Well i certainly have had plenty of attention and action both as a single guy and with my lady friend.
Its all about the approach. And guys, dont approach couples who clearly state on their profile that they are not interested in single guys
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ykad
3 hours ago
Straight Indian Male, 40
Bisexual Indian Female, 41
0 km · Durban
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Warming the Bed
@ SOFTBUNZ.....
Thanks for that insightful response and your honesty. I somewhat agree with you in reference to women requiring or wanting a little more than a nsa "fun buddy" but that where my problem is.
Now to put you in the pic, i am divorced and it was a difficult marriage to deal with and a far more difficult divorce to contend with , however with that being in the past, i like to keep it there, although with that being said, i told myself that i would not be getting into any sort of serious relationship in the foreseeable future so as to not get dragged into a similar situation, hence me registering on this site to meet (supposedly) "like minded females" . Now dont get me wrong, i will not be and i am not the "one hit wonder" type who runs as soon as he is done. I do not mind and tend to enjoy spending time with a sexy, sophisticated , intelligent woman and striking up a friendship although that is as far as i can go for now....but who knows what the future may hold.
@ PiB.....
Point noted and i will act upon that, i will have a pic or two added and work on my profile a little more....real soon.
Thanks for your advice.....
@ SDMR....
I hope you are correct but all indications seems to prove that Softbunz is correct in his assumptions......
Warming the Bed
Thanx PiB for your honest yet insightful response.....
To respond.....i would like to know, what good would locked pics be to anyone, as i suggested earlier, it would be my pleasure to email pics to any ladies that may request it. Further to that, the only pics that i can put up would be those that would not include my face, so would that be of any interest to ladies? I know that men are visually stimulated so nudes pics of ladies would definitely catch the eye of us gentlemen, however, females being the wonderful creatures they are, are much more difficult to attract.
That brings me to the point you suggested about my profile, to which i strongly agree. It does need some work, although, i do not know what more to include other than what i suggested in the previous paragraph. Maybe i could say a little bit more about myself i guess, hopefully that would attract a little more attention.
I was under the impression that , in joining sites like these, whereby we all know why we are here primarily ( and that is to indulge in our carnal desires) , that one should merely outline what they want and expect from potential "friends" and keep things simple. However i do see a trend , in that people ( especially females ) would require far more interaction prior to physically engaging a person. Now one might think that be normal and reasonable behavior, and i would agree to an extent. On the flip side though, and as i mentioned before, most of the people on here are only here for one thing and would not want a deeper sort of relationship other than fulfilling that basic need and desire....however again, i could and probably am wrong.
Lastly and sorry to bore you with this, referring back to your point of people being wary of meeting strangers, how would a guy like myself, whom you do not know from a bar of soap, convince you to meet me for coffee...and by that i mean the freshly brewed type....not "coffee"?
The reason i ask is because i like to interact with people face to face and find that engaging a person online does not trully reflect the person you are ( no matter what you tell yourself).....
I await your response with great anticipation.....
Warming the Bed
I have chatted to so many ladies on this site and have not met one yet.....
Now i came to a few conclusions:
1. Either i am not interesting enough.....which would be rather sad.
2. The ladies are afraid to meet a guy for nsa fun......then why sign up on a site like this.
3. Most of the ladies are fake.....some weird guy posing as a woman.
Now before you go and check my profile to figure out who i am, and try and possibly help me find someone to have a little fun with, i must bring to your attention that i do not have pics uploaded to my profile. The reason being, that i am a very private person and would like to keep my sexual indiscretions discreet and out of the public eye. So you would now ask, how would it be possible to attract the opposite sex with no indication as to how attractive you are.
Well to answer that, i have, as i said before chatted to numerous females on this website and some of them had been attracted to my personality and had requested pics from me , to which i gladly obliged and had very positive feedback.
Yet when it was time to meet for "coffee" as they would put it.....a sudden case of cold feet struck them...boohoo.
So all i am asking is these two questions:
1. Has any of you fine gentleman had the pleasure of meeting any of these stunning ladies from this site on a 1 on 1 basis ( not couples) ?
2. ...and most importantly, are there any sweet, beautiful, kinky , sexy females ( which you all are btw) interested in meeting me for "coffee" or just coffee? Either one i do not mind really.
Thanks for reading my rant and i hope i get some sort of response....
YK
