Master of Sex
Doesn't matter anyway I'm somebody's type and someones gorgeous. He has a complex I'm really not upset lol.
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Sofistikitty
Over 90 days ago
Straight Mixed Race
Female, 44
0 km · Johannesburg
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Master of Sex
So I been "interviewing" guys and have had lots of private msgs, anyway there was this one dude that kept sending msgs and begged for my to chat to him. Eventually we did and exchanged pics, I was put off because of the way he speaks eg.(I'm sure u like sucking cock, u like the taste of cum? etc.) Such a put off, so a day of chatting and that he sends me dick pics and demands I reply. I told him io don't have any. Then he started the crude talk again so I asked why he does that and that I am uncomfy with it.
He says to me and I quote
Him - " you on a sex site, you are a slut. You are remedial and not my type anyway cos you are fat. You should see my wife (sends me a pic of her)"
so I say - "then go do all those stuff to her, you not my type either and good bye"
him - "bye fatty, you fat fuck"
so I decide screw this let me be honest lol
Me - "bye small dick" and I delete.
He leaves me a msg on site now -"yoiu are a fat cunt that's why my dick looks small" I'm still laughing. Ay some dudes.
I know I was being immature but hell he was irritating me and I know how sensitive most guys are.
Master of Sex
Ok so then what's the difference between friends with benefits and a full on relationship. Cos don't u do the same things when you in a relationship
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So I have a question what is the definition of a casual sex relationship or fuck bubby? What's the difference between that and say friends with benefits and also a full on relationship. How does one know what type of relationship they are in?
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Quote by Stamina
1. He obviously never deserved you in the first place. 2. He is a man! We are dicks and we do shit like this. 3. If he is worth it (only if he is really worth it) fight for him. 4. We tend to realise our mistakes and come crawling back... Jumping another mans bones may help at that moment, but then you guys get back together and what happened in between ruins what could have been after getting back together. If there is love there, I believe one should be patient for a while. Wait and see first, if he is not back after 3 months, then go wild. Just the way I would do things. But up to you.
He is totally worth it , but not sure he wants to be fought for. How would I know? Hate when things go south its like if you pursue u desperate if you don't you could loose person. Tough , worst thing is no more SEX!!! Lol I'm withering away here lol. Have a feeling we not done so I'll wait and see what happens, thanks- good advice.
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Its sad when yous partner IS your best friend. I don't really have besties, I tend to keep ppl at a distance for this exact reason. And the friends I do have live far away and have their own issues. Also I don't drink :sad: i don't wanna be disappointed by a bad lay so guess I should be celibate for a while?
I hate the eat and be depressed thing. And I'm to ocd to "let myself go " lol. I have had some gorgeous intriguing men messing me maybe I should go to party on saturday that I've been invited to... Sigh.
PIB maybe I should lure him here and get that hair lol !!
I wonder if men go through this to?
Master of Sex
Good idea , but it should be a great shag! I mean I have a standard now(sad but true)
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I'd like to hear from you folks, what do you do to get over some one? Eat yourself into an oblivion? Or is oit true to get over a guy you should get under another lol?
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Thanks guys , but you know this kitty got 9 lives... And in need of distraction
Master of Sex
Biggest put off is offer eagerness and persons attitude (especially guys) towards swinging like the common mistake is- women are not getting it good from partner/home or she's promiscuous/slutty that's why she swings. So they don't even find the need to flirt or try and make a good impression. Its more just like steek en verby.
Also odour and appearance. You know you can be big, fat, bald whatever but look clean and take care of your self. And hygiene its amazing how so many ppl just take this for granted its like totally shocking and disgusting. I've been there, on like a number of occasions... Was a group thing and wow this one dude didn't trim/groom and smelt like death oh my gawd!!! Suffice to say he left cos no one would touch him. There was one time also I walked out and went home when one dude bit me when he was down there WTf lol
Hello and welcome and may I just say... Y U M O! Master of Sex
Stamina, I don't know you but I would like to say I'm proud of you. I am also sorry for what you gf and your daughter have gone through. I too have been violated like most women in the world, sad but true. Reading your post also just made me realise why Mr K has been reluctant and slow on meeting people from the site. Like you we like being here but doubt we gonna be meeting anyone anytime soon.
Glad you sticking around love your posts. And again good of you!
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:undecided:Stamina we shoulda been "valentining" to. I'm alone today , sucks ass man. Everyone being so cheesy and loving. Gonna be a loooong night and weekend :sad:
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I prefer men with broad shoulders, taller than me ofcos but not big boeps. I am a big chick but look after myself so the guy should to. Hairy isn't too bad but if the guys like really furry trim or groom or something, how must I kiss everywhere if I'm gonna start coughing up hair balls??
I loike a sturdy man that can "handle" me. Being a full figured chick I don't wanna break a guy you know. I'm not really one for pretty boys, although Mr K is not hairy, chiseled, caramel and delicious. He still has what I like, sturdy body and legs, broad shoulders,big hands etc. But I am very attracted to bald men and beards(box goatie). Rugby guys are a turn on , and nice buns and thighs... Love thighs. Oh and kissable mouth. A guy can't be prettier than me!
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I believe that what people think of you, is none of your business. Nuff said
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:twisted:
That's what scene plays in your head while u "juggling"?
I imagine mr K lol that caramel skin, those lips ... Ay sorry
Quote by TOY4U
Okay... I think you think about your partner better half etc.. evenings or days where you have had a great time.
I think also you can fantasise a bit about something that blows the hair back ... also the anticipation of things to come is exciting.. I find the thought of a dominant mistress in leather/latex giving me instructions wow !!! Its the giving the power to someone that's exciting ... mmmm enough said
That's what scene plays in your head while u "juggling"?
