Quote by EM53
We have never asked a single guy to host however I dont see a problem with it, a lot of singles have ticked the accommodate field on their profiles. A lot of couples have children or others at home which makes it easier to meet elsewhere.
Fair enough !
Good morning
I have noticed quite a few couples posting ads to meet up with single guys .... however, the guys must host ??
What is it with that ?
Sure, in my opinion, couples would feel more than comfortable to meet at thier own place ?
Or .... if I am wrong ... please explain this .. especially couples?
Quote by CheekyMod
maybe contact them
Good morning
I agree with what you are sayng ... hence me saying "maybe contact them"
The onus is still on the couple to make contact first - until then.. wait and see!
Ok ... so here is my take .... having now a returned profile after being here before for 15 years (even as a mod before)
So .. there are options that you have on the settings button, like
Block single guys from contacting you
Block people that are NOT your friends from commenting on your photos
Those are only two ways of limiting contact from single guys - there are more
However, and I know this from personal experiences - many couples write that they do not want contact from single guys as to limit the interaction, yet, they still may have the urge to meet up with single guys. This is merely a method to "protect" themselves and to limit the interaction
My suggestion is as follows - if a couple profile looks at your profile even though they state that they are not interested in single guys, they are actually saying that they maybe want to meet up. Take this as a lead to maybe contact them
On the other, couples also look at single guys' profiles because they are curious even though they have no intention to meet up. This can go in one of two directions - they either block you or when you then make contact they come back with a comment - can't you read?
As single guys we need to understand that we are at the bottom of the pecking order and whatever comes our way is a bonus !
Bottom line ... enjoy the ride !
