In Centurion area & a big voyeur. Would love a discrete watching session to watch a couple in public with not involvement expected unless wanted.

There is a first for everything but I never figured you a virgin lol

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Mmmmmm and the results of words can be orgasmic to say the least. 🔥 Especially when beautifully spoken in an eloquent, intense voice or written with passion. Never underestimate the power of the mind. It is the most powerful sex organ after all 😏

Did you just cum in your brain or in your pants?! I appreciate your focus on intellect and mental connection as key components of attraction. It's refreshing to engage with someone who values stimulating conversations and deep connections. Looking forward to exploring our intellectual chemistry further!

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I know of many men that are Sapiosexual, most only realise it when they meet an intelligent woman they are sexually attracted to as well.

Intelligence is not a linear thing. It’s dynamic & varied!!

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Seen many ladies describe themselves as “Sapiosexual” I have never encountered a single male use this in their profile to describe themselves.

A sapiosexual is someone who is primarily attracted to intelligence or intellectual qualities in others. Additionally, sapiosexuals may prioritize mental and emotional connections over physical attraction when it comes to forming relationships or being attracted to others.

Practically speaking how does this play out with an encounter with a fellow swinger? I’m curious to find out more from those who see themselves as one.

So everyone knows what a MILF is & many have finding one on their sexual radar. Why however has FILFs not become a thing? Fathers deserve a guilt free fuck too lol

Hey there, amazing sexy, horny “beautiful” people!

I hope this message finds you all smiling and having a great day with lots of multiple orgasms.

Now, let's dive into some lighthearted fun, shall we?

I've got a quirky question for all you beautiful souls out there. We all know that beauty comes in all shapes, sizes, and forms, and sometimes looks can be deceiving! So, here's the big question of the day: do beautiful women have a secret crush for "ugly" men? 🤔😂 My own best & memorable sexual experiences have been with ladies who don’t meet the “Playboy Magazine “ definition of beautiful.

Now, I use the term "ugly" with the utmost irony and affection and respect because, let's be real, beauty truly lies in the eye of the beholder - & I’m probably borderline ugly too lol It's those quirks, idiosyncrasies, and unique personalities that make someone truly captivating.

So, let's celebrate the power of individuality! Share your thoughts, anecdotes, or just have a laugh with us. Let's break down those superficial barriers and celebrate the magic that lies within every person! 🙌🎉

Remember, this is all in good spirits, with a splash of humor! Let's keep the conversation respectful, friendly, and loving. Spread those good vibes and remember, everyone is beautiful in their own way! What is the best “ugly” sex you had?

Can't wait to read what funny, sexy, amazing insights and experiences you all have to share. Let the fun begin! 😄💬✨

#EmbracingIndividuality #BeautyBeyondLooks #LoveAndLaughter

Hello sexy people. Be as frisky as a springbok on the skip this Monday morning 🇿🇦

Great thread. Personally we are all made in Gods image so race shouldn’t be a factor. A pet hate are profiles that proudly proclaim to be “open minded” but then also claim to “not cross the racial barrier.” The term itself “racial barrier” is such a social constructive. There is no “barrier” or “line” only the one these people create in their minds. As a game I play “guess the race” by looking a pussy & dick pics & 90% of the time I’m wrong. They all look the the same too.

Couldn’t agree more. In fact even non-swinging social media platforms have as much a risk for data & identity theft & harassment. Bring in the swinging element & the risks get compounded. Had a terrible experience personally (not SH specific) where an attempt at extorting money was made by individuals purporting to be Cops with a claim of a sexual assault case being opened against me. Matter was resolved & turned out to be a popular extortion racket but much better to be safe than sorry. Swingers need to respect anyones choice as far as how much information they put into the public domain. Quote by fadnad

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"Why worry? We are all on here for the same thing".

Bull dust. Mrs works in an industry, where WITHOUT men knowing that she is in the lifestyle - she is bombarded on a weekly basis by married vanilla men flirting and propositioning.

If they were to find out what she enjoys in her sexy time, she would NEVER be able to get her vocation concluded without some sort of "this for that" propositions by men.
And people talk. Its irrelevant that they might be swingers themselves, but you can bet your bottom dollar that the conversation they have with arbitrary people go something along the lines of "...I heard from my friend that's a Swinger that Suzie is a swinger! Can you believe that shit? Never knew she was so wild". People like to talk and make themselves feel better about having a perceived upper hand over somebody. Its a human condition. We just prefer not to give anybody any ammo.

