I have chatted to so many ladies on this site and have not met one yet.....
Now i came to a few conclusions:
1. Either i am not interesting enough.....which would be rather sad.
2. The ladies are afraid to meet a guy for nsa fun......then why sign up on a site like this.
3. Most of the ladies are fake.....some weird guy posing as a woman.
Now before you go and check my profile to figure out who i am, and try and possibly help me find someone to have a little fun with, i must bring to your attention that i do not have pics uploaded to my profile. The reason being, that i am a very private person and would like to keep my sexual indiscretions discreet and out of the public eye. So you would now ask, how would it be possible to attract the opposite sex with no indication as to how attractive you are.
Well to answer that, i have, as i said before chatted to numerous females on this website and some of them had been attracted to my personality and had requested pics from me , to which i gladly obliged and had very positive feedback.
Yet when it was time to meet for "coffee" as they would put it.....a sudden case of cold feet struck them...boohoo.
So all i am asking is these two questions:
1. Has any of you fine gentleman had the pleasure of meeting any of these stunning ladies from this site on a 1 on 1 basis ( not couples) ?
2. ...and most importantly, are there any sweet, beautiful, kinky , sexy females ( which you all are btw) interested in meeting me for "coffee" or just coffee? Either one i do not mind really.
Thanks for reading my rant and i hope i get some sort of response....
YK
Hello ykad,
I can assure you there are plenty REAL ladies here on site.
I of course rushed off to go and browse your profile,who would not ?After reading the forum you have posted.
How sad it was to only find a basic to non existing profile.
I for one would suggest you do a little work on yours, give it a little about yourself there, like you did with this forum.
And you can always keep a locked album for the ladies.
Answering your questions.
So I would think you are Number 1 (after browsing your profile) which is SAD.
And yeah I would also say us ladies are the first half of number all need to be careful, even the males really. We never know what we are walking into.
And lastly but not least (Number 1) is MOST certainly YES to the last question.
Thanx PiB for your honest yet insightful response.....
To respond.....i would like to know, what good would locked pics be to anyone, as i suggested earlier, it would be my pleasure to email pics to any ladies that may request it. Further to that, the only pics that i can put up would be those that would not include my face, so would that be of any interest to ladies? I know that men are visually stimulated so nudes pics of ladies would definitely catch the eye of us gentlemen, however, females being the wonderful creatures they are, are much more difficult to attract.
That brings me to the point you suggested about my profile, to which i strongly agree. It does need some work, although, i do not know what more to include other than what i suggested in the previous paragraph. Maybe i could say a little bit more about myself i guess, hopefully that would attract a little more attention.
I was under the impression that , in joining sites like these, whereby we all know why we are here primarily ( and that is to indulge in our carnal desires) , that one should merely outline what they want and expect from potential "friends" and keep things simple. However i do see a trend , in that people ( especially females ) would require far more interaction prior to physically engaging a person. Now one might think that be normal and reasonable behavior, and i would agree to an extent. On the flip side though, and as i mentioned before, most of the people on here are only here for one thing and would not want a deeper sort of relationship other than fulfilling that basic need and desire....however again, i could and probably am wrong.
Lastly and sorry to bore you with this, referring back to your point of people being wary of meeting strangers, how would a guy like myself, whom you do not know from a bar of soap, convince you to meet me for coffee...and by that i mean the freshly brewed type....not "coffee"?
The reason i ask is because i like to interact with people face to face and find that engaging a person online does not trully reflect the person you are ( no matter what you tell yourself).....
I await your response with great anticipation.....
Quote by ykad I have chatted to so many ladies on this site and have not met one yet..... Now i came to a few conclusions: 1. Either i am not interesting enough.....which would be rather sad. 2. The ladies are afraid to meet a guy for nsa fun......then why sign up on a site like this. 3. Most of the ladies are fake.....some weird guy posing as a woman. So all i am asking is these two questions: 1. Has any of you fine gentleman had the pleasure of meeting any of these stunning ladies from this site on a 1 on 1 basis ( not couples) ? YK
yip, I have. Some succesfully and some not so much, but there are ladies on here who are above board.
