So a bit of an update as we haven't spent much time here over the last 2 years as my wife first went through the dreaded menopause and then had a huge heart attack.

So for now I, the hubby is browsing around alone, with her permission.

We have been in the lifestyle for about 12 years and know what we want and what not. we enjoy chatting to people and getting to know them better but never make promises that it will go further unless there is a connection. at the end of the day we might just become good friends without any play, and we have lots of those friends.