I was planning to go, but sadly I won't be in Gauteng that weekend anymore. I was going to cosplay as Retired Kratos...

This is one of those sad zombie threads where the OP has left the building, they seem to have deleted the original post even...

We call on a new couple, or new couples, to own this thread. I, for one, would love to spend some quality time with a bi couple, and many others on the platform too.

Be a sport, have an adventure, adopt this thread!

Quote by oldduckgoat

I want to go to a Glory hole just to see what goes on. Have been told go with a few people you know, My man took me to one and there was no one there.😢

This is often the case, but if you post your intent on the Dogging Venues page you may have better luck

Quote by Jacobs66

Hi everyone. Forum newbie. We are a couple looking for a single male to be our regular playmate. More of a boyfriend experiance than a wham bam.

Welcome to the platform - I am sure you will have your pick of volunteers.

Quote by fadnad

Please explain more what is a FLR relationship

@Fadnad, it is when the traditional leadership roles are switched, where the Lady assumes full financial, social, and sexual leadership of the relationship.

Quote by SquirtleKitty

What on earth is a FLR. Shit now I need to google it 😅😂

Female Lead Relationship

Good, solid advice there, thanks for contributing. I find that single guys are often their own worst enemy on the platform - and that results in everyone being tarred with the same brush, which is unhelpful.

I agree that a well constructed message is paramount, but I would add - make sure you target your efforts at those that are at least not exclusionary towards singles. It is hard to tell sometimes, but you can get some pretty venomous responses if you get it wrong.

Quote by AlternativeFun

O yes veery much enjoy watching guys please each other. Normally i help the guys to get ready and then coach or just watch, or join where possible. Usually ends up with me enjoying them both or all 3

My dream play-date is where the wife takes a dominant role and directs hubby and me

Quote by SquirtleKitty

My current fantasy

Go to the movies alone and decide to have a quick play session since there is no one around mid morning show, so while watching the movie I start fingering myself. I see someone waking up to my row and sit up straight as he takes a seat a few chairs away. I discreetly continue playing but when I look over he has his huge cock out and is stroking himself while watching me. We play together, faster and faster. Our bodies arching and breathe catching as we cum.

We have a mutual orgasm and then just watch the movie and smile secretly at each other as we leave. ☺️

My WORD, this is hot

Quote by SquirtleKitty

It’s sexy as fuck 🥵

I would be happy to help you fulfil this for yourselves, if it is your thing. Message me, let's discuss?

Quote by SquirtleKitty

I love videos and pics of men jerking for my pleasure 😏 sexy as fuck hearing them heavy breathing and whimpering my and when they cum 💦

There are one or two of those on my profile, you are welcome to check them out

Did someone say "Older bi top?"

Quote by Slowvelder69

Why do you think would a straight male view another Straight male profile, like the pictures and or like the profile? I for one clearly state that I am straight with no interest in Men!

Dude, if you show it, you will get comments - it's not the end of the world...

Great stuff! Have an orgasmic time!!!

@Lekkerspeel37, so sorry you are so far away, I would have loved to introduce this very exciting activity to you

Quote by Lekkerspeel37

This will be a first for us, however a great idea to get into the lifestyle 🤣

I agree totally - I am up-front about my situation, people that don't have the appetite for my situation are welcome to give me a miss. It just removes so much drama, and some people that have very strict no-single-or-playing-alone-male policies have actually connected with me. So much so that I'm meeting a couple for coffee soon that would have generally had nothing to do with me because of people like the ones you mention.

Quote by BikerBrian

One of my favourite things to do, wanking out in the wild

I'm about to go play at my favourite spot again...

Please put me on your list too

Cup and Apple for scale ;-)

Mine

One of my favourite things to do, wanking out in the wild

So much whining will be avoided if people were just honest from the start - If you're bi, say so, if you're gay, don't say you're bi or straight.

If you're married and your wife doesn't know you're playing - for fucks sake, don't create a couples profile, you're not swinging as a couple!

Sad state of affairs, but as long as the site doesn't require id and real world identity it will remain that way. They can clean the user base up, but then they will not be able to claim to be the biggest swinger site in the world. I guess we know what that means...

As a Bi guy I can't tell you how many times I have been propositioned by "straight" guys. Shit happens, man.

Thanks, this is very important - I am aware of one or two items in my pics that may be recognised by folks who have had zoom calls with me. They have bothered me, but not enough to do something about it, until now.

"Sexy" is a mindset - I have been with people with virtually perfect bodies and looks, and I might as well have been banging a mattress, and I've been with "not at all a model" people and had the most energetic, kinky, physical-and-cerebral sexual experiences ever.

I have also had hot, steamy sex with the "pretty" folk and shockingly bad sex with the "ordinary" folk.

People that only go by appearance are probably too shallow to have a good debauch with anyway - and they're probably going to be surprised that Ken and Barbie have the sense sexual adventure of a plastic doll

Quote by ruffnmuff

The anklets are meaningless today. You could end up being slapped silly by some chick who has no idea of its original meaning.

Whahaha!! Thanks for the response. "Getting slapped by some chick" would be par for the course, tho.

To the two really hot ladies who were flirting with the big bearded guy in the queue at the motor vehicle licensing office in Sasolburg this morning, DM me, I wasn't able to engage in the conversation fully with my grown ass son standing next to me, he thinks I'm a good boy...

Quote by Archie_Cage

Is this place still open?

It is, I scouted it out a month or two ago to see what the couple-friendly glory-hole situation was (for another thread on this forum), and it is still open, and has couple-friendly viewing booths, no glory-hole tho

Quote by BlackCum

I have seen a lot of black women with bracelet on the ankle but with no clue at all about swinging lifestyle

There isn't a universal sign, as far as I understand. A black ring on the right hand (ring finger mostly, middle finger never) is also seen as an indicator, but these things should always be seen as hints, not signs.

Unless she's wearing a t-shirt that reads "It's not cheating if hubby watches", of course...