I love piercings I might add that the real body modifications most people think of or do Is not for me....I can for the love of me NOT understand why someone would have their tongue carved into a snakes shape.....IT MUST be bloody painful!!!! Or have a plug put into their earlobes to enlarge....  there is many, many more I could talk about that I do not understand... but I am just really talking about the so called *normal* piercings and body modification....  I love the many ways a man can have rings in his penis...all the more fun to play with it... a ladies little hood or clit piercings must also be painful, but in the end enjoyable! I also understand that a tongue piercing is nice when receiving oral!!...Once again must be bloody painful having it done to your tongue! Nipple piercings are great....and enjoyable.....

@ lizaan  Sounds like instant chemistry happened......nice one!

I also love role playing...dressing up for a *part*  all the more!!!  I also think most people/couples do have sex with imaginary people EVEN if they do NOT tell their spouse.... To/for me it is kinda normal!

@lizaan  I have found over time that  fantasies is more common than what is believed...but most women just want to give up*control* or have a decision taken from her...not really as such...there is a VAST difference.  And before Redbruce taps me over the fingers, I will become quiet on the subject....(smiling on this side of the computer)......

@KINKYone2one   Nope I don't think it is too kinky...I know a lot of Kink when I see or hear about it, yours seem tame in comparison. 

@lizaan  I know just what you mean, once a little seed is planted a person does seem to think about it...and soon things develop to the more enjoyable...

@ Sofistikitty   I do believe there must be some sort of connection with another person to REALLY enjoy and let loose, to achieve that big old *O*....  When we are young we are not as confident as we become when older, so we do not really know or believe we should ask for what we need.  Thank goodness for aging, from my side of the pc......  

@PlayFulHubby   I will join if asked to join.  Sure I would play...online only though.....

@ PlayFulHubby    Well you can always try!!!  Seems the Fora is way to quiet these days....  Everyone is either dead...or busy .............masturbating....... With no one here anymore.....seems everyone is just perving pics.....

@BRS1zn    And therein lies the dilemma most swingers encounter....

First off Let me confess, I dislike pain!!!  I also have a negative reaction to any needle that  is supposed to go into my body sort to it becoming or  being a needle phobia!!!!!

BUT....  and here comes the damn of the thing...I LOVE Tattoos  and Piercings!!!!
 
Okay, let`s talk tattoos first... 
I will never get a real tattoo EVER!!!! I made/make do with Henna body art or the Stick on tattoos. 

Now do not pull a face and say it cannot be as nice as the real thing...Henna....IT is awesome if done by a person who is artistic and sure of hand,  the only thing is Henna is something you really need to pamper so know all that hard work is only for a few days at most. Might be longer if you really really careful. I was also told that black Henna is not really kosher, as we all know Henna is mostly red-orange. I know nowadays you get real kits to do Henna skin art. But I remember the time and hassle it was to get and care for my Henna tattoo. Sadly, my friend who was willing to put in the hours for doing my Henna tattoo passed away. So nowadays it is stick on only!!!  And I mostly order my Tattoos from overseas. We here in SA really have NO place to really get the *GOOD* stuff!! 

Anyways, as for piercings.

Now here I am a REALLY sad case!!!  I was nearly sedated to only have my ears pierced for normal earrings....  BUT one day I was bold enough to demand nipple piercings......GOOD GOSH!!!!!!  PAIN...PAIN...PAIN.....  never EVER AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!

I also have to confess,  it is NO MORE!!!!!!!  When I had to go for my knee replacement. I had to remove the little suckers(barbells) And NO ONE will get me to put them back!!!!

So in all this babble of mine.....
I want to know if there are any of you guys and ladies, who also loves tattoos and piercings??  I would so, have a lot, if it was not for my needle problem....  and if you do have any,  WHERE and WHAT and HOW many, is yours??? And do You enjoy the extra little stimulation the genital piercings give??? Do Share......

I know I love to play kinky games with genital piercings.......

@PoohC   Truer words have never been spoken!!!!  Pasting in...*Everyone is into Kink, They just don`t know it yet... *

I find that people will be human, just like myself!  We/I always want to know some of the silliest things, hench the questions that makes some couples sigh. I myself think it is cause they are asked the same old-same old things over and over.

As for *that* who was the first to mention...... I do believe one in a couple always have a little fantasy going, it is only if the spouse is *open* to the suggestion, that things get interesting.

I myself only joined in a swingers orgy,for to the WRONG reason, at the wrong time. Gave me a LOT of heartache and self loathing, at that time. Only with the help of a very good friend, I could overcome and become who I am today!  And yeah,  yeah,  the gent who introduced me to swinging, moved on to a younger lady, not months after the event!!!!  So NEVER do something to please someone else!!! It just never works!!!!!

@PoohC  Now that sounds like something, BEING 16 and having a naughty interlude with a couple!!!!

@BRS1zn  I will go browse the story section!!!!

@PlayFulHubby  What an unexpected surprise!!  

Well it seems no one wants to join us, by sharing in their experience. 

@BigglesBrian     I know those damn times, playing naughty games whilst never sure if you are *safe* ....or being watched.... or just might get interrupted.... Thanks for sharing!

@PoohC    LMAO....yeah ?? 

Who is daring enough to share their MOST  REALLY the MOST memorable sex encounter they have ever had??  Could be with a person, could be the area,  what ever...just the one encounter you most likely will never forget.

Mine was with a gent on a MOTORCYCLE off all places....and damn, NOPE it was not on my bike,  it was his!!!  MANY many moons ago!!!   BUT boy, was it a great experience!!!

