I think the problem has a lot to do with the approach. The way some single guys post is just downright rude. " Anyone want to fuck the weekend, or I know you said no single guys but i will show you" etc etc. A lot of couples is just sick and tired of the audacity of the single guys rather than not wanting to meet up. As a married guy admin changed our couple profile to single as my wife doesn't play anymore and all of a sudden 100's of bi single guys start sending messages that even i want to tell them to fuck off.
Guys, approach is everything.
