Dogging in KwaZulu-Natal | Swinging Heaven

Rocket12

New Germany nature reserve , nice safe spot for dogging fun

Upper Highway Area

Anything ever happen in the Upper Highway Area? Where do a young white couple go for some dogging fun?

Virginia

To the cpl in the white van sorry if i seemed a bit forward Gent in the white car ????

Anyone in and around dbn north looking to meet up... preferably someone who can host? Yes I post as anonymous, get over it. Why are there so many over reactors, this site is for adults surely ppl wouldn't be stupid enough to walk into a situation without at least receiving a msg from the person's account. I don't need 50 gross old men inboxing me. If I like your comment or response along with your profile I'll send you a msg. As for those "don't respond to anonymous posts" grow up and use your brain and be safe about it instead of hiding under the bed.

Virginia

To the couple last night. (Momday) You know who you are. Thank you. Was an awesome show. Look forward to meeting with you again for another.

KZN Dogging Muggings and Anonymity

The mugging incidents reported by Harry_Lorraine and DV8 this weekend are highly regrettable, but this is the kind of thing that I have been warning about for years. There is always an element of risk in dogging, which is why I have long promoted "arranged" dogging as a safer option than random meet-ups. We all need to take every reasonable precaution at all times! And unfortunately the concepts of "reasonable" and "precaution" seem to vanish into thin air when guys think with their dicks instead of their brains!!!! Is there any proof that the muggers are members of SH who have posted anonymously? I think it would be extremely difficult to prove something like that. It could just as easily be that regular criminal elements in society have recognised that there is activity taking place in the relatively secluded areas favoured by doggers, have sussed out the scene and found that there are plenty of easy targets out there, and are "cashing in" on this opportunity. This has been happening in the UK too, where muggers have targeted dogging sites, apparently knowing that their victims are unlikely to be willing to lay charges if they have to explain to the authorities what they were doing there.... It would appear that the option to post anonymously is a function of the SH site that is here to stay. There are occasionally legitimate circumstances where it may be necessary for members to be able to post certain information anonymously (and bear in mind that ALL dogging posts have to be approved by a moderator - the profile name is revealed to the moderator at the time of approval, but not whether the post will appear as "Anonymous" or not ). However, there seems to me to be no good reason why anyone wanting to meet up for dogging purposes, whether posting as a couple or as a single, needs to post an advert anonymously - your profile "nick" name provides you with that anonymity, unless you are wanting to mislead other members with your posting (i.e. the FAKE posts, by people never intending to actually be there, but rather getting their kicks out of messing other people around!). People who do so, need to get out of the habit of routinely posting anonymously.... So my suggestion is that we should all just IGNORE the anonymous posts, and consider that they are likely to be fake anyway. If they are ignored, and nobody rushes out to Virginia in the vain hope that "something might happen", then the anonymous posters will eventually get the message that they are wasting their time that way. By posting with your profile name revealed, but without disclosing all the details of your intended meeting place and or time, then interested parties can contact you directly, and meetings can be effectively arranged (time, exact location, vehicle details, etc), removing some of the risk element from the encounter. By posting as "Anonymous", members will be indulging in a fruitless exercise... Be safe out there, fellow doggers! Take reasonable precautions!!

DV8

not sure if this is the place to post suggestions. We have been experiencing some crime in durban where a couple are posting to meet then mug the person of their wallets and phones. how can we stop people from posting anonymous posts. must be a member or a VERIFIED member to post on dogging section to help with unwanted viewers or criminals. This is what i posted to admin earlier. what do you other members think? Perhaps have a verified members dogging section to stop unwanted viewers and time wasters and eliminate any risk. Thanks and have a great day

anonymous posts alerts

Harry_Lorraine

Attention all users. 2 swinging heaven members have become pick pocket victims this weekend. Before driving out to catch up on anonymous posts, follow safety first. You can't go and wait for a person you haven't spoke to directly. Who you waiting for? You can't run from car to car looking for someone u haven't spoken to. One male on Friday night got gun-pointed when he stuck his head in to a car at blue lagoon. Criminals do operate as couples to eyeblind their victims. Phone wallet and jewelry were taken by the couple. Look guys - pick pocketers need phones. Due to the fact your e wallet account is their aim. They live off it. One code of 6 numbers and your phone number and your account is done. I hunt these fools for a living fighting crime (espesially) pick pocketers in Florida road. They operate in all areas where they find it easy to operate. Virginia, blue lagoon, LA Lucia promenade, and burman bush become the newest spots. Please be safe. Its not worth it to feed these parasites.

