Quote by Katznbunnies

For the people asking why single guys get such a rough time....

I give you exhibit "A"🙄

I see what you did there - Exhibit "A", awesome

Quote by Dazza_81

I’m going to give Fetish havens day play party a go on the 28th. Who has been? Is it a good jol? Or who is also going?

I am toying with the idea - did you go? What was it like?

I was at work the other day and figured out of the over 1000 people in my building, at least one MUST be on this site? I would love to have a naughty connection at work, but the risks of cultivating that connection in terms of HR exposure if you misjudge the situation.... I don't have appetite for that...

Quote by jayjay15x

Where?

Bro, you are quite the archaeologist - this thread dates back to 2021...

But to echo your question:

"Where?"

Apparently the viewing lounge has been cleaned, and there are people there sometimes, but I have yet to actually run into someone there

Bro, my friend is keen, drop me a or telegram so I can put you in contact

Quote by F1Fan

Is there any place offering naked sushi? As in the Mrs and I would like to eat sushi off a naked girl and she would then like to play with her.

Sir, I have a connection that specialises in making things like this come to pass - I am dropping you my t/gram deets

Quote by NordicBull

Wife sharing for Newbies

Having been in the lifestyle now for many years and being the bull/play mate for cuckold/stag&vixen/MFM couples now for about eight years and being lucky enough to successfully introduce many South African couples into wife sharing, I get many questions from curious newbie couples. There’s a couple pieces of advice I’d like to give.

The first is good communication between the couple. Open and honest talks not just in sexual situations but over coffee with your clothes on. Everything sounds sexy and hot in bed but the true realities need to be understood. It’s no small deal to have another man, especially if the idea is for him to be bigger and better than hubby in bed. Quality bulls are very confident and charismatic with women and that is a huge turn on for most wives that haven’t had that kind of attention from strange men since getting married. The idea of having sex with such men can be a huge aphrodisiac. How I see it is the bulls not just trying to get into her panties but also her and your head. The same open and honest communication should also be held between any potential candidates. Ask questions, share interest, disclose fears and limits. On that note, some things can and should be negotiated. But never the hard limits for the wife, the stag/cuck or the bull.

Ignore bulls until you and your wife have agreed on the ground rules that work for you. Never let some bull push you into something you are not comfortable with; kick that guy out and seek out someone who is aligned to your relationship. Bulls can be replaced, but if you let some jackass wreck your relationship then you have a lot of repair to do.

Secondly, patience, patience and more patience. It’s easy to find a willing hard dick but a heck lot harder to find a true bull. A man that gets and understands the dynamic. He should truly understand that what’s done is not just for his or the wife’s pleasure but all three of you. Sometimes that means just allowing the husband to witness his wife being taken. Sometimes it’s more involved, verbal communication and sometimes even physical interaction. These are some of the things that need to be discussed prior to anything happening in the moment. At the end of a good encounter everyone should walk away satisfied feeling they got their needs met.

Just go for bulls that have at least 3-4 vouches from SH couples. Not vouches from singles, as it is a very different thing to play with couples. If not enough vouches from couples, you might end up with a person who can't get hard or cums too quickly. This is unfortunately very common so be diligent, you want the first experiences to be great. Even check with the couples who played with and get a reference from them via a message.

Third, look out for exploiters. There are a lot of guys who assume that cuckold couples are just an easy source of pussy. They may put on a surface effort of understanding the cuckold dynamic, but what they are really after is to shove the husband aside and fuck the wife just to get some pussy. So dig in, ask your prospective bull what they enjoy about cuckolding a couple, besides getting some pussy.

It is NEVER a good idea to have some bull try to seduce your wife as a way to get her interested in cuckolding. Go talk to her about your feelings and desires. If you cannot be honest enough to just talk about it, you will not survive the real thing.

Lastly, cuckolding (or any kind of open relationship) is an amplifier for what is already happening in your relationship. If your relationship is strong, it will get stronger. If your relationship has problems, the problems will get worse. So, never try wife sharing to try to fix your problems, go fix your problems and then come back.

Happy wife sharing and don't hesitate to reach out if you want to discuss further.

Cheers, Nordicbull

Amen, brother!

