How about mutual masterbation, two people just givIng eachother a hand?
Masterbation is sometimes a necessity, the body can only hold so much in before it has to release or bang! Lol.
I see it in almost the same way as someone drinking. Some people dont need to because they have alternatives. Others drink/do occasionally or a few with limits and then there's ones that need to join Masterbation anonimous lol.
Sexual fun is like most fun things, usually better with off with more than one player.
Anyone have a link to an instructional vid or some advise on the topic? Have a lady interested in receiving but dont want to hurt anyone or seem like an idiot trying. Would prefer some info and help before I can say yes/no. I'm sure its not just sticking a hand in a hole.
So what makes it swinging for a single female and not a single male To be on a site like this then?
Can understand the need for an occasional cupcake or devil's delight. Have the taste myself but can't seem to find a bakery lol.
And here I thought (like most people probably do) that couples got it all their way. Seems there's troubles in everyone's paradise. The internet does not help there, just raises unreasonable expectations. 99% of porn is fake and scripted, 1% is real maybe of which 0.1% is probably fun and not just procreative urges. Whether single or couple, finding anyone to play with seems virtually impossible, even on sites like these. Had more fun from real-world miracles than from online bigmouths with no follow-thrus.
Good luck in the search.
Sheesh, has cake, gets to eat it and still looking to raid a bakery?
So just imagine how some of us unlucky uglies must feel...
Threesome with twin ladies
1 on 1 with an indian lady
1 on 1 with an asian lady
giving anal to an 'open' lady
repeat the mmf experience
Bondage with a willing female partner
use a toy with a lady
Already got one out of the way, sex with a pregnant lady, yippy
RBay seems to be dead and dull even though it's apparently one of the horniest cities in SA as per some sources. Been here a while and have had more luck with people in Pta/ct than locals.
some people are just idiots with no sense of fun beyond the NOW
Just FYI... following on a forum article re: boobjobs aka female enhancements...
What I find strange is the sexism of swinging... it seems single male = asshole but single female = OK.
And the attitude that "single males are not swingers" but a single female is?
Can't find the darn article now that I'm looking for it again, lol. Read it a while ago in passing...
google search returned the summary below...
Surgical penis enlargement usually takes the form of implants for increasing girth or severing of the ligament that attaches the base of the penis to the pelvis for added length. This is major surgery done on an in-patient basis with general anesthesia. As with any surgery there is a risk involved and the results are not always what people would expect. A common side-effect of the ligament severing is an inability to control the direction of the penis. Sometimes during surgery nerves can be severed and all sensation in the penis can be lost completely. So surgery is expensive and risky. Generally, surgeons will only operate in cases of severe deformity or trauma.
Real vs fake...
hmmm, it's like buying a cake from a shop and taking a bite and finding out it's actually made of styrofoam... pretty to look at but not so nice inside. A beautifully wrapped birthday/xmas present that turns out to contain a pair of grama's socks....
I remember reading a tabloid article where a man sued his girlfriend because she looked great and he bought her gifts and stuff to get her in the sack and then on the night found out she was artificially enhanced, more plastic than a Barbi doll. Something about false advertising?
semi off-topic but speaking about enhancements, wonder how many guys are part silicone down there. It doesnt seem to be as big a topic/issue as breast modification but also done on occasion
It all comes back to choice and Yes, one can "settle" for something that's not quite what one wants but that doesn't mean one HAVE to.
If you like something you tend to stay with it. You can however sometimes indulge a fancy and try something out of norm IF there's a good enough reason/want/need for it. Doesn't mean one MUST just because it's there though. Once you try something new you either like it enough to stay with it, try it again later or just plain and simple not like it and don't go there again.
Tastes change too so even if people don't seem to be interested now, they could sometime later get the urge for a change. it's not a good idea to upset people even if they say NO to you now. Don't burn bridges you could get to cross at some other date. Making people mad in a close community isn't a good idea either as word of mouth good or bad does affect what responses you get here too.
