Getting over lost love

I'm sure this topic may have been done before, yet somehow I must have missed it.

How do you move on when your heart says no. I'm sure there's lots of people here who have fallen in love with another , for some reason or at most times a dumb reason there's a breakup over a stupid fight, either been over protective, fight or flight , hurt, misunderstanding and so many more.

Yet...trying to move on is both difficult for both, knowingly that somehow there is a soul connection or bond attracting them to each other. I've noticed in many of these forums so many ridicule the other or leave nasty snotty remarks, lets try our utmost best here to leave it at home.

Insights , views, opinions are all welcome.

Have you ever lost someone and know that that person still holds strong feelings and thoughts about you

Sometimes things are not meant to be. Moving on is often the best option. Toxic relationships are bad all around and if it didn’t work out it didn’t work out for a reason. Plus in this lifestyle the chances of finding real love are slim at best. Consider yourself lucky to have share it for a time and let sleeping dogs lie. Sometimes friendship is the best one can hope for. ❤️‍🩹

This is a nice topic. I personally believe that men fall in love much quicker and deeper than woman. I have seen a lot of men battling to get over a relationship and woman can just move on. I think because men are the hunter and woman are the hunted they get a lot more opportunities. Have met men crying after years of marriage and the wife moved on in a few days. not sure but that is the way I see things. I was married for 17 years and the wife asked for a break, within 3 days she had another man, took me about a year to even get an erection with another woman.

As the phrase goes .... "If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it is yours. If it doesn't, it never was"

its just sad seeing that some give up rather than trying, sometimes things can workout, if the other just gave the option, but yes we sometimes rather give up, cause its so much easier than fighting for that which could be so special. its easy ..... you just had to believe.