New Germany Nature Reserve.

Stiffy27

To the couple in the Chev bakkie you looked at me but gave no indication for me to alproach thi was Saturday morning

Virginia dogging

ramesh_2009

Hi guys to the couple in a yellow non car I flashed haxards at u u flashed back and then other car came running to us sorry for the other idiots text me I was I white and orange van

Virginia - and the Single Male Problem

It is quite evident, from the posts I have seen here recently, as well as in the Forum, and from what some people have told me, that the behaviour of some (many?) of the single males who hang out at Virginia is causing a lot of issues. It's obvious that Virginia is currently the prime Dogging spot in KZN, but inappropriate behaviour by some guys is causing it to lose its popularity, with many couples saying they are not prepared to go back there.. and so, inappropriate and irresponsible behaviour by a few fools could end up destroying what is a great dogging asset! That would be a great loss, for the dogging fraternity, especially for the couples who are looking for a decent place to enjoy themselves without being pestered (some of whom are there for dogging, and many probably not, just wanting some private time together), a loss to the decent singles who DO know how to behave themselves, and then a loss even to the idiots who have spoilt it all for everyone... This is not preaching to the converted guys who do know how to behave (some couples have even commented on this, and how some guys are really great to have around) - this is a message to the gents who have no idea of how to behave decently at a dogging site: Dogging happens by invitation, with the willing couple allowing you to join them to look or maybe more, but it is BY INVITATION! It's up to them to show you that they are willing to allow you to come closer; NOT for you to go pushing yourself into their space and spoiling their fun (and ultimately your own as well - because they will just leave, and not come back!). By all means, they need to know that you are there, but do not go marching up to a car the moment it arrives, trying to peer in, or - even worse - hauling out your dick and waving it under their noses! All you are going to do is spoil things for everyone, and Virginia will cease to be a great place to go and have some fun! Paradise can become a desert if you exploit the resources too heavily... and that seems to be what's happening here - too many single guys desperately hanging out hoping for some action, and many of them behaving rudely. Please guys - show some respect! Hold back until a couple indicates that they are happy for you to approach. And if they don't, it was not meant to be, and there will likely be another chance some other time. But if you keep spoiling it for the willing couples, EVERYONE will lose out in the end.

Virginia

To the couple in the white NPN suv last night. I was parked right next to you. The Mrs is gorgeous. Was hoping that you were going to come back.

Virginia

Was there last night with my mrs. There were lots of activity but the most annoying was the singles. Never left us alone or gave us a break except for the guy in the silvery BMW. You're a real gentleman. Your patience paid off. Even the wife was very pleased. Thank you. Hope the rest of the idiots behaved like you. Pity that we never exchanged details but will be sure to look you up the next time we're there.

Barrier Road, Sheffield Beach

nostringscuriousthompsonsbay

I came down to the end of Barrier Road to sit at the view point and de-stress, looking over the amazing coastal views towards Ballito. Next thing I see a couple in their car with the seats down and having a raunch. What's the rules around watching? I was too shy to come closer and ended up taking a walk down the path for a quick wank lol. When I came up they were having a smoke and winked at me. Still shy... I just winked back and got in my car to leave. I'm useless at this :( wondering if you two are on this site? You had the white Merc AMG, I was in the ST. Would like to make a date for a re-do lol.

Virginia

Just thought that I'd mention this. I have been going to Virginia for a while now but recently it has been really boring. No real action, l mean with couples, well until this weekend. Wow!!! What a gorgeous couple. The lady was nothing short of perfect. What a show. Thank you guys... They restored my faith in Virginia . Hoping to see more of them and other serious couples like them.