@tc_pike29   Yes it is true one of the males should have a bit more foreskin, but the gents I am friends with, tells me it is a huge turn on for them    one being enclosed by the other....  as for Frothing....well I would think so...It is a huge turn on for me to just watch!!! and listen to the moans and such!!!

@PoohC   I am sure there is a lot of straight guys who has no clue to what frothing was, so you have nothing to feel bad about. Most straights think that anal is the ONLY gay sex there is...NOT true!!  There is lotsa ways gents can get off together. I know for a fact there is gay gents that NEVER engage in anal at all!!!

Nope, never happened to anyone I know about.

@ PoohC     Okay I went and perved your profile!!!   No home visits from you guys as you are MILES from me!!!  So mail is all it is gonna be....

Here I am ...sitting waiting...WAITING......   on SDM  who took up a *dare* to /comment or answer all the KINKY fora`s.

@PoohC  *Smiling*  I have a few toys left, already started giving them away!!!   JUST send/tell me what you kind you guys were( or is it *Where*not sure) thinking of and if I still have it, I will gladly send it to you. Ermm...... the majority of the toys are BDSM toys. Or you guys could/would like to come and browse, and as I explain how to use(if you do not know) you can take....you can also mail me.

Just saying....

I don`t  have a bucket list, but my fucket list is a mile long.

When I was still playing, people used regularly ask me how to either introduce someone or how they would know, if someone is into Kink.

Heck I can only usually tell them what used to work for me. And only after I was mentored into the lifestyle!!!
Except for asking directly if someone is into something, there is a few methods I used to use to see if someone is either into or at least open to kinky play!
It also differs from female to this was way way back before I went into my permanent relationship. 
Females was always easier for me, although I do not look or act *Butch* in a female to female situation, I do tend to take the active role! In Fact I do not really like BUTCH ladies, they must really still remain feminine that is why I like ladies, they must not try and be like a man.
If I did not know my partner well and wanted to play kinky games, I used to start of testing the waters, by pressing the lady to a door or wall or on the bed, holding her hands tight  so she could not touch me, then kiss her, and give her little bites. After letting her hands free, I would then demand she do NOT touch me, when I start playing with her body. She would either tell me to fuck off...or do as I said. That was usually my first indication to know if she is open to kinky games. Next was not to only rub and pull lightly on her nipples  but to also give them the unexpected pinch and even little bites. Slapping her inner and outer thighs. Giving her slaps on her bottom. Asking her to keep her eyes closed and stop play if she opens them.  These was early early signs that she was open to kink. Only then would I chat about Kink and all the possibilities. 
For men well they are way way more complex, usually taking the active role, was not always easy, while sexually playing, I would also give them little ass slaps, play with their nipples, give little bites...once again....it would work or not.... those years, doing anal was considered KINK, by many, many men, heck pegging was mostly unheard of so if you just slid your finger down their ass crack and over their anal opening (not even penetrating the sphincters)  they would either freeze up...or moan...... You  guys should remember, in those years being kinky was totally a NO-No...  and you had to know people who would vouch for you before you EVER gotten invited to any party or get togethers. I had a great mentor and teacher who guided me. One should also remember kink is NOT just being hit and tied up...it has many, many facets. And the main thing is, ALWAYS think of KINK as a dangerous sport...as there is many many dangerous little issues to remember when playing kinky games. And like I always try and tell people  THINK about the LONG term issues that could develop after years of doing /allowing the same thing, when you do certain activities!!! 

What was your first indication of being slightly kinky or being KINK just open to the thought?  Or did the thought of kink never cross your mind?

OMW   What a oldie!!!!!!  Yes well, I did ask for evidence 6 years ago. Never did receive any!!!  I would believe being in  kind of *reverse* gangbang being the only male might seem daunting if you are a male!!!  BUT guys just think about using the little *blue pill* to be able to keep it high and hard, and going like a energise bunny!!! EVEN if you do not have a few *holes* that can be plugged/used as when the gangbang is happening with a lady, you do have fingers and a tongue!!!  Heck and getting pegged is also an option not so??

@frontosa    I like it when I watch 2 men kiss and  make out!!!  It was/is a huge turn on for me!

@ SDM  I will have to postpone the challenge...I am away for a bit.... but will be back.

@sexysam69  *controlissuesmuch*    You have it in one!!! I am a control freak.

As for a queen bee,  I can only dream!!!!!

Have a nice day!.

@bob969   And you know what to do with that (slight)*problem* in my eye.  LMAO....squeeze the *naughty* bugger!!!

@sexysam69.........  I love to debate!!!!!!!  I, in fact did share on how I developed and yes, became a little more open minded  in the Story Section. I really would not like to repeat it here. But,I am sure others might share.

(Tongue in the cheek) As I am NOT really an intellectual, just a plain old blue collar worker bee. I would be pleased if you do write a paper and get a Masters Degree,on how we, (in this case,me) the worker bee`s would like to try and appear more intelligent. Just give us the pleasure of acknowledgement/dedication when you submit the script.  

@MedallionStallion    You, my dear, has just become my next *Hero* NO other man will EVER admit to faking an orgasm....Thank you for partaking in this Fora.

Ahhh, Thanks guys for at least your responses.

@redbruce  I might just go back in time to read the oldies again and see what can be resurrected and be repeated. I might just change my opinion this time around when posting or commenting on the issue!!! Just for giggles and laughs....or not....

@SDM    OOOOkay  you open the pandora's box ....you are now obliged to at least  comment on each *kinky* post I make!!!!