Cape Town guy who prefers a bit of chemistry before anything else. I’ve been in the lifestyle for a couple of years and enjoy meeting women and couples (str pan flex) for relaxed, sensual meets that can stay soft or go further, depending on the vibe. I’m more interested in a good connection and an unhurried experience than a quick one-off, though I’m easygoing either way. Happy to start with a message or two, then a coffee or a drink if we click. Low pressure, no rush. I’m discreet, clean, and a...