Hi there LifeStyleWorldWide, welcome to the platform.

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As much as I enjoy watching her with other men, I am now at the stage where I want to "not watch" - excuse myself from the room so that she can give herself to him completely and enjoy the sex to the max.... that would be such a thrill to me.... knowing she is alone with him (maybe doing things she doesnt do with me) and enjoying herself.

What, if anything, would entice you to stay? Surely experiencing something together is a bonding experience?

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My Mrs ordered the last guy she fucked to suck me in the middle of the MMF - it was so hot!!!. Now she wants the complete show!

Never wanted to be in CT more than right now...

I will check it out again tomorrow or Friday to see of they at least sorted the lighting. I'll also ask the lady who runs it if we can somehow arrange exclusions on the "no ladies in the open-ish area" rule if we had cause...

I have had a few dogging adventures, worst case you have a good, well deserved wank out in the open, but more often than not you get to play and be played with.

Mixed bag in terms of feedback - I was there for about 20 min, no-one pitched.

The facilities are "kinda" operational - their individual booths are not operational, but the "lounge" is. The lounge is open plan and kinda roomy. They also had a lighting problem, which made me decide not to hang and watch some porn, and they only have a single hetero-friendly dvd.

Oh yes, and ladies aren't allowed in the lounge, only the booths - because the rules....

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Tell us how was AW Vanderbijlpark

I will give feedback afterwards

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Us men are fickle .....when ur partner has small boobs u crave for big tits ...when ur wife has big knockers u want small or petit boobs ..its all about wanting what u don't have ...I am all for variety!

I don't know much, Meneer, but what I do know is that your lady is pretty much perfect...

I will be at the AW in Vanderbijlpark from 11-12 on Monday 28 Nov., hoping for more than just a semi-public self-love session. All welcome, regardless of orientation, identity, or any other demographic...

First things first - all boobs are sexy.

Having said that, I have a thing for B and C cup boobies - I feel I can give them the attention they deserve, you feel me?

I'd love to join a couple for some puff-and-play, or even bake-and-bonk

You and me both, buddy!

Does anyone know if the booths at Adult World in Vanderbijlpark are still operational? If so, are they a viable meeting place? 

Thank you for this post, I find it very useful. Nothing worse than doing the wrong thing and wondering why shit ain't working...

I agree with @ruffnmuff on the filming thing. My vanilla life is a powder keg when it comes to this activity, the last thing I want is to be on video in a way that exposes my identity.

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Totally off topic.. I can't imagine why anyone would want to be something or someone the are not. There's someone out there for everyone.. I'm so proudly Indian...I'll never hide my race .. what was the guy expecting...

On another note..I've had the pleasure of meeting some of the best single guys the site has.. respectable and honest.

Thanks for the vote of confidence in us less-neanderthal-like single guys... That little race-related detour confused me too...

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Sadly a lot of men think respect isn't needed when talking with a lady from a site like this.

Men, posting here does not make women cheap or easy. Respect goes a long way.

I fully agree - "hey babe, wanna see my fuckpole!" doesn't qualify as respecting the lady, just for the guys who were unclear...

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Ok we have been on this site for some time and we have met some stunning gents couples and girls I agree there are a few (60%) that don’t deserve

To be on the site due to the way they speak to each other anyway but let’s be honest it is not just the gents(maybe majority)but I have had some pretty

Horrible replies from couples and single girls on here to me it is simple this is a form for us to communicate with other likeminded individuals and setup

Meet ext. if you don’t wat to be part of this leave if you don’t want to leave it is us as a community to block you and make you leave.

We are here to have real fun !!!!!

Sir, Ma'am, I salute you.

I have found that I have been checking for anklets at work, and it occurred to me that it would actually take quite a bit of courage for someone to wear an anklet to the office.

So Ladies, for my education (if you would be so kind), please weigh in on the conversation - are anklets universal? do all hotwives wear them? do you always wear them, or are there contexts where you would rather not?

Yours in patient anticipation,

Brian....

Today is a particularly good day - I met Sabrina. More accurately, Sabrina told me her name.

"What the fuck does that have to do with me?" I hear you ask - glad you did...

I am a treasure hunter - I am a motorcycle commuter, and have been for almost 500 000 Kms, give or take 12 years on and off. And in those 12 years I have seen some really sexy things in traffic - treasures, if you will.

Back to Sabrina. She's a young girl, mid- to late-twenties, and I happened to stop next to her car in traffic (the M2 south in Jozi was a fucking parking lot) and her window was open - so I greeted her warmly and commiserated with her position, and when the tonsil in the grey 3 series accidentally gave me a gap, I rode on.

