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If I'm not mistaken its been 15 months since the first Covid-19 infection was reported in South Africa. Like with many others we decided to suspend all in-person meets since March 2020 and have reached the stage where our social lives are non-existent.

 

Looking at the latest daily infection rates it is clear that we made the correct decision but at what price? We have been quite surprised by what an impact our social lives made on our general well-being as individuals and are starting to struggle with the constant isolation with zero sexy and fun interactions.

 

Would be interesting if other couples could share their experiences. 

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Sooner we vaccinate the sooner we play BUT a black mask does often feature in my saying. Maybe a nurses outfit will help too 😉

True... I will have to co-ordinate the mask, the outfit and my Jimmy Choo heels with each other.

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It seems as though I decided to explore this lifestyle ( and not only in my mind anymore ) at probably the worst time ever as now I'm comfortable enough to meet couples physically, yet the thought of covid lingers in the back of my mind, and I'm sure with most people as well. I think most people are still very cautious at the moment.

Personally it’s impossible to completely unwind and let the hair down & cock up in this context. Therefore have not played at with myself lol

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i now understand & agree but what about those “long term” partnerships? Does that line get crossed? 

 I think what Jimmy means is intense or passionate sex. I also prefer that. I hate being "fucked" it's not enjoyable and you don't have to be in love to have intense sex. For me it's about sexual chemistry. Some have it done don't. So I don't call it love making. 

What exactly is a cum tribute? 

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it’s very coincidental that over the last day a few profiles of beautiful blondes has been loaded all of which are single & all of which have two profile pics including a full face pic. Seems too good to be true. Take care out there swingers. 

it’s very coincidental that over the last day a few profiles of beautiful blondes has been loaded all of which are single & all of which have two profile pics including a full face pic. Seems too good to be true. Take care out there swingers. 

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 an oldie with a new question: Which are the best days/tunes to visit the chat room & why? 

i now understand & agree but what about those “long term” partnerships? Does that line get crossed? 

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Don't think you will find that here......... 


Love making is something swingers reserve for their partners. If a swinging couple swap or invite an extra, then it's sex purely for pleasure. As swingers (ie a couple) it is important to know the difference and keep the two separate. 


Huggs and sloppy wet kisses 
Sam 

 Wise words. There is definitely a line to be drawn. Thanks gor the insight. 

Whatever happened to good old fashioned intense love making??Everyone seems to want to fuck!!! Am I alone in yearning for more love making less fucking? 

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I used to have them all on public but due to too many bs I moved them back to private according to me there is a face pic still

 I see one now. Thanks. At a personal level I simply avoid making judgements as people have their own battles to fight daily. 

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for me it's an easy question no face no chat dick pick get you on my block list

 Many have the same approach as you yet your profile doesn’t have a face pic? 

Being around a while but will say “hi” nonetheless. A question: Is no pick on profile better than a dick pic? 

Jimmy Choo is a famous ladies shoe brand....& I love feet/heels. 

Check out Sexyvenue4play online 

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Love to been watch

 Would love to watch” 

Hello swingers 

Came across a lovely book on Sex Addiction something I never considered before. In fact there’s a fine line between between addiction & Non addiction as far as sexy goes.

Serious question: if we accept addiction as compulsive uncontrollable behavior for a “fix,” is there anyone on here considers him/herself a sex addict that genuinely wants to change but cannot? Very keen to hear opinions. 

Pleasure & pain is all part of the same equation. We are all wired differently. Puss your point about “deep” wallets for any sexy lady makes for deep penetration....with obligatory heels on. I have bought a few ladies on here heels....just for the thrill of getting into a shoe store & asking the assistant to put them on to check out the style. You will be surprised at how many agree. Ladies here who revived a pair of heels from a stranger live showing off their feet in heels sent by a random stranger. Even more so if they have my cum sprayed all over them. The length of toes helps but ladies with big curved arched feet takes the experience to the next level - those curves are often the result of wearing hearts.  The two feet together with their natural curved arch make for a complete circle which any cock will thoroughly enjoy being wrapped around by. I really like your open mindedness Puss. Need a pair boots??? 😉

He Jess. Great share. I love that position too namely feet on chest while thrusting. I do however take it step up & inevitably end up with a mouth full of toes!!! Climax inside while sucking toes is so gratifying. Browsing through a shoe shop for me is like attending Sexpo. Bought a few ladies here shoes on proviso they allow me to come on the heels & send me a pic of them wearing the heels. Too nice!!! 

I’m extremely turned on by feet, heels, stockings & the like. Foot worship is a really gratifying deed for the worshipers. A foot job is also something special. For meet it’s the varying texture underfoot which heightens intensity. A bit like using a ribbed condom. My number one foot fantasy is to take a Goddess heel shopping.....preferably if she has no panties....helping her to try on as many pairs as possible. Already hard typing this!!!

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I have watched Beth have sex with others for almost 15 years.,I’m not a cuck. I just love watching her fuck. Anyone like doing that?

 and by golly is she not a beautiful one to watch??

so assuming the sign is a black ring? What would be an ideal approach to someone wearing one?

I suspect it was a marketing ploy lol

So a colleague told me about a particular swinging society in an elite gated estate where members of the swinging community tend to have Carol Boyce door handles on their front doors as a “secret” indication of their participation in the swinging lifestyle. Urban legends or do members of the lifestyle have these secretive ways of inviting other members in?

Well said. Sexual wants & desires I suppose are as unique as DNA or a fingerprint. Each to their own & hope someone or some people out there is/are close enough to be sexually compatible 

PiB you may wear sexy black & red boots but my sense from this thread is you have a heart of pure gold. Lovely judgement free interactions. Thanks

My comment was figurative drawing inference from the of interracial relationships in many quarters. Great forum thread PiB

Not bothered at all but totally enlightened & impressed with your knowledge. A rainbow community of kink behavior it seems. So much color to play with yet “colour mixing” remains a . Oh the irony!!