Hi,
just saw yr forum rant and I can sympathise. In four years of swinging as a single guy I NEVER met up with a single lady for NSA sex. I did have a rip roaring time with a circle of married couples where I was welcomed.
I suggest you change your approach if you only want a fuckbuddy or two, and rather try to make friends with married couples.
BUT! Big but!!!
Nobody likes or wants a hit and run artist!! People are looking for real friendship, with perks. :-))
Single ladies in the scene, all want a relationship. Advertising here does not mean they have a typical male shag and leave viewpoint. If you are not offering that, then dont expect to hook up. If you are not at least open to a close friendship, you are wasting your time.
Unfortunately, this and other sites are crawling with arsehole husbands trying to cadge a skelmpie behind their wives back, or are simply scumbags. This makes life extremely difficult for the tiny handfull of gentlemen out there who know how to treat a woman with respect (and her husband too) .
Hope this helps
Cheers
@ykad
I personally do not like to give out my personal details to just anyone,(that would be my email address/phone numbers) thus I prefer keeping sexy and face pics in a closed album. That way I choose to who is to see my face and who not.
I fully agree a nicely dressed gent is way more attractive than a penis photo.
I would think any lady would ,after exchanging knows if there is a little attraction between her and a gent, thus would say yes to a Public meeting for BREWED coffee. After that *coffee* dates an be done still hopefully someone knowing where she will be. incase you are not who you say you are.
LMAO here, it seems I am watching to many crime series's.
But that is my own way of doing things anyway, my girlfriend always know where I am and how long I will be,I always phone her on arrival and departure,that is if she is not the one dropping me off at the venue of meeting for *coffee*
@ softbuns.
Most ladies does not always understand NSA fun, and we all know ladies function differently than men.
Men can pull up their pants and go on their merry way with a glow of satisfaction after great sex.
Females tend to get a little romantic specially after the second play session....yeah, yeah a flaw, but that is why communication and rules was invented.
Quote by softbuns Hi, just saw yr forum rant and I can sympathise. In four years of swinging as a single guy I NEVER met up with a single lady for NSA sex. I did have a rip roaring time with a circle of married couples where I was welcomed. I suggest you change your approach if you only want a fuckbuddy or two, and rather try to make friends with married couples. BUT! Big but!!! Nobody likes or wants a hit and run artist!! People are looking for real friendship, with perks. :-)) Single ladies in the scene, all want a relationship. Advertising here does not mean they have a typical male shag and leave viewpoint. If you are not offering that, then dont expect to hook up. If you are not at least open to a close friendship, you are wasting your time. Unfortunately, this and other sites are crawling with arsehole husbands trying to cadge a skelmpie behind their wives back, or are simply scumbags. This makes life extremely difficult for the tiny handfull of gentlemen out there who know how to treat a woman with respect (and her husband too) . Hope this helps Cheers
I somehow doubt that there are very many people (if any) on THIS particular site who are looking for a relationship.
@ SOFTBUNZ.....
Thanks for that insightful response and your honesty. I somewhat agree with you in reference to women requiring or wanting a little more than a nsa "fun buddy" but that where my problem is.
Now to put you in the pic, i am divorced and it was a difficult marriage to deal with and a far more difficult divorce to contend with , however with that being in the past, i like to keep it there, although with that being said, i told myself that i would not be getting into any sort of serious relationship in the foreseeable future so as to not get dragged into a similar situation, hence me registering on this site to meet (supposedly) "like minded females" . Now dont get me wrong, i will not be and i am not the "one hit wonder" type who runs as soon as he is done. I do not mind and tend to enjoy spending time with a sexy, sophisticated , intelligent woman and striking up a friendship although that is as far as i can go for now....but who knows what the future may hold.
@ PiB.....
Point noted and i will act upon that, i will have a pic or two added and work on my profile a little more....real soon.
Thanks for your advice.....
@ SDMR....
I hope you are correct but all indications seems to prove that Softbunz is correct in his assumptions......
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