As things would have it, I found that if I leave the office at 5, I will eventually pass her on the M2 and we'd wave at each other. Today, however, she changed lanes when I was coming up behind her, wound down her window, and said "Hi, I'm Sabrina!"

I was almost reduced to horny schoolboy levels of non-conversant mumbling, but quickly regained my composure and returned the greeting. Treasure! I have a traffic flirtation in flight! I can't wait to see how this plays out...

This brings me to the purpose of this post - Traffic Treasures, and Traffic Treasure Hunting.

I think this is an under-celebrated phenomenon. It is, if you think about it, super sexy. Think of the buzz from driving bra-less in a loose-fitting top (not you Steve, I'm talking to Stephanie now, sit down) and not caring that other drivers or the bike that just pulled up next to you gets a peek at your perfectly formed breast and erect, beady nipple... or you, Steve, driving with your tackle out and hard...

Have you ever just caught the eye of someone sitting right next to their SO, and they blush from making eye contact? And the SO gets the proud glow of a stag that notices his lady being noticed? Or does the cuckold squirm? Or is just plain oblivious? So fucking hot, yeah?

Please keep this thread rock hard, or plump and moist, with your tales of finding, or being, treasure in traffic...

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Get blok but they still look at your profile ones a week. Why blok if you go on and stalk the persone profile or like new pics he ad to his profile. That is a mystery for me

Dude, if they block me I block them. I got blocked by a couple and the only thing that makes sense is that I posted a status (on my profile, not on a group, forum, their page, or a message) saying I am looking for something that was in their "we will block you if you message us for this" list

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Look not all single guys are bad we had a few 3some with single guys but we had to filter them as some guys just doesn't have manners and they don't know how to speak to a lady. It's like they think when you are a lady on this site you are cheap and easy it's not the case we are here for the fun and pleasure and the excitement. So advice to some guys think about the way you approach the conversation and do not tell the women how hard you are going to fuck her and what you intend to do to her coz honestly 90% of you can't last 2 min and can not smoke the pipe(All show and no go). Think how would you feel if it was your wife and another man speaks to her in that manner

Well put! I think there may be a strong correlation between a rude/arrogant/disrespectful manner and an inability to perform.

Frozen

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Most definitely. There are some couples here who also have no manners and a lack of respect

Respect is a two-way street. It is understandable that couples get fed up with the endless drove of blue-balled knuckle-draggers that think "Hey babe, wanna fuck" is a viable line. They should also consider that their defensiveness can be aggressive and hurtful. I have been treated like shit by more than one couple, quite justified from their perspective I'm sure, but for no good reason other than that I was not a couple or a girl...

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No I feel been a bf is different then a regular bull don't you agree we have regular bulls and single ladies but don't consider them our bf and gf

I take that, you are right. So this starts blurring the line between polly and swinging then? So unless a gf or bf is shared (in other words, at least one of the couple is bi and into the third party as much as the spouse) it isn't on?

I get that, because you don't want emotional bonds under the surface - that's looking for trouble.

Obviously there would be much more opportunity for fun with a bi couple having a bi boyfriend, you know, simple math, but that doesn't mean that the wife having a boyfriend is any less acceptable - in effect, he's her regular bull then, no?

the 99% are giving the 1% a bad name...

Is this too much to hope for? A dominant wife that would watch, and direct, me and her hubby playing?

I was in Edenvale unexpectedly yesterday and popped into one of the sex shops in the main road that had viewing facilities, you know - field work for the community.

Turns out they don't have a glory hole, but they have couple friendly (emphatically asserted by the store operator) viewing booths, and they don't lock properly (good thing, bad thing, you decide). I learnt this because I walked in on a dude - if I had more presence of mind I probably would not have sheepishly apologised and left...

Anyway, this may present some alternatives to a glory hole, or the store may even be open to providing this service for the community?

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Oh well, time to go see if anyone turns up - worst case I will be masturbating in public, but obviously hoping for more

Mildly disappointing. I ended up being the only person there... No worries, got some good wanking pics and vids. I will post them on my profile soon

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I want to get a regular (weekly/monthly) dogging meet going at the DP De Villiers stadium in Sasolburg. This is an open meet, and everyone is welcome no matter your gender and orientation.

There is an open area behind the stadium on the southern side (the hospital side, if you know the area), when you arrive, please park and open your driver side door.

Friday 28 October, 8am

Oh well, time to go see if anyone turns up - worst case I will be masturbating in public, but obviously hoping for more