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SantaKlaus
11 hours ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 54
0 km · Cape Town

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Quote by CheekyMod
maybe contact them

Good morning

I agree with what you are sayng ... hence me saying "maybe contact them"

The onus is still on the couple to make contact first - until then.. wait and see!

Ok ... so here is my take .... having now a returned profile after being here before for 15 years (even as a mod before)

So .. there are options that you have on the settings button, like


  • Block single guys from contacting you

  • Block people that are NOT your friends from commenting on your photos

Those are only two ways of limiting contact from single guys - there are more

However, and I know this from personal experiences - many couples write that they do not want contact from single guys as to limit the interaction, yet, they still may have the urge to meet up with single guys. This is merely a method to "protect" themselves and to limit the interaction

My suggestion is as follows - if a couple profile looks at your profile even though they state that they are not interested in single guys, they are actually saying that they maybe want to meet up. Take this as a lead to maybe contact them

On the other, couples also look at single guys' profiles because they are curious even though they have no intention to meet up. This can go in one of two directions - they either block you or when you then make contact they come back with a comment - can't you read?

As single guys we need to understand that we are at the bottom of the pecking order and whatever comes our way is a bonus !

Bottom line ... enjoy the ride !