Good morning
I have noticed quite a few couples posting ads to meet up with single guys .... however, the guys must host ??
What is it with that ?
Sure, in my opinion, couples would feel more than comfortable to meet at thier own place ?
Or .... if I am wrong ... please explain this .. especially couples?
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We have never asked a single guy to host however I dont see a problem with it, a lot of singles have ticked the accommodate field on their profiles. A lot of couples have children or others at home which makes it easier to meet elsewhere.
Fair enough !
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Good morning
I have noticed quite a few couples posting ads to meet up with single guys .... however, the guys must host ??What is it with that ?
Sure, in my opinion, couples would feel more than comfortable to meet at thier own place ?
Or .... if I am wrong ... please explain this .. especially couples?
Many, if not most couples likely have kids. Its also a pretty solid indication that the single guy is, well, actually single, not a husband cheating on their partner without consent.
Quite a few rational reasons tbf.
My take is that it's always better to host anyway. I found this both as a single guy and when playing as a couple (female partner always tended to be more comfortable)
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My take is that it's always better to host anyway. I found this both as a single guy and when playing as a couple (female partner always tended to be more comfortable)
Things tend to vary based on whether or not there kids involved. Most moms, my wife incl, rather leave the nest to explore with single men, than host single men, just not sit right with many moms to displace/inconvenience their kids/invite a single man for sex into the family home, prefer to rather let the kids have comfort of home and we go out.
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Things tend to vary based on whether or not there kids involved. Most moms, my wife incl, rather leave the nest to explore with single men, than host single men, just not sit right with many moms to displace/inconvenience their kids/invite a single man for sex into the family home, prefer to rather let the kids have comfort of home and we go out.
Which is fair, I would however imagine that those who have kids in the equation to consider would only be arranging play dates around times kids were elsewhere. But yes, like you said things do vary
I’ve hosted couples a few times! I have also been to the same couple/couples houses, with no hosting restrictions. I think it may add to their excitement to travel somewhere out of their own comfort zone
Agreed things definitely vary depending on the couples. On our side, we prefer meeting somewhere else. Because in the lifestyle we enjoy living out our fantasies freely. i.e dressing differently, socializing differently and obviously behaving differently which we will not be comfortable doing in the our family home. Also I wouldn't want my neighbors to suspect anything, cause wifey can be quite loud at times 🤭
Am free and able to host if anyone is keen to meet
My personal take : Your first meet should be Neutral space. You do not want to bring a couple / single to your private space till you 100% sure. They/He/She maybe picture perfect inside and out ONLINE, but behind closed doors not always as you thought. Anything can go wrong from The vibe, Chemistry, stalkers ect ect...
So who pays for the Neutral venue ? That would depend on plans. Again personally i do not mind as i prefer staying after or enjoying the entire night and not having to dress up and go. If the Couple plan on staying too an offer to share costs would be a nice gesture as the booking would be upgraded to 3,4 persons.
BUT do not expect 1 side to pay all the costs involved. ( Again pending Scenario/Plan ect )
Sure the safest way is a pre-meet in public space but everything can change behind doors.
There are good answers here. Children, aged parents, and live-in relatives can make hosting challenging. I have met and played with couples as a single person at a neutral venue. Sharing the cost is the right thing to do.
Good Day, well i can say each situation is unique coupled by and with different dynamics, i have hosted couples and been hosted by couples, so it is situation dependant, lets take an example of couples having kids and need a space away, or a hotel space or my place, basically a place where everyone in that moment feels comfortable, to explore their desires. xx
Good evening, there are some good constructive comments giving perspective from all sides. I personally have hosted and couples who mainly wanted discretion where they leave their private lives to live out a fantasy or just unwind. For me respect all round is paramount and as long as we were comfortable fun was had!