Quote by Boeslaboes

Hello there. Very new to this but hoping to meet some wonderful girls/ guys and couples.

Stay in Roodepoort area so might be in contact with you if we like whatb we see.

Looking for friends first and then we will see.

Welcome to the platform, hope you have an awesome time

Quote by haveusbc

im not sure why some of you are concerned that you are blocked..why waste energy on somebody that clearly does not want to inter act with you...i dont give it a 2nd thought

i think we some times forget that we are all from different walks of life...so more wealthy....some more educated ....some more polite ..the list goes on...and i think we all make the mistake from time to time that we are all on the same social level....we are not

Return the favour - someone block you, you block them straight back and be done with them.

For those attending on Friday, look out for a t-shirt saying "Never fear, the beard is here". You are welcome to come up to me and introduce yourself. I will be there from 12 - 3, give or take

I will be going on Friday

Quote by Sensitive

My profile def says bisexual, but have had many contacts from straight couples where hubby only wants to play alone, after close to 18 years in the "lifestyle" have only met one truly bi couple. think it's easier to find a Unicorn.

Truth

Quote by L24Fun

Here for fun! Not squash or hide n seek!

Wow, that's pretty harsh!

Quote by KevinNikki8388

Hello everyone, we are brand new to the site.

Welcome, may you meet awesome people and have heaps of sweaty, steamy sex

Quote by seelang

Hello. I am new to the site.

Welcome, wishing you a fulfilling time here

I am looking for recommendations for professional manscaping services in Southern Gauteng. I know that a couple dozen girls offer this as an additional services to their sensual massages, which may be okay for clipper work, but that's not the product I'm after.

I am looking for someone that is trained, professional, and discreet. Your referral will be greatly appreciated.

Quote by nerowp

Where all the bi curious older men in there late 50s for fun mfm

You called?

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Hi guys where is the workshop

This ad was posted in 2017, not sure if it is still valid

Quote by BeWithUs

We are Game. Let me know how I can help! Start small and will grow. I Also have a VENUE . Has swimming pool, secluded in the open farm by the River. Toilets and showers available and braai areas ,camping maybe suggested. Just an idea. Who can or normally organizes I so can prepare for 👀😛

Wow, awesome

Quote by Shukra

This is truly the most annoying for me. I usually ask to chat to the wife but then get long ass stories about why she can't 🤦🏾‍♀️

And then they're salty when you call them disingenuous for creating a false impression.

It is amazing how far a little bit of manners, and maybe a dash of EQ can go...

I was planning to go, but sadly I won't be in Gauteng that weekend anymore. I was going to cosplay as Retired Kratos...

This is one of those sad zombie threads where the OP has left the building, they seem to have deleted the original post even...

We call on a new couple, or new couples, to own this thread. I, for one, would love to spend some quality time with a bi couple, and many others on the platform too.

Be a sport, have an adventure, adopt this thread!

Quote by oldduckgoat

I want to go to a Glory hole just to see what goes on. Have been told go with a few people you know, My man took me to one and there was no one there.😢

This is often the case, but if you post your intent on the Dogging Venues page you may have better luck

Quote by Jacobs66

Hi everyone. Forum newbie. We are a couple looking for a single male to be our regular playmate. More of a boyfriend experiance than a wham bam.

Welcome to the platform - I am sure you will have your pick of volunteers.

Quote by fadnad

Please explain more what is a FLR relationship

@Fadnad, it is when the traditional leadership roles are switched, where the Lady assumes full financial, social, and sexual leadership of the relationship.

Quote by SquirtleKitty

What on earth is a FLR. Shit now I need to google it 😅😂

Female Lead Relationship

Good, solid advice there, thanks for contributing. I find that single guys are often their own worst enemy on the platform - and that results in everyone being tarred with the same brush, which is unhelpful.

I agree that a well constructed message is paramount, but I would add - make sure you target your efforts at those that are at least not exclusionary towards singles. It is hard to tell sometimes, but you can get some pretty venomous responses if you get it wrong.

Quote by AlternativeFun

O yes veery much enjoy watching guys please each other. Normally i help the guys to get ready and then coach or just watch, or join where possible. Usually ends up with me enjoying them both or all 3

My dream play-date is where the wife takes a dominant role and directs hubby and me