a bit more😜

So here is the thing. If you did see something in public that made you think a couple were swingers, would you actually feel it was okay to ask them directly?

I have a sticker of an upside down pineapple on my phone, easy to publicise in a public place, just leave the phone face down on the table :-) No approaches so far yet, but then agan, just recently started to do this form of recognition.

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I have a sticker of an upside down pineapple on my phone, easy to publicise in a public place, just leave the phone face down on the table :-) No approaches so far yet, but then agan, just recently started to do this form of recognition.

You have to check your phone is facing the right way, for you it might be upside down and for others the right way up, modern day swinging challenges.

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I have a sticker of an upside down pineapple on my phone, easy to publicise in a public place, just leave the phone face down on the table :-) No approaches so far yet, but then agan, just recently started to do this form of recognition.

That's a great idea!

So over December me and hubby did ABIT of an experiment with the black rings we purchased the black rings for both of us on our trip to Sun city we had it on the entire weekend and surprisingly it worked especially in the casino we had 1 single guy approach us and surprisingly we had 2 couples ask if we were in the lifestyle

So I guess the black rings do still work I think next going to try the pineapple

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So over December me and hubby did ABIT of an experiment with the black rings we purchased the black rings for both of us on our trip to Sun city we had it on the entire weekend and surprisingly it worked especially in the casino we had 1 single guy approach us and surprisingly we had 2 couples ask if we were in the lifestyle

So I guess the black rings do still work I think next going to try the pineapple

Does help that you're such a sexy couple.

I always thought it was an anklet.... I bought all kinds of different designs only to never be approached 🤣🙊

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I always thought it was an anklet.... I bought all kinds of different designs only to never be approached 🤣🙊

Anklet is a valid way of signalling your status as a swinger/vixen/hotwife. Not being approached would have much more to do with those who recognise the signal being overly cautious. One can't be sure that an anklet wearing hottie, such as yourself, isn't a vanilla mommy that just thought it was pretty...

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Anklet is a valid way of signalling your status as a swinger/vixen/hotwife. Not being approached would have much more to do with those who recognise the signal being overly cautious. One can't be sure that an anklet wearing hottie, such as yourself, isn't a vanilla mommy that just thought it was pretty...

Is this like men wearing an earring in the 90s? If i wear it on the right/left will it make a difference in who I attract ? 😅

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Is this like men wearing an earring in the 90s? If i wear it on the right/left will it make a difference in who I attract ? 😅

Something like that...

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Does help that you're such a sexy couple.

Thank you and so are you guys

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I always thought it was an anklet.... I bought all kinds of different designs only to never be approached 🤣🙊

So a costal friend of ours said most surfer ladies wear anklet so it's not always a clear sign of a hot wife I guess

It's new thing to me 💯

Thanks I've learned something new 👌🏾

Hi all I got a lot of attention wearing a necklace with a upside down pineapple hanging onto it. A lot of man asked me about it. Bee

Problem as a woman we cant ask but men can, so when we in the mood we dress hoping some man will chat to us, thats why the necklace with a small charm of a upside down pineapple works so well. One is always amazed how many men notice it upside immediately . Woman try it it workes I promise you. Bee

Can we see it please?

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So the Mrs and I have been discussing something like this (especially to be used in a public setting to possibly dip the toes in without needing to go to a swinger's club - call it a possible gateway drug ;) So we've come up with these possible options, but think it would be nice if we could all settle on 2 (just easier to remember):

1) Drinking wine with a straw

2) Placing a cherry/olive on your napkin

3) Ordering two of the same drink and placing one in front of you

4) Wearing a necklace backwards, with the pendant hanging down your back

5) Two straws in one drink, even if you're alone

6) Draping your napkin over the back of your chair instead of your lap

7) Playing with your stir stick, like putting it in your hair or behind your ear

I personally like 2, 5 and 6. What do you all think?

Re #2.... a slice of pineapple on your napkin...

Quote by 24SensuallyFunCpl

So the Mrs and I have been discussing something like this (especially to be used in a public setting to possibly dip the toes in without needing to go to a swinger's club - call it a possible gateway drug ;) So we've come up with these possible options, but think it would be nice if we could all settle on 2 (just easier to remember):

1) Drinking wine with a straw

2) Placing a cherry/olive on your napkin

3) Ordering two of the same drink and placing one in front of you

4) Wearing a necklace backwards, with the pendant hanging down your back

5) Two straws in one drink, even if you're alone

6) Draping your napkin over the back of your chair instead of your lap

7) Playing with your stir stick, like putting it in your hair or behind your ear

I personally like 2, 5 and 6. What do you all think?

Not a necklace person but 4 sounds cute

I'm toying with the idea of a tattoo reading ' Swing with it' 😉

Hi we will also like to know how to notice other swingers in public that will be great

we have a shirt each with a upside down pineapple on. though we dont think nelspruiters understand or know the symbolism of it

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we have a shirt each with a upside down pineapple on. though we dont think nelspruiters understand or know the symbolism of it

Will keep an eye open when I visit Nelspruit next time

’n Swart ring met ’n pynappel op is onmiskenbaar 'n teken van 'n swienger. Maar selfs sonder die pynappel is die kanse goed dat die persoon 'n swienger is. Dis ook betreklik maklik om uit te vind. As jy ’n vrou is, nader die persoon met: "Dis 'n pragtige ring wat jy aanhet. Kan ek dit van naderby sien?” As die persoon die hand uitsteek, vat dit dit liggies aan die vingerpunte vas en kyk intens na die ring. Merk dan op: “Hmmm, dis soos die ring wat ons wil koop.” Jy sal dan ’n vraag kry soos: “Hoekom?” Sê dan met ’n breë glimlag: “Jy weet mos!” Dit sal gou ’n tussenswiengersgesprek aan die gang kry. Indien nie, sê maar net dankie en koebaai.