We have also been the target of harassment by nefarious individual who used our very intimate and private images in an attempt to gain some level of control over us. After getting that matter sorted legally, we opt to not have anything that ties us to the profile on public display.

There is also a couple on SH that use our face pics to pass off as their own. Imagine our surprise when good friends sent us a screenshot of a Whatsapp convo they were having with this couple, who had sent them our image as they proudly remarked "Hierdie is Ons". I hope they read this. Because they know very well who we are and we suspect they know that we know. Karma is a bitch you twats. Can't understand their logic in doing so. What are they hoping will happen when they lure an unsuspecting person/s to a meeting? Can't buy brains or class we guess.

It's soo crazy to hear how many couples have be blackmailed or pics stolen or been taking advantage of

From a law side just so you guys know if someone used your photos with out permission with the new law it's jail time of 5 years if found guilty ask how do we know we had our photos stolen and been decent people we sent the profile a msg to ask him to remove them and he sent us back a big FU so hubby been in the tracking industry we tracked down the guy and sent him a lawyers letter and he very quickly took them down the crazy thing is he is still on sh and his profile has a tick next to it

You have to develope very thick skin on sh or the crazy people on here will put you off the lifestyle and swinging but it's the same on every website of swinging

Which mall bathrooms are the best to hookup in ? I’ve found the family bathrooms or disabled bathrooms in both my local Malls the best. Got the best “tongue massage” aka BJ in a disabled toilet in a mall after making friends on SH. Any other mall bathroom stories?

Point about friend requests is noted but I consider it skin to a wink at the bar in the real world. It’s an admission of interest before invading personal space. Anyhow there is overwhelming negativity about “friend requests” & other system generated messages so SH should remove this functionality.

Ok but here is the catch: If anyone you know “recognized” you here and takes it further how do they explain being here themselves? Understand the irony but rather live & let live & mind one’s own business

Once you go others let you down lol Once you go black there is no turning back lol Once you go white everything is gonna be right 😂😂

Brazilians have no body confidence problems

They don’t call it “the naughty 40’s” for nothing lol

Hello friends. A thought: Age is just a number. My honest view is that older woman on SH are the sexiest. Nothing more attractive than an older woman with sexual confidence. Here I’m only referring to attitude not looks at all but add looks to the mix and even here older woman are the hottest. Being comfortable in your skin is sexy!!!

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Check my profile pics. 

Absolutely beautiful & sexy!! Thanks for sharing!!

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We show lots of photos and vids. 

Longtime admirer too. Lovely profile

Hello all you sexy & horny swingers. I need your help. I’m an unashamed perv looking for the best profiles with the most stunning media. Votes open!!! 

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If I'm not mistaken its been 15 months since the first Covid-19 infection was reported in South Africa. Like with many others we decided to suspend all in-person meets since March 2020 and have reached the stage where our social lives are non-existent.

 

Looking at the latest daily infection rates it is clear that we made the correct decision but at what price? We have been quite surprised by what an impact our social lives made on our general well-being as individuals and are starting to struggle with the constant isolation with zero sexy and fun interactions.

 

Would be interesting if other couples could share their experiences. 

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Sooner we vaccinate the sooner we play BUT a black mask does often feature in my saying. Maybe a nurses outfit will help too 😉

True... I will have to co-ordinate the mask, the outfit and my Jimmy Choo heels with each other.

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It seems as though I decided to explore this lifestyle ( and not only in my mind anymore ) at probably the worst time ever as now I'm comfortable enough to meet couples physically, yet the thought of covid lingers in the back of my mind, and I'm sure with most people as well. I think most people are still very cautious at the moment.

Personally it’s impossible to completely unwind and let the hair down & cock up in this context. Therefore have not played at with myself lol

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i now understand & agree but what about those “long term” partnerships? Does that line get crossed? 

 I think what Jimmy means is intense or passionate sex. I also prefer that. I hate being "fucked" it's not enjoyable and you don't have to be in love to have intense sex. For me it's about sexual chemistry. Some have it done don't. So I don't call it love making. 

What exactly is a cum tribute? 

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it’s very coincidental that over the last day a few profiles of beautiful blondes has been loaded all of which are single & all of which have two profile pics including a full face pic. Seems too good to be true. Take care out there swingers. 

it’s very coincidental that over the last day a few profiles of beautiful blondes has been loaded all of which are single & all of which have two profile pics including a full face pic. Seems too good to be true. Take care out there swingers. 

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