I imagine mr K lol that caramel skin, those lips ... Ay sorry
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Quote by Pussinboots1
@ Andre3000
I asked Lee to lock *MY* blog about abusing as that blog started to become a bitching blog and not a constructive blog.
Just as I feel any blog that becomes a place of mudslinging should be locked for no further comments.
As for your 7 days and 7 nights in *jail* I was unaware of that happening.
But I am sure if things escalate the way it does in forums, due to *feeding peanuts to *us* monkeys,I am for one NOT participating or blogging anymore due to the contend it unleashes.
I started campaining for this Forum section in the start of 2013 to be more lively and tried to get people to read it and post POSTS and to make comments.....and my campaign got a great response, but what a sad situation it will be to end this year with ill feelings between us bloggers and the sad situation the blogs has become.
My 2 cents.
You not going anywhere! Admin will deal with this.
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Quote by Andre3000
Andre what exactly is your problem? I don't get you? You seem intelligent and we chatted long long ago and you were okay.
The article posted was good I think and I believe many women can relate to it. And if men can relate to it it means they are great lovers, unselfish lovers. If they didn't know they are now educated and if they did then they are reminded to keep doing what they doing. So if you think its a load of crap then maybe you are none of the above. We just trying to enjoy corresponding with each other. Why do you deem it necessary to fight and be rude and nasty all the time? If it irritates you so much why participate?
You are obviously well read and somewhere deep deep deep down you are a cool guy , so wtf ?
Sorry curious. Weird but ya.
I have no blogging.
I am a good looking ,cool and I ask has my controversial way of blogging started ?
It started when a young man posted a thread and was viciously attacked by a certain group of people.I tried to change the game for him but he was haunted and crushed.I posted a quote in the quote guy tells me my origin of my quote was wrong.I corrected him in fool pasted my whole conversation in the quote thread.I say the word fat beetle a thread get opened for Site abusers(I am the abuser)In that thread I mentally attack 2 guys..my thread gets erased and I get thrown in jail for 7 days and 7 nights and the thread gets posted this thread in 4 parts.I read them all and give my comment as a happens?...I get bombarded with kryptonite.
Nobody actually looked at the whole drama came to the correcting about the fat beetle and suddenly then the fat beetle beetled herself over the fingers and just carried on.
Take it like this a very cold are dressed warm.I come up with the idea to go take a swim in cold are you going to tell me ?....probably..."Fuck you Andre are you mad you fool"..You simply disagreed with my intentions.
Now I have become the same people who follows every thread I comment just keep on ping pong on me negatively they just have to say something about my comment after I come to the conclusion that I was constantly under come naturally when under attack ?...You go into defense.I realized my attackers are actually a bunch of do I do ?....I started feeding them peanuts.
But dont worry Sofistikitty my darling.I will never be disrespectful to any woman.I am just here to blog.
Look I get its your opinion but why be nasty and why do you HAVE to correct people. As for your derogatory statements and name calling wtf dude why??? Your "blogs" are negative, try a different approach and you'll see. Stop attacking people its really uncalled for. And if you have nothing nice to say rather just don't say anything.
Master of Sex
Andre what exactly is your problem? I don't get you? You seem intelligent and we chatted long long ago and you were okay.
The article posted was good I think and I believe many women can relate to it. And if men can relate to it it means they are great lovers, unselfish lovers. If they didn't know they are now educated and if they did then they are reminded to keep doing what they doing. So if you think its a load of crap then maybe you are none of the above. We just trying to enjoy corresponding with each other. Why do you deem it necessary to fight and be rude and nasty all the time? If it irritates you so much why participate?
You are obviously well read and somewhere deep deep deep down you are a cool guy , so wtf ?
Sorry curious. Weird but ya.
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Haha funny but seriously what do people think about? Celebs? Porn? Your man or woman? Past lover? Crazy ex??
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I'm sitting here horny and bored, my other half is away all weekend. Now when I feel like this its time too DIY, I think boout him mostly and fantasize about stuff we have done and what we are going to do. Pushes me off the edge!! So what do you think or fantasize about when you spanking the monkey/ patting the padda lol what ever you call it.
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Okay so far I see one guy on this topic that NOT getting any lol
Hi LJ your profile is better and I will keep an open mind when it comes to you ...stil wary
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On a bean bag at club Reality. In club toilets.
Mr K and I seem to always land up on floor WHERE EVER! Not sure why lol. Sandton City toilets lol, in car UJ parking lot (best), standing in doorway of bathroom lol, fitting rooms Sandton City.
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Ok so couple years ago I played with a female, I like kissing aslong as the persons a good kisser so I've kissed a lot of chicks in my time. This however was the first time I got really close to a girl, things got intense and well there she was spread "bald" eagle but I just couldn't - to me her vagina was scary lol not that there was anything wrong with it. Just I didn't know what to do or how to do it and when she wanted to go down I just couldn't allow her. Was self conscious and afraid I'm not sure of what. I felt awkward touching her and having a nipple in my mouth was weird. Sigh guess I'm strictly dickly. BUT I enjoyed giving her pleasure using my hands and kissing so maybe that's where I will stick for now.
What would have been nice is also to know if I was doing a good job cos I know how I like to be touched but when u touch another women its different,feels more delicate was scared I was gonna hurt her cos I had long nails lol.
PIB- I am not a huge fan of receiving oral but whoa after I read your post I need to change my undis phew
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I'd just like to butt in here, when I was single and looking ,couples and men that approached me also had no manners - came across like I would be a sex prop or a masturbation aid. Anyway, that's why I just stopped looking and replying clearly some people don't know how or what real swingers are. Glad I'm part of a couple now if we don't hook up with anyone I still get to have amazing sex so I still win haha. And Longjohn ur apology seems sincere but that rant came from somewhere I still am wary.
