Amsterdam is next level amazing. Been way too long since we visited. But we'll fix that soon.

Nexxxus is also a new venue run by the amazing Sticky Toffee here on the site. Also upmarket and a brilliant vibe.

Our profile specifically says no winks and no friend requests unless we have met. Any person or persons that didn't even bother reading the opening line of our profile and sends us a wink or a friend request - gets blocked. If they cant be bothered to read...  how much are they going to suck in bed? I mean the wink feature is just such a confirmation at how lazy you are. Or that you are so desperate to cast as many nets as broadly and as quickly as possible. Blacklist sitting at over 500 and climbing. Our journey. Our rules. FIFO

One more: Try Sexual. Willing to try anything.

Thanks for this btw

For the love of everything holy do NOT Google Meltching or Meltcher. And if Munging crops up...   do not click on it. You were warned.

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Clicks now sells HIV test kits and together with Prep i think one can be pretty safe even without condoms . 

 With a window period of 2 weeks where commercially available rapid screening tests can't pick up infections - we would 1000% prefer/insist on playing safe. 

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A very comprehensive digest of what makes or breaks a couples experiences. Thank you for the input.

 Sorry it was a bit long. Got carried away a bit.

 A bit long? Thats what he said  :')

A very comprehensive digest of what makes or breaks a couples experiences. Thank you for the input.

Personally have nothing against any sexual preference. Straight / bi or gay. If it's consensual and not forbidden by the countries laws - embrace it and go for it if it feels good to you. Who cares what anybody thinks. If the activities happen in the privacy of your home or an environment when such is encouraged - its nobodies business anyways. 

Mrs2 expressed her fantasies of seeing me engaging (not penetrative - just manual and oral) with a guy. So we have explored. Turns out the fantasy was better in her imagination than how it played out before her. So we don't explore it any longer.

But... I am inclined to agree with Haveusbc. If you find yourself fantasising about a bi experience with another male; by strict sociative definitions, you are not 100% straight. Perhaps mildly bi-comfortable is a better term of reference? 

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we talk for sometime on what's app...that seems to work for us...

 We do too. We would never meet anybody without engaging with them first on some sort of messaging app. 

Ok. So we have all had them. The excuses that follow after somebody stands you up. 

We have had many. Ranging from: (while we are sitting the restaurant waiting for the couple for 15 minutes) "We have decided to take a break from the Lifestyle" to that old faithful "my car broke down".

Our best one had to be a single guy that failed to pitch for a playdate. Who then proceeded to message us the next day saying that his phone had been stolen and didn't know how to get hold of us. When we asked him how he'd then gotten our number from now...   he blocked us.

Whats your worst or most memorable?

Then you get people like this: https://www.swingingheaven.za.com/stories/swinging/naughty-fun-at-work

One observer commented: Nice story but you are playing  Russian Rollet without a condom! 

The OP's reply: "Thank you, yes I know hey. But it turns a person on even more if the risk is even bigger".

Can people REALLY be so stupid? Seriously?

@PoohC Thanks for the follow on Twitter  ;)

Yip. Both of us have. Mrs realized her sister was in the lifestyle a few years ago. I stumbled across my female cousin here on SH.

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A few times yes. There's a few people you may even recognize from your TV screens on here 😁

 You might recognise me from my Porno Movies....

I'm the bad camera man that can't keep still and takes allot of blurry out of focus shots! Lol

 Followed many of your Twitter links to your site vids. Very Sexy.

 Thank you! Glad you enjoy watching our vids because we enjoy making them. 

I'm not sure if you noticed in the Videos that i do all My Own Money Shots! Lol 

 We did  ;)

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A few times yes. There's a few people you may even recognize from your TV screens on here 😁

 You might recognise me from my Porno Movies....

I'm the bad camera man that can't keep still and takes allot of blurry out of focus shots! Lol

 Followed many of your Twitter links to your site vids. Very Sexy.

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Why would they drop you @2some4fun

 Your guess as good as ours

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BTW, I haven't seen any anyone from Netflix on here

 DSTV ;)

The last week ALONE...  2 x Single males.  They confirmed for drinks. Confirmed venues. Confirmed times. On the evenings in question - radio silence. 

A few times yes. There's a few people you may even recognize from your TV screens on here 😁

At a club in JHB (wont mention the name) possibly 3 years back we were watching through the voyeurs window. A rubenesque lady that was enjoying the attention of two fellas simultaneously. Every 5 minutes the guys swapping positions and taking turns satisfying different orifices - WITHOUT CHANGING CONDOMS! If you playing the back 9 and decide to take a swing at the front 9 fellas (and ladies)...  Don't forget the hygiene issues. 

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@PoohC  I  really should not say YOUNG people, but more young couples just married. I myself started out in my VERY early 20`s and all for the WRONG reasons aswell.

 Is there ever a "wrong reason" to liberate yourself and have fun though?

Our DP adventures are limited to anal and vaginal at the same time. Sensory overload is how Mrs 2Some describes it. Too Much Pleasure in two different places and she finds it difficult to focus on which orifice is feeling best. Suffices to say more exposure might help her to get used to the double sensory whammy. As @PoohC mentioned - finding a suitable "other cock" is often a challenge. Lol at the Stay Soft quip. But true.

The advent and proliferation of social media in the last 10 years means that information flow has extrapolated significantly. Hell...  I found out about swinging through an app. Considering how much time younger generations spend on their phones - it's natural that they would be exposed earlier. Swinging has become mainstream. It's no longer confined to private secretive chats and obscure messages in small ads in newspapers. 

If you know about the raunchy (and very risky/risque) games being played at teenage parties these days (rainbow / roll-on roll-off) you would get a clearer indication of how much earlier teens are being exposed to swapping and kinks.

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your lasr message to us was - all good things cum to those you wait ;)

 Perhaps resend a DM. We may have cleared some chats recently 

#FacePalm

So. Mrs 2 is starting to tingle for her annual/bi-annual gang bang. We've had 3 since she first got a hankering for multiple partners at one time.

So off I go in search. I set filters to Single Males / In Johannesburg / Straight / Age 30 - 45. Screen gets flooded. But what I notice is a LOT of guys have images on their profiles of themselves playing unprotected. Are people naive/ brazen or stupid?

In this day in age - in the lifestyle where multiple partners is a given...  seriously, who plays without a condom?

Some of the wifes of couples we have played with...   I would shag till the baby kicked me off!  So no qualms on the pregnacy aspects for Mr 2Some.

says sex is safe (assuming its an uncomplicated pregnancy) until the 3 trimester. If the lady is down to play....   shag away!

😂🤣 Just described the last 23 DMs weve had on Twitter 🤣😂

Our curiosity is piqued. Fess up!

Guess we so wrapped up in our own fantasies we forget there's peeps out there into their own kinks. 

So we all know what it means. And a lot of us use it on our bio's. But is there one person or one couple looking for Strings Attached fun? Isn't it a bit of a redundancy?