One cannot "sell" invisible gems, one needs to at least hint at the glitter? Some form of picture would probably get someone to at least get someone to read the blurb on the inner jacket/profile and maybe get them interested in more.
maybe at least a pic of the "store window box", no need for the entire package spread for all to see.
Boy, me preaching,lol. But I do have a basic pic open to all (could probably do with a better photographer). If the basic pic is enough then the face and package pics probably will be of use
Not saying this is good or bad but...
Most people judge a book by its cover, plain and simple. If you don't like what you see you won't be interested.
In a lot of cases this is the safe option as it means one avoids the possible pitfalls of hidden bad things. It does however also limit to possibilities for good...
Some pretty packages contain bombs instead of the presents expected. But remember, some of those plain ol' boxes you see in store windows contain diamonds under their not-so-flashy covers.
In the spirit of the 201x years, everything seems to get a reboot from old and outdated to new and flashy...hope I got all the cobwebs off and have added some sparkles to attract attention...
Hi there prospective playmate/s and welcum to the reboot of my profile...(there's the usual bio stuff on the actual profile too, plus a pic or two)
Plain and simple, like most of the people on the site, here for fun and pleasure with like-minded people..
Looking to meet new and fun friends to share experiences and pleasure with.
Drop me a mail and I'll respond. Will reply to all although some replies may be a polite NO (never impolite, will let the site admins deal with those if need be)
Any open-minded ladies or couples out there? I'm open to all cummers, all ages, shapes. Don't have many reservations or hangups as to who I play with. Color, shape,size,looks, no problem if the mutual connection is there.
Not expecting porn stars (who are 50% silicone and fake most of their "acts" anyway), just real people having fun. Doesn't have to be just a quick fuck and duck, actually looking to meet and make some real friends for socializing as well (but won't say no to that quickie either)
Not here to mess around and cause trouble, serious about being fun and open to questions if you want to know more.
Hoping there are some real people out there, not like on so many other sites full of big talkers with no action. Ready to play so where are the playmates?
Please note, not looking to hook up with single guys of any type, only single ladies or couples. I'm not gay or bi, borderline bi-curious at most only with the right male+female couple...
Some YES's
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Open to single ladies looking for uncomplicated fun. I won't turn into a stalker or get clingy and no bragging about conquests.
Open to ladies who wish to play alone or couples who want an extra guy for play.
I do have some experience, played with both couples and single ladies before on other sites, looking to add to the experiences.
truth, no lies (although even liars will say that I know) I keep my word and promises when/if I give/make them.
I can entertain if required. Don't expect the Playboy Mansion though.
Can and will travel in the immediate area (RBay/Emp) Regret, don't get to play away from home often (who can afford to drive cross country for a play date?), prefer someone close to my area. Will entertain travelers and if the "connection" is there will arrange travelling to you as well but that needs a really good motivation/picture... So please if you're not even in the province please rethink before getting each other's hopes and hormones up for nothing?
Please note, I prefer to see who I'm chatting to so if you don't have a profile pic, I'm going to need to see one at some point if you want to keep my attention up. Doesn't have to be a wide-open hide-it-from-your-mom-and-kids picture, just a plain ol' everyday FB-safe picture will do
Some NO's (not all bad/negative)
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I'm NOT here cheating on anyone, or here to be your cheat on your significant other.
I'm NOT here to steal your wife/husband/friends
I'm NOT looking to try gay/bi single guys. Sorry gents, not my idea of fun one-on-one that way.
Not a party animal or into crowds so clubs are not the place you'd find me. Prefer smaller groups of people.
No drunk and disorderly...i have known limits on drinking and no drugs ever so I'm safe to be around people without embarrassing anyone too much (just don't ask me to dance, THAT would scare the daylights out of anyone)
DON'T ask me for money or favors or gifts before during or after...I don't pay for fun although I will bring party favors, drinks etc.
There's a lot more to/about me. Ask me if you're really interested (anyone actually read this far?)
Curious about this, anyone willing to share info and introduce me to the experience?
Hi there, new to the site but not new to the area or lifestyle, more info on my profile if anyone's interested.
