Welcome to my profile.

I'm a confident man who is direct, honest, and knows what he wants. I'm passionate about exploring all facets of sensuality and connection. For me, great sex is a two-way street, and that starts with amazing foreplay. I genuinely enjoy taking the time to explore each other's desires and build up the intensity. I'm a firm believer that the best experiences come from open communication and mutual respect. DO NOT LET my profile name fool you - I've had people ask if I wear high heels (go figure).

What I'm Looking For: I'm interested in meeting single women or couples who are also looking for some exciting, safe, and consensual fun. I'm open to being a 'third' and am happy to fit into your dynamic. Whether you're experienced in the lifestyle or just starting to explore, I'm happy to chat and see if our interests align. Let's connect and discuss what a fun evening could look like for all of us.

I'm a confident and respectful man with a passion for travel and a great sense of humor. I've been exploring the swinging lifestyle for a couple of years and have had some amazing experiences. I'm a good conversationalist, an even better cunnilinguist, a great listener, and I pride myself on being a gentleman in all situations.

I'm primarily interested in connecting with ladies or couples for soft and full swaps. I'm open to same-room play, just fun dates, oral only fun, or foreplay only situations. I've really enjoyed, and have had tonnes of great fun without having to put my **** into a lady. So if you're a first timer or a lady who is super paranoid about safety (sexual and physical) contact me.

I'm happy to meet in public for drinks or coffee and see wher things go. Chemistry and a connection are important to me. I am mostly interested in a sensual relationship than a wham bam thank you maam kind of night.

I'd like to have a long term play partner/s compared to a once off, but not completely averse.

I love a woman who exudes style - it doesnt have to be Versace - even something from Mr Price will do - as long as you know how to pull it off (pardon the pun).

I am also well versed in cuckoldery, so couples looking for that scene are invited to contact me.

Happy to travel almost anywhere around Cape Town. Please dont ask for face pics if you dont have one on your profile. I am willing to share my contact details and meet, on our first message interaction. I chat via email or what s ap p. If you dont have messages left but click the like button, I will share my contact details with you.

I am very openminded - try me - almost nothing shocks me.