For once i agree but its habit. Similarly upmarket, educated, professional, as per local couple makes no sense but i think these words are postively connotated in the lifestyle.

i think its also a hint towards guys that only want the lady.

I wonder if any couples have experienced this?

Hi All. A good few years back i visited Sandy Bay when whether permitted.

I just wanted to enquire if anybody knows how safe it is these days particularly if you just one or two people. To clarify there were a few security incidents reported some time back on that 15-20 min walk.

Any feedback would be appreciated.

The ratio of guys to couples/woman is so high that lots of guys just comment in a hope to get a response. Im not sure if they have had any success.

Just have a look at some older pucs and how many profiles no longer exist or have not been active in months.

The things is that most single guys and probably most of them in their 20's dont have any idea of what swinging is or what it entails. To them its a "hobby" much like vaping, cars, diy etc. The only difference here is that it involves  people that want sex and unfortunately all they see is "want sex" and i can get laid. 

To be fair to them there may be a very hot guy and he gets it right by couples purely based on his physical appearance and hence sticks to what he knows.

The other thing that people remark on is how beautiful or sexy somebody is, which in truth is fine but it seems as if some guys would bang just anything with a hole for the sake of it.

i find that more often than not, people i click with tend to be very far from me.

I did this a few years back and i think there were around ten pools till you get to the kaalgat sign.

It is roughly 6-7 hours so be prepared and its not a stroll in the park either.

It seems though that those who complained have also left.

Thats a shame. Whatever the views were that they held are irrespective, atleast they contributed.

If you look at the amount of views a post has vs comments......its really bad.

Is it just me or have the forums died. Prior to leaving about 2 years ago, these forums were alot busier.

What has happened to the regular contributors. I dont see LeeEC or pussandboots.

Roadtrip through South Africa. I want to see it all.

its the matter of majority Mr SDM. Its also still very reflective of our society.......

Yes you will get them in both senses but its much higher from a certain demographic. 

so what happens when they get there they just stop and dont go further.

Also "sticking to our own race". We all part of the human race.......... nobody asked you to do another species.

what im confused about is the racial border they dont cross. Im still trying to find this border.......

Anybody know its location?

Hi Redbruce

The top part of my comment relates to a gang bang the last paragraph relates to arranging a social.

Socials shouldnt have prerequisites, it should be an opportunity to meet people in the flesh, more than likely people would not play. The only prerequisite that you could have is the couple vs single scenario. Again this pertains to a social.

There are also multiple groups representing the same thing........

surely these groups can be cleaned up by activity. Alot of people who created these groups are no longer members.

Quote by cpl2play
Groups!??   You join and never hear anything! Even if you try start a conversation no-one replies! Once again I come to the conclusion that most on the site are not here to swing at all...just here to show off pics of their wives without their knowledge! Or single guys who think they are swingers! You cannot swing without a partner!!! All single guys are doing is looking for a fuck and trying to show off their dicks.
Just our opinion.

 I agree with above. I use groups to find people who dont have an issue with race. Its numbing opening profile after profile of people who dont want to meet you.

This is a statement based on my use for groups not an invitation to start another pointless debate.

As a single male i wouldnt want to get to know other guys in a gangbang. From my time abroad in a much more liberal society a gangbang is advertised in the personals section. The number of guys wanted is stated, so that the guy can decide.

I dont think the issue is the gangbang but its "our society" that is still very conservative in relation to other countries specifically within the swinging realm. 

Yes there are other factors at play but i have been on here for a number of years and i have seen the lifestyle get quieter, the forums are quieter. 

I cant understand why people would need to be scared to meet at a public place for a meet and greet for that matter. 

Over the years i have seen so many attempts yet it hardly gets off the ground and if you consider pure numbers it shouldnt be hard to get 10 people together for a social.

couldnt agree more Lee