I don’t upload my face pics anywhere that I can’t control the privacy settings.

For communication I have a “punting “ phone.

Separate phone with a pre rica’d sim , and all of its own social (spare , , facebook , etc)

I’ve had encounters with “fake cops” who attempt to extort

Any pic sharing is done as view once

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I would class that as a dangerous ridiculous BDSM attempt with a fake Dom and fucking stupid woman who put herself in a perilous situation hoping for a “50 Shades” moment. Not sure what kind of woman you’re finding but they are fucking idiots. No talk about rules, limits, safety and then restraints and choking. I can’t decided who’s the bigger idiot. You or her. It’s a tough choice. Hmmm 🤔

While as a fantasy story this sounds delicious in reality this is so dangerous for her and stupid of you to attempt it. I have heard to many horror stories about things that have gone wrong for both men and women that have done this sort of thing. From assault to to forced drug use to one unfortunate young woman having her nipple bitten right off.

So I’d call this stupid. Not BDSM, in the kink world, real Doms and Subs have rules and we follow and respect the rules and roles of the other. This is bloody madness. 🙄

I fully understand and appreciate your response. Reading your comment now in hindsight I do see that there are many areas of concern.

I will be taking this date off the menu and will rectify .

once upon a time I used to frequent ster kinekor nouveau at the zone in rosebank.

It was always empty ! they used to show foreign films and had a luxury vibe.

Lots of dates have sucked me off in those seats , I’ve even gotten on my knees and eaten a pussy under a skirt a few times.

the key is to wear track pants ! Easy access . If the blower is shy , then just cover their head with a jacket and carry on watching the movie !

and stash a few wet wipes in your pocket

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So The Nicol still the place to be?

I’ve been here recently , thru booking dot com you can get an apartment that has self check in with a code on a lock box. Also the lift goes straight from the basement to the rooms and skips reception.

Bed is the right size for 4 .

Last year for my bday I was in a mood. so i fucked off early from work, cancelled plans with the “family” and decided to treat myself.

Went to a strip club / brothel in jhb and the bouncer sold me a generic blue pill.

Seeing as this is a sign from the universe I leaned into it and decided to just book different girls one after another.

1 girl to fuck, then next girl to just give me a blow to relax and then repeat. 6 girls later I finished off with a Thai aunty who gave me the 7th release and the most gentle massage.

The next day I was still feeling the effects !

so straight to the whorehouse and checked the line up. Picked 3 girls and told them to just take turns when the one finishes .

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Lisa's lounge would be a place. R350...to enter and you chill in the lounge and have a few drinks while you watch porn on the screens....and if you are up for it use one of the rooms!!!

Is this the one in cpt ?

Anytime daytime or on an event day ?

I’m planning a trip to Cape Town between 10 and 13 Nov.

I will be staying at a penthouse unit in cbd and will have a bi girl with me

Keen to meet couples or single girls who want to play.

I frequent spa’s that have a sauna / jacuzzi with great success.

I’ve also considered the karaoke bar ! But the K-pop music was a bit too catchy for me to concentrate on getting hard .

I clean shave my balls and pubes with a razor.

I will ask my dates for shave ahead of our meet and usually pack a fresh disposable in my “date bag” incase she didn’t .

I also ask them “what type of face do you want to sit on tonight ? Shaven or a beard with a little bit of grey in it”

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Try Breena b&b in Edenvale

I’ve fucked an escort here once, it was a horrible fuck but the venue was amazing! Especially the garden

I’ve done some late night call centre shifts , watching some porn on the “office server” I’ve squeezed a nut through my jeans followed by a quick bathroom break clean up.

Also had a regular wank in the stalls, to this day I wonder if anyone saw me

not on topic

but when I was younger I had a mixed friend group, and as most of these groups go you tend to crush on friends of your friends.

so we at a club and im sitting on the couch in earshot of a groups of these girls

Suddenly I hear about a date that the one girl went on to nandos. And how afterwards this guy started to finger her on the way home. and how the residue chilli on his fingers started to burn this girls pussy.

So all the girls are listening and I loudly ask “so what happened next” as I was very in grossed in the story.

The shudder I felt as I was given the cold shoulder when all these girls huffed, once they knew I was listening ! Priceless

I’ve recently upgraded my tinder date options to include a “submissive date” it’s becoming very popular.

both my tinder date and I agree on a time slot and the selection of hotel/guesthouse options for the session and then I take care of the rest . All she needs to bring is heels (unless I’m providing it for her as a gift)

She will get into an uber and arrive at the place. I’m usually there all setup in advance .

On arrival she will enter the room, get on her knees and give me a quick kiss/suck on my cock as a greeting . Not to completion, I will pull her off usually after a few strokes.

Following this she goes to the bathroom and freshens up, has a shower and changes into a lingerie body stocking I provide for her and her heels

Then onto the bed for a massage . I use a combo of a soy massage candle and oil. The candle does give her a slight scare until she realizes I’m putting in on my hands first . I introduce some hand spanking on her ass.

Once she’s relaxed, I proceed to add the wrist and ankle cuffs. Then the blindfold and ball gag.

Fingering leads to clitplay and then a vibrator is introduced to her pussy.

Slow and steady till we get to deep strokes.

Once fully in, I will reposition for a blowjob and reach around to keep the toy in her while resuming the ass spanking .

I will cum in her mouth / on her lips and return the ball gag.

I then go back to resume control of the vibrator as we get to power thrusting ! The paddle / whip is introduced.

After she cums, I keep her tied for a bit and hold her tight, giving her kisses and reassurance.

We then unclip the restraints and she can flip over.

We pop a champagne and talk about the experience.

We snack, vape, smoke and I ask for a blowjob. This is now her time to shine!

After the blow I will reclip the restraints in a new position of her on her back.

Nipple clamps get added and the toy is turned back on.

I pass a shibari rope that’s looped around the foot of the bed through the wrists restraints so I have something to pull on that will keep her hands above her head and away from her pussy.

I’m now hard again so I slip on a cock sleeve and condom.

We fuck.

I do a wrap around hold on her neck to choke her as I am busy with missionary.

After I cum, I quick tap out and bring the toy back into play. We power thrusting again. This is for the squirt !

She cums again, I slow down but don’t stop. Just gently play with her clit for extended time and then quickly go back to the power thrusting!

after she cums I will untie her, unclip and she will take a breather. Snacks are consumed, the balance of the champagne drunk and another smoke break.

Round 3 starts with a 69 blow and the toy as a support role. This is the slow round.

Then we take a shower together and start to pack up. She keeps the vibrator+lingerie+heels

We clean up and either get an uber or I will drop her off. There’s also a cash gift included for her.

Now ? What kinda bdsm would